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Why Do Most Women Prefer Having Men As A Friend/confidant Rather Than Ladies?

It beats my imagination when i chat / talk to ladies and you hear them say that they prefer keeping male friends rather than keepin gfemale friends. How do they discuss intimate/private issues with opposite sex? At the end of the day, you descover that some of them end up having what i call "sympathy relationship". Here you see them both dating each other or thereabout.

Can i get answers to these PLEASE?

Joe

honpecco2k4@yahoo.com

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because most women love to gossip and sample other peoples dirty laundry under broad day light with halogen.

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I think it's becuz women can be concerned that a female friend might use info told about the r'ship to go about stealing her friend's man.

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No talk am again. I am not your husband, neither your lover.

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You better wake up and start living. This is your only chance.

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Which next world? You better live this one well because there is no next world.

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Not always true. . .men can tell tales too.

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You know we all have our life-destroying secrets, and should they be spread to public view, you are as good as finished. Also, an unshared secret renders one rusty, so in the bid to find someone who is worthy to be confided in, ladies prefer the men as they are believed to be less talkative, and this has proved true over the centuries. You tell a lady your secret, she latches on to it to destroy you when you quarrel. But a man would rather die with a secret than spread it.

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its just dats maybe dey want some1 dats a different sex from dem in it

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Women we need to come together!

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Every girl complains about their sex being dramatic, jealous,gossips and all that. dont dispute all that but search within yourself,have you never harboured any jealous feelings towards a fellow girl or gossiped?

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gurls betray you, a guy would want to maintain his gentlemanliness by keepin hismouth shut, but not all gurls are loudmouthed sha, cos i cud keep a secret

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Babymine u're right but men gossip just that u can have more confident in the opposite sex, because u have no similarities to compete for.And the guys can easily give in for the girls, asper give them free hand around them, listen well to the girl and take care of her even if they are not going out.

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Just one reason. Because we rule the world!

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Some girls are jus plain BITCHES!. . .if you tell them sumthing in confidence and tell them 2 keep it 2 themselves they probably wouldn't!. . . but with guys its different because they gossip less . . . and most gals' issues involve a guy so its better to talk 2 one who will give u better advice. . .

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jgc

ur husbadn should not be meeting up wiht his femal friednds and eatng wiht them. then y the hell did he marry u. see marriage is a big sacrifice and people dont see it, all my male friends like me and if i got marriedn tomorrow, i hope y husband would frown on me seeing them and calling them, what does ur husband need them for to talk to when he has u. so tell him to stop that nonsense, he should have known that before he got married and what kind of advice did he get from his parents about marriage anyway, look that BS should stop nownownownwo.

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i love girls, they are better friends than men

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girl,

if you feel your one, you can claim it, but dont generalize and call all girls b1tches.

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Sweetie i have been betrayed by a girlfriend before. so i know where your coming from. Girls can be downright malicious. Guys aren't really malicious but they can disrespect you in different ways.

For me i really dont put that much trust in people, so that when something happens I'm not too surprised.

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@Radiant and Nilla

hhhmm i guess you girls have never been betrayed before by your girl friends.dont get me wrong i have got girl friends but i think out of the multitude its only two i can bring myself to trust.yea guys have their mishaps but i think if you have a guy as a friend (i mean genuine friend,he is not down to date or flirt with you.but just wants to be your friend)he is far more trust worthy than a girl friend.experience has taught me that.

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cause i think my friends who are guys are more trust worthy than my girl friends,girls tend to talk a lot and so a secret is never safe with us.

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honpecco simple they need a chest and shoulder to rest on in times of need, lol

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@ topic,

I've heard a lot of girls say that. and some of their reasons for that is girls gossip, backbite, are jealous etc. But i dont buy that crap. the ones that complain about these are usually the ones that do all that they complain about.

For me i dont mind having girlfriends that are mature of course.

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I Prefer that too,ve got male friends whom i sometimes confide in and i do dat cos some female can be really noisy about watever u tell dem.And some ladies can gossip like its their hobby and i 8 all dat so i prefer all to ve male friends.

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@kadeejah

you did prove a point. na me, i like am jo. the things i learn from them can never be learnt anywhere else.

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because gurlz are b*tchez and no matter how much we deny it we all are. ye im a b*tch too thats why i don't tell otha b*tchez about ma problems because b*tchez will be b*tchez so therez bound 2 be problems. all girls are b*tchez period! there are just some that are bigger b*tchez than others*i kno i said b*tch alot but i was trying to prove a point*

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long story really. But the long and short of it all is that it keeps us in touch with our masculine sides - same as guys have loads of female confidantes. keeps them in touch with their feminine sides. Then you both know both sides of the story/game and can go out and play well. makes sense?

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cuz most ladies are bitches!! untrustworthy n filled wit jealousy!!! Men dnt go aba bitching n gossiping aba a gals secret!!!

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i have a female co worker who say's she rather hang out with guyz than chicks, she see's chicks as overly too dramatic, and there is always this statement she likes to make *if women are fighting, there is obviously a D**K involved*. But when it comes to personal issues, i think women would rather share it with other women, no matter how tense their relationship is. just ma two cents

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is it ok for my husband to have women friends an go out to eat for lunch on there lunch break

would i be wrong to get jealous about it

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