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Why Do Men Cheat?

Why is it so hard for a man to keep one woman?

Why must a man test or taste more than one woman at a time?

Why do men have roving eyes?

Will ladies ever be able to come to term with the saying that "men will always cheat"?

Will there ever be a solution to men's cheating habbit?

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There are men who simply configured for treason. The roots of impermanence – in the wrong upbringing: the child was alone in her family, deprived of parental love and attention. In adulthood, these needs were hyperbolizable, steel neurolemma. Even if a man gets their wish and has many love Affairs outside the family, for him, it still seems insufficient. And he accuses own impermanence of others – say, his little love! Such a person will change until then, until his children the wound is completely tightened.

There is another side to this childhood trauma: nicolasnova child may later develop a fear of deep feelings. That is, it will be capable of love only as long as this feeling will preserve the freshness, emotionality and brightness. When does passion begin to move into more stable and durable, but less bright relationship, a man will lose interest in them. Stay away from such... You Say it like a man. And love your children.

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Probably all women are interested in answer to the question why men cheat. But no woman wants to admit that it can cause concealed within it. I think that the lack of sex is one of the most common cases. Also it is not enough that men violent and extreme emotions of family life. Much depends on women. To a man betrayed sometimes need to bring their ambitions to make sacrifice and as a man wants and how he likes. A woman should be a certain degree actress. All men in the soul of young children and they want attention, affection, understanding and assistance.

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Its rather big and important problem and question for all the women all around the world. Everybody wans to have a husband who would never cheat. But we have to understand that the main cause of this is in us ourselves. As we may inspire men to do the greatest deals in the same time we can be the real reason of their cheating us. We have to be more patient and pay a lot of attention to our men to live in a great love and understanding. They act as big children, and all the children need a big attention of their close people.

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when people meet. they should be honest with each other. and why cheat if you're not satisfied, or not enough sex from him and stuff? The men fled immediately to seek pleasure on the side, instead talk to your woman and to solve all the problems, to avoid further deceit from men. After all, the same man would also be unfortunate if the woman was cheating on him? Few men who forgive cheating, but women forgiving cheating a lot, that men enjoy it. because she still forgive him and justify his having made himself guilty.

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Under my belt my ex-boyfriend used to cheat on me constantly. Actually i abominated him for it and as soon as i discovered that i have found out about all his fooling around behind my back i packed his bags this night. But ow when im looking back at it i realise that probably it was also my fault. I was exhausted from job and so was he. We did not have enough time for sex and emotional connection (honest and sincere conversations and stuff). So i want to give advice to those who are still in relationships never give up and struggle for your love till the very end

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Not all men cheat though

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It is somehow hard to resist

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@poster i take exception to that question. The question should be why do people cheat.

People will cheat because we have lost our sense of decency

people will cheat because they are selfish

people cheat because it sounds like fun.

I could go on.

Cheating applies to both men and women. After all the men don't cheat by themselves. They do it with other women who are also cheats themselves.

But my advise is simple

it is better to be off with the old love before you begin with the new.

And ladies stop hating on the guys. We all are guilty.

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becos they r convetous

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Not only men, women do cheat i don't know if their own case it even worst. But the fact is that if you handle your man very well i don't think he will look outside trust me.

www.yourideal guyorlady.blogspot.com

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@omobadan

That doest sound too good.a woman to touch, is the one you are in a relationship with. it cant be justified, because what men stand too lose is usually too much than a touch. especially if they are married.

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Cheating for men is a natural instinct. I know it sounds bad but it's the truth. We respond to the female magnetism easily. Among us black or Nigerians, it's very common. We just go weak for a female touch regardless of us being in a relationship or not.

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i think men cheat because they dont have the will power to be faithful.they cheat because they are weak.

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It's natural. Some take it to be fun, while others add it to their everyday life character.

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men are naturally promiscuous

thats their nature

its in the blood

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the reason why a man can be unfaithful is when or id the woman is not satisfying his wife.

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Men cheat, women cheat, men lies, women lies so dnt put as if its only men's thing.

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A man who cheats is greedy and trifling. He could have everything he wants and then some still cheats. It take a real man to know when to give the woman the opportunity to stay in the relationship or not. If she stay in the relationship then at least the integrity still intact. Unfortunately, men nowadays do not have integrity and respect for THEMSELVES so they sell themselves short.

Sad.

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Men cheat when they r not satisfied with what or who they have!

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ouuuccchhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Who knows, men can be weak willed in faithfulness. Why they can't be happy with wot they got is a mystery. And what they cheat with is often not better than wot they already got but they do it anyway.

