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Why Do Most Married Men Cling On External Affairs?

Why do most married men cling on external affairs? This is becoming a culture to most men. Women are usually the ones to maintain and build their marriage, why? You may not agree with me but most of my friends are married and even the ones i meet in some social gathering are all married but you hardly see them with their wives in most social events, you only see them with their gal friends. Addendum, is it normal?

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Old habits are hard to break. The bad habits the men indulged in prior to marriage would not suddenly stop just because they got married.

A good man with fine personal values will not partake in that mess.

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mnnnn, you have a point

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While the friggin topic begs the obvious, dude.

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i am just saying that u are just stating the obvious

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I didnt know you were asking for help

cos, indeed i'm not

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Well, some of these wives have also cheated with other women's husband while they were single, so in those cases, na repercussion dey catch up with dem.

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THE ONLY PROBLEM THIS GUYS ARE FACIN IS DAT THEY THING THEY ARE WISE AND VERY SMART THEY DONT KNOW THAT WHAT IS GOOD FOR GOOSE IS GOOD FOR GANDER. AN ADAGE SAYS ( IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO) WHEN THEY GO OUT THERE RELAXIN WITH THE BEST BABE IN TOWN THEIR WIFE IS AT HOME WITH THE GATEMAN, COOK, OR EVEN HIS COUSIN EMJOYIN HER SELF SINC THIS silly REPSINSIBLE HUSBAND WILL BE COMIN BACK 12AM OR EVEN 2AM IN THE MORNING AND COLD THEY THIS TIME WEY RAIN THEY FALL AND IF HE ARRIVE THEY WILL BOTH PRETEND NOTHIN HAPPEN , BESIDES HIS WIFE IS GOIN INTO THE WARM ARMS OF HER BOSS NEXT DAY . WHAT BAFFLES ME MOST IS THEY THINK THEY ARE SMART BUT THEY KEEP BEING THE FOOL ALL DAY LONG.

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Men r like children, they always love newer "toys" (Sorry for d analogy). Men love adventure and always wanna explore where there's risk. Its in our blood.

It takes serious self discipline to remain faithful not just love.

I dont cheat on my wife though and i'm not planning to.

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I have heard the excuses given before. If you want to taste other flavors, just dont get married.

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Why are you blaming the men? Aren't they cheating with YOU .

Try saying a resounding NO next time

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could you please be elaborate on what could be the cause for a man not to be happy in his matrimonial home. perhaps we could trace other men that perpetuate similar act with such. pardon me if i'm asking for much

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your points are well noted

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most of those who engage in this unholy act are those who are not happy in their marriages but have no choice but to stay put , also there are some category of men who indulge in it simply because its the in thing among the circle of friends they keep. thats influence. 2 be contd!

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interesting, could you possibly accord your wive the privilege of having her way ones in a year without stings

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well resion for that is i cant eat meat everday i need diffrient thing varity is spaice of the life so once in year fling is ok for my side ,

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