why do naija ladies wait until they are worn out b4 they get married?why this trend?
I find it really very annoying to see people here not responding to threads objectively:
They either turn it to a joke or a gender battle!
Why can't we reason objectively?
Well, i think what the poster should have asked is:
"why do naija Ladies wait till they are past their prime before they get married"?
Put this way it removes the sting from the post and maybe stop our female folks from seeing it as a gender attack.
Lots of reason abound as to why our women fails to get married until they are past their prime.
Some of this reasons are:
*Some wait for a particular man who had promised marriage and at the end of the day failed to live up to his promise.
*Others wait for the supposedly Mr. Right without looking for ways to make themselves Miss Right.
*Some just felt that it was not yet time until,
*Yet others wanted to "enjoy" the good things of life.
*Some parents also contribute to this as some are bent on a particular criterion for their in laws to be.
*Wicked people also "jazz" young women into not being "attractive" to suitors.
*Others too are generational curses following them.
*Some are in love with their "freedom" until we-all-know-the-answer.
* others set lofty standards for themselves: A college/master Degree, a house and car, good jobs etc before settling down only for them to be disillusioned along the way!
PEOPLE, THE LIST IS (JUST) ENDLESS!
First and foremost it belongs to you people and the way you lay your bed you lie on it. You ladies gave the men access to it for what reasons? Money, fun or what? You ladies join the men in condemning virgins and supporting the idea that we all need sexual experience before going into a married life. Who gains and who looses in this experiment? the signs are self evident but you ladies don't want to see it.
Did you miss the thread where a guy was complaining about his Girl friend sagged bosom after sleeping with her for four months? Some men here are messing girls up and will still boldly come out to say they want to marry a virgin. Don't you see men here on nairaland saying they will shine their eyes before getting married because of what his happening in our campus? Who are the pimps and who are those messing these girls up? Did you miss the thread where men are saying their intending wife's will have to get pregnant before they tie the knot. Did you also miss the thread that says what if your GF comes home and tell you baby i am pregnant? will you accept or reject the pregnancy? Please go and read guys comment in those thread and see for yourself. Then ask again whose fault is it?
I am not blaming the ladies 100 percent, don't get me wrong. The society and economic reality also has its blame and other factors as well but the majority of the blame should go to the ladies. If you ladies never game them the chance to mess you up then there will not be a need for this situation.