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Why Do Men Fall So Cheap By Sleeping With Their Girlfriends Before Marriage?

Why do men fall so cheap by stooping so low to sleep with their girlfriends before getting married?

Marriage means that the man's body and his wife's body belong to each other

therefore having a sex affair outside marriage is like a type of stealing.

If your woman really loves you, she should respect that body by accepting your ring and say "I DO"(get married) before sleeping with you.

I am 25 years old and still a virgin and I will not dare to sleep with any man outside marriage.

I will treat him like a gentleman he deserves by getting married before the next level.

fellas out there, take my advice and stop being cheap. Thanks

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@IgboGirl,

you do well, give glory to GOD. you said that "therefore having a sex affair outside marriage is like a type of stealing." Rather, having "a sex affair outside marriage" is either adultery and/or fornication, which is sin which comes with consequences. Not standing in personal judgment of anyone, GOD forbid, just stating what GOD says, and thus the truth.

“Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” - Hebrews 13:4

"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God." - 1 Cor 6:9-10

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And how is a guy cheap when he sleeps with his gf?!

If she says NO, what more can he do?!, any further acts will lead To Molest. Simple.

if she says YES, does that mean the guy is cheap?

Please, i think this question is misdirected. Also being a virgin is a personal choice and it doesnt change who you really are.

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See this slowpoke.

You call me cheap when am getting all dem holes. Your too ugly to get noticed ( A victim of circumstance ) thats why u think ur a virgin . Stop bitching and hope someday u get laid.

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There's nothing bad in it if a lady/guy decides to remain virgin till marriage, as a matter of fact that is how it should be, it's something to be proud of. Such people are to be commended in this age of moral decadence. And for those that believe that chastity is something of the old skool, well I dont believe it makes them any less humans. But the truth be told sex before marriage is wrong.

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@ Blakkboi

Another frustrated and cheap man! Don't be jealous of my virginity. I can borrow a trumpet and announce it all over NL if I want to and there ain't nothing you can do about it well, except whine or cry about it which you're definitely doing a good job at.

I should be telling you to go to bed, isn't it bed time already in Nigeria? pssshh!

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No hard feelings from me too. next time just stop exposing your ignorance and dirty linen in public. one love

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Wateva man y do the same 'ladies' agree?abeg. . .

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@Igbogirl.

Since u have decided to die a virgin why come here to disturb busy nailanders?. You and Jmore needs to get laid and stop being pathetic, coming here to bragg with something that is of no value to the 21st century world. By the way who told u that u are a virgin?. Anyway I will assume i is just just your state of mind.

Go sleep abeg

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The post must really be hurting you cos u keep throwing insults anyhow. It's not my fault that you got disvirgined at an early age by your housemaid or was it your gateman? So, sending your anger towards me will not solve your personal issues. Go to therapy and talk it out with ppl who know what u r going thru and stop wasting your time insulting me.

U call someone a slowpoke yet u were so slow to realize exactly what this thread is all about. U take the 'slowpoke trophy' of the day. congrats!

I will excuse your ignorance for what u probably went thru as a kid so accept my sympathy.

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Dear no mind me. just looking for her trouble

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Chiddy, what is your headache? She is 25 and she is a virgin. Let her speak her mind.

Enough of this jor.

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See who is talking about ignorance. Have you even taken time to read the post you copied? slowpoke

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Many women would prefer it before the wedding night.

10 years, my live in lover then said she could not do without sex and that was why I let her a month to our wedding. She is a Nigerian actress.

Many babes want to go out with guys for fun and marriage is a life time sacrifice.

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You're still busy spewing ur ignorance? you need help! so a virgin shouldn't know about relationships? just cos ur life and relationship depend on sex doesn't mean others' are like that.

if all u eat and breathe is sex then the hell are u doing here? shdn't u be busy screwing some chic?

"imported baboon" <----- this must be some new words u leant today, yea?

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What do you know about relationships? i thought you claiming to be so righteous yet can't do without your houseboy. just wait, he will soon leave, then you will tell me you're now 'born-again. Anu mpam. just imagining an imported baboon claiming to have a boyfriend while your mates are busy changing the diapers of their second baby.

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@igbogirl. When i saw this post, I thought it was mine till I read carefully and saw that you replaced the gender on both sides. You copied my post exactly.

QUOTE FROM JMOORE from link http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=457466.0.html

"Why do ladies fall so cheap by stooping so low to sleep with their boyfriends before getting married?

Marriage means that the woman's body and her husband body belongs to each other

therefore having a sex affair outside marriage is like a type of stealing.

If your man really loves you, he should respect that body by putting a ring on you and say "I DO"(get married) before sleeping with you.

I am 25 years old and still a virgin and I will not dare to sleep with any lady outside marriage.

I will treat her like a lady she deserves by getting married before the next level.

ladies out there, take my advice and stop being cheap. Thanks"

Anyways I do not know your motive for writing this. I was not attacking the women folk when I made the post. the same applies to men. Anyone either man or woman who engages in premarital sex is playing cheap and has devalued his or her body."

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Hey big father. I know ur are just frustrated. If u read my message very well u will see where i said its impossible for me to. About my jamb? I ve long past that stage. Am in my 2nd year. Are ur potential future CBN governor. I want to ask u a very important question. DO U BELIEVE IN ANYTHING AT ALL?

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Iwu ewu mmeee! So having a boyfriend equals sex? Ppl only get in relationship just for sex? and also not having sex at age 25 means I've not made head or tail of what to do with my life? I didn't know having sex means one has made it in life.

You're so ignorant it's heartbreaking!

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@Op

Did i hear you say you have a boyfriend? You better stop fooling yourself. Your houseboy of a boyfriend will soon take off once he lays his hands on what he is waiting for. Mumu, @ the age of 25, you have not made a head or tail of what to do with your life. Imported baboon, just imagining you saying "i have a boyfriend". Alakori eniyan. Please next time, if you are frustrated about not being sexually satisfied, say so diplomatically at least i trust nairalanders, they will come to your rescue and not trying to rub your frustrations on happy people living their lives. ANU OFIA

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wait ooh brother

for how many years~

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Well, that one thing is wrong cos I have a man! try again. What hole are you referring to? Don't mistake me for ur sister, pls!

You really need to learn how to read and how to comprehend. Where in my post did I talk about what I did with my body in my room? Na wa oh!

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i was fooling my self with a girl 4 12 yrs believing she is a virgin men wat a wack

though along the relationship i had other interesting relationships

only this made me strong.

sorry no more virgin my Bottom

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@ poster,

One thing is telling me that the reason you are claiming virginity @ 25 is either you have not found your own man or your hole is simply too wide you can't risk your man venturing inside without you having a marriage certificate as an insurance in case he decides to take off. Sorry if am wrong, but from your post, you are not sounding happy being a virgin. Is it because most of your age mates have started having their own families and you are still grappling with "virginity" instead of buying pampers? My dear, what you do with your body in the privacy of your room is strictly your business and it should remain so. Peace

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so because say u be virgin u know want make we hear word again,

okay congrate, at 25 while the disvirgin ones do marry born pikin finish

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@ iboGirl, i luv your virtues. such virtues are hard to find these days. so keep it up.let no one take your pride. you are Great that's why you are not like others. i"d like to be you friend if you don't mind. get my mail add. ndcide@yahoo.com

I'm serious plz.

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Hi IgboGirl i saw ur post. Nice. Am proud of u. I neva knew virgins still exist. Am 20 and still a virgin. Dont be moved by those guys filled with guilt. They know the have failed. They know they should have done better. We u re rare, u re scarce. One in a million. Infact i want to get married to u. Only that that would be a dream. I just wanted u to know that no matter what someone unknown, someone not seen, someone out there admires you. You re really a dream girl to someone. Take care.

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B4 nko ? Tell what would make a right thinkin man be attracted to a dirty and stinkin lunactic ? If not for being possed by d devil !

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The invisible mama_gee always everywhere lol

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Grab sugarcane,is about to get hot in here

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If you didn't care you wouldn't have replied so stop kiddin yourself

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yay it's the last virgin in Nigeria and guess what she is an igbo girl  oooooooooh  ahhhhhhhhhhhh

poster get a life no one cares about what you do in your bedroom

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Oh no,not again!!Another virgin thread.The 15th in less than a week.Honestly this is starting to get exasperating.Ok poster,thank God for your life,can we move on?

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Is that the meaning of ur own cheap? Lol

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