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Why Do Nigerian Men Lie?

well every time i meet a Nigerian man where i live they lie their name , why is it like that and after i while if they know that you now know their real name they try to cover it up,

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As if its every nigerian men tht lie+ as if nigerian ladies dont tell lies

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nigerian men lie because nigerian girls/women expect them to attain unrealistic goals, both financially and emotionally,thats why an average guy abroad will not lie because there s no unnecessary demands on them by the woman

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@albridge well anyways so you mean Nigerian women lie too the same as some Nigerian man do?? sorry im not Nigerian but im just trying to understand, of course people we all lie but have noticed that everytime i meet a Nigerian man where i live they lie about whom they are no idea why they do that, there is no one guy who told me the truth nop, well i have never dated one so i have no idea

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lmfao!! NJ HJ you're not serious.

sh%$ZZz6t indeed! lol

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women lie, men lie numbers dont. You are also not telling us the truth cos what would make a man to lie about his name? Maybe you dont know how to strike up a conversation. maybe you somehow evade their space with your question. Or maybe another myopic generalization of "Nigerian men"

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hei guys,

we are going off the topic,

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there si something wrong with her. please help

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even if you've not heard. wetin concern me?

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We hv heard!

Awon pearly!

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Love on in tokyo nl

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You mean why do Nigerian man lie more than naija women?

Cuz both parties lie.

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Oh whatever. nevermind.

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What about the EFCC? Them catch you? I told you to yahooze carefully. Gamine where's your boyfriend?

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dont think most Naija girls care about the looks,all they wanna know is if you've got the chedas and see you flont like a peacock.

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wetin you wan make i do? when love no go, person go.

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No offtopic.

Exclude me from y'all. THANKS.

The naija men I know are not ugly.

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I cant find a lab this early morning abeg o

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It doesn't matter if they're ugly, y'all still date them. Ugly enough to date them ugly naija women no be so?

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how 'bout ''why do nigerian ladies lie'' a bunch of them lie a lot but we don't seem to know.why? cos they are so good at it.ppl tend to hear much from the ladies side and let the guys be the bad ones.

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@topic,

not just only nigerian men . . . alot of them do. its just in their nature.

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I AM A NIGERIAN MAN

AND, I DON'T LIE.

oops, does that counts as a lie?

O WELL, EVERYBODY LIES. IT DOES NOT MATTER WHERE YOU COME FROM. AS LONG AS YOUR BLOOD IS REDDISH, YOU ARE A LIER FOREVER, EVEN DEAD PEOPLE LIES

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HI,

LET ME BURST UR BUBBLE,I AM A RELATIONSHIP TEACHER 4 THE PAST 8YRS(I WAS MENTORED BY BISHOP OYEDEPO.PST KUMUYI,PASTOR BIMBO,BISHOP JAKES ON THIS SUBJECT),HIS TRADITION IS STRONGER THAN HIM,HIS FOLKS IF THEY ARE NOT GOD FEARING WILL MAKE LIFE HORRIBLE 4 U,THE ISSUE THAT HE WILL NOT BE LIVING IN AFRICA IS A LIE,U CAN'T PIN HIM DOWN,HIS CULTURE THAT WARRANT TO MARRY AFRICAN GIRL FROM HIS OWN PEOPLE WILL MAKE HIM TO STAY WITH HIS PEOPLE TO PERFORM HIS CULTURAL,SO U WILL BE ON THE LOSING END/BCM FRUSTRATED.

IF HE IS REALLY IN LOVE WITH U,LET HIM FORGET THE CULTURE THING STAY WITH WHERE U ARE & MARRY U,IF HE CANT DO THAT FORGET HIM NOW,BUT ENSURE HE GETS CLOSER TO GOD.

I WILL TALK ON EMOTIONAL HEALING LATER U NEED THAT,UR LIFE IS MORE IMPT 4 HE CREATE A GO SLOW 4 / GET STUCK IN THE WAY.

REACH ME ON 08055831857,037771221.

PHI,

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Hi PHILEOLOVE 

I have not stopped his right to perform his tradition. But we are both in love, if the tradition is true, its fine, but is there any chances of him not getting married to an African woman to continue this tradition.

He said that he is in love with me, even if he is married according to the tradition, he will not be leaving in Africa and that he still wants to marry me! Than, why even bother getting married because of Traditon, right.

I just think that tradition is something that is get by human! So im sure " