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Why Do Men Marry?

remember I mentioned men and women thread will come another day!

I would like two know reasons eg For love,companion,help,babies and all that stuff

so lets go! I believe every man or lady here will give variable reasons as to why men marry

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@ rhodalyn

men aren't supposed to keep it in their pants,

and women aren't supposed to keep their legs closed

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@ Topic

Its known that Nigerians answer question with questions heh.

So why do women marry?

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to Bleep whenever you want

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men married to legalize sex and control their woman.

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cuz of luv n 2 ve a family

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Suen STOP STOP STOP! For Gods sake what do you mean. Am married with a lovely daughter. My wife, my daughter, my home is all fun. My wife is not anly a companion but the captain that runs the family. Am there just to provide. Next time please crosscheck your views before posting all that rubbish bout Nigerian men. Its important!

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Afeni

are you serious?

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@everybody

I think it was writen in the BIBLE and there is coming a time women will be begging men, ever now the ladies you see going to do prostitution needed men but didn't find any, some find in their home of prostitution.

And there is coming a time men will marry seven women each.Although LoVe has to come in tell.

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I have no idea. Personally, I am not interested in getting married. I would rather not waste resources on things that have no clear benefit.

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What has love got to do with it?

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Hehe. Well I think one should marry someone who brings out the best in one's self.

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Who owns that beautiful bouncing kid? Am pulled to marriage as I need one of my own

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becos they need family,and they need kids

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because, They need someone to keep them focused when they're off track, lol

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I wonder if these people are African men or Indians. When was a man married in Africa?

Have you ever left your parents to join a woman at her place?

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I wonder if these people are African men or Indians. When was a man married in Africa?

Have you ever left your parents to join a woman at her place?

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Men don't marry. Rather, they are married by women! Check this out in the dictionary. Why do men allow themselves to be married by women? The answer is, he is completely helpless, vulnerable and weak. Chikena!

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i guess, its just for the kids. What else?.

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@ Nwoke, right on! Those were always my suspicions, so tx for confirming them.

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at least they want that tool at home not outside and u shld be glad they even want to fool around with her at all.

many would rather fool around outside.

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Men marry because they want a tool at home so dat they fool around out-home

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@4 Play , so silly of u to generalise men, and how can you say men would rather be castrated. haba, Men no be dog now, which kind evil modification be dt. Anyways like someone has said, put your name instead of most men.

Everyone one has thier reason for getting marriage. For Love, For God and for Continuity.

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Sopme just one to cook. thats all

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Please delete the words "most men" and replace with your name. There are millions of men (urs sincerely included) who are waiting anxiously to spend the rest of their lives with a single companion!

No sane man will ever wish to marry more than one wife or wish to maintain hundreds of concubines besides his wife. it is both emotionally and financially draining. I look forward to nothing more than a quiet life with my wife and future kids!

Stop using "most men" as a smokescreen to legalise your irresponsible behavior. "Most men" are not dogs.

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Z4M4eva link=topic=11734.msg331043#msg331043 date=1146574227]

They get married 'Cos they are in love, and want to spend the rest of their life with their partner

Sorry to dissapoint you but most real men will rather be castrated with a blunt knife than desire to spend the rest of their life with a single partner.

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Marriage is there to ensure the pre-planned continuity of the human race.

Pre-planned becaause children will be raised in a more structured manner. Yes, single mothers and fathers can raise children, but

Personally I would want to marry because I would wish to consolidate the love I have for my girlfriend. I would liken it to consolidating wealth in an investment policy. You invest your love and commitment and watch it grow and flourish. You invest wisely, you reap wisely.

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They get married 'Cos they are in love, and want to spend the rest of their life with their partner.

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Men just gatto do what they gatto do. and dont forget that you do somethings because you want to do it and somethings are that you have to do. so in my opinion. you marry because you just have to marry and at that person who has 40 more years to live b4 marriage, May God Help you. Amen

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Men ( i mean me!) get married for the following reasons:

1. companionship - no matter how long you "play the game", there will come a time you will long to have that someone u can rely on, confide in, love, care for, have pillow fights with, take walks with, hold hands with, yell at and get yelled at, take out the thrash for, someone to nag u once a while.

2. Kids - you stare at other kids and u're wondering how urs would look like, how would it feel to hold YOUR baby in ur arms, whih school would you put him/her ( i vote for HER!).

3. Peace of mind - no more looking at other girls (well, random looks still allowed).

4. Sex - it's all part of the package.

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If you think men get married just to have easy sex or because they can't control their d**k, I wonder why women play part in it! Does that mean women are cheap/easy sex objects? so marriage is now for sex and sex only purpose? I can't believe some post and replies people make here! someone even said its "for free sex" do you have to get married for sex? We sound smarter when we close our mouth instead of saying sh**t just for oppinion, comments, or talking sake! NL should be wiser than this!

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Our husbands!

1.No one is saying he married because she was pregnant

2.or cos it was the about time,or injury time or out of time

3. or you marry because of security,source of income or prestige

4. To gain religious or social support

5.tired of dating

6. Asked or forced to do so

7For status

Those are the answers we want to hear cos the biblical one and love thing we already know. What has love got to do with tis?

Pls be realistic we need all sorts of reaspons cos it differs with individual me!

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Well

I will speak for maself

I will marry cos it's the othodox thing to do

Because I need a real life partner forever

I wanna go to heaven holding someone by ma side

I don't wanna be 35 and not have kids

I wanna spend ma life with that 1 special gal

shizzle , I wanna marry for 100 reasons

can't think of them all

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He's right that married people are generally richer and healthier than unmarried people. This could simply be because when people start thinking of marriage when they are doing well in life.

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Men who are not yet married!

You should marry cos its scientifically proven married men live ten years more than unmarried!

Secondly they make thrice more money than unmarried

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To marry is to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for A Woman and any children you may have together till death. To marry is actuall one of the most sacred acts Man can do.

Initially AND still - men and women are to remain virgins until marriage then they will have intercourse after the ceremony. This is called Consummation ie Completion or Bringing to Perfection.

It is a Very Holy act between two people.

Should the woman be a virgin (as she SHOULD) then her hymen should be intact. The breaking of it during the act of (first) sex will release blood. That blood will make contact with the husbands joystick and what you have is a (biblical) BLOOD COVENANT. The same type of covenant God has made with all of Man via the Blood of Christ. This is what God intends for us all. That is the covenent a man will have with his wife.

To marry is to create a family. Family means 'Fathers House' that means the Husband is the Absolute authority accountable to God. For this reason a Woman can put herself under his authority because she knows that his actions towards her will be of Gods guidelines. Gods calls for men to lead/ dicsiple his house Gen 3:16.

A man who marries does so because he is READY to take the Authority and Accountability of a Husband.

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Men marry because, at a stage in everyone's life, U need a patner. That particular someone! That'll be there for you.

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Our God  has made a man in a Divine Order to search for his missing ribs or flesh of his flesh.  

But if a man don't find a mate in life to marry then Man must not live by bread alone  

You can marry your hands  and chill your self  with self-service,

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i totally concor with Nwoke's opinion but the foremost reasons is submission to the will of God because thats the only reason why it is imoral for a child to have more than one father and thanks to the holy book because i know some guys wey go just want dey tosibe till jesus come,.

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Nigerian Men get married because:

1) They want someone to carry their babies.

2) They want someone to cook and clean for them.

3) They want to show the world that they have 'arrived'.

4) They want easier sex (sadly, this is only a mirage).

5) They need someone to boss around ('head').

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God sanctioned marriage so its a must

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bcoz they r predisposed 2 fall in love w/ da opposite sex

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