Do men still love their girl while they cheat or is cheating in itself a sign that they don't love and respect their woman? Do men think it's ok for them to cheat but not their woman?

I think men are just self gratifying creatures and what they want they go get without any thoght of consequences.

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men are natural hunters and they like to keep the best and test the rest plain and simple

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efuah, what pary of ghana are you at, will be visiting ghana be4 the end of the year, holla at me, maybe u cld show me around, i am a virgin oh, so dont have bad ideas and dont spooil me for my mama and my nation

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some one said something like why do women cheat. it one man not enough for them, My answer. No body including women do not have the tendencies of having roving eyes and desiring another man. women are also poly gamous if you want to no, But because of been faithful and true to your words, women tend to be faithful cos they are in a steady rlship they desire. So y wont men be faithful because they are true to their words and in a rlship they desire also. I will never accept that ''men always cheat'' because as far as i am concerned everybody wants to taste others too, afetr rall there are too many fine boys out there.But wen you have made a commitment as an adult PLS STICK TO IT.

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Why do men cheat?

Well they have restless minds and get bored easily.

The question is how do some men stay Faithful?

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cheaters should be men's second name, they're never satisfied with what they have. The number of ladies that cheat is relatively small to that of men, and most ladies that cheat do so cos dats what men made them.

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why do lotta men cheat?

why do lotta women stay with cheating men? doesn't that send him the wrong message --that it's okay to cheat, and you don't mind?

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i think it's an adamic nature

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@ Incar-Nav

Glad you could make it to Nairaland with your in car nav, why your fascination with my posts on why men cheat? First of all don't even start me off on why men cheat, my keyboard buttons will pop up all over the place with me tappin so hard on them, you get me. Only men with pea brains cheat, toto na toto.

Meanwhile quit trailing me, I know who you are.

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they cheat cos it's one of their hobbies

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Na wetin we de follow u talk be dt?

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I wonder! But i know d after effect! Imagine feeling like you aint good enough! But in d end u find dt he is d one not good enough for u!

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@N-joy

You must detest men so much - or you have a cheating boyfriend - you are always talking about men cheating- me think you must have a problem with cheating - either u do or your boyfriend does.

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Men cheat just for the fun of it, it's all about meaningless animal sex for them. I wish men would grow up and learn to form a meaningful relationship with the one their with.

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Roscdaddy, that is a kolo definition

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WOMEN ARE EVERY WHERE

rigth left and center

seun hope you are not fooled by that census?

in naija now, to every man there is 7 women.

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Men and women are basically the same; they will cheat if the opportunity arises and the temptation is strong.

It's not a male problem; how come randy men are always able to find willing women to sleep with them?

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@rhino, you're guy so you should understand totally. Unless a man has some restraining factor HE WILL CHEAT. Most common factors are the "Fear of God" and "Principles"

Fear of God in taht you'd want to keep His commandments and cheating goes against 1 or more of those(commandments)

Principle (I'm more familair with this 1). You just don't want to.

Fear(Of losing your love) Might also be added

Otherwise What the Bleep. You have urges.

Even If you don't go looking you have female friends that want you. I man can't run that far (Eva notice there's rarely any case of sex harassment from the male side) We want it.

Money is Just an added advantage (Big 1 THough) so makes the control easier

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@Rhino

When i say cheating is Natural, I mean thats the way we guys are configured from the creator. It was in the new testament, when christ came that he modified it, but hey, he modified the law, and not the human body. Cant say more than that for the sake of some peeps on nairaland.

So cuz, its just natural to cheat on your woman.

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but it is so hard to trust a woman, likewise women cant trust me, i guess this generation is just in trouble, blvs that all the good ones are gone

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well one thing's for sure , I will make it worth ur while!!!!

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not all men

i really do find that hard to believe.

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but u will agree with me that it will be hard to know when and how to sumbit ur heart to a woman, would be nice though, but hard, cos many ladies has used that word love to drive men crazy

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$$Rhino, the minute you realise that you have meet the woman that sums up all you want and gives you her heart totally , thats when you will know. Trust me!

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Rhino ,  if u no da answer to your question y u asking eh? their radar comes from down south which is why they don't see women for their personality and inner beauty. they are only swayed by the expertise coming from down south,  if u no what i mean

chidi if you're not sure if you cheat or not then there must be something seriously wrong with you or maybe u've never been in a commited relationship.

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www.iwannabelike$$rhino.cum

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Is that even a real web page?

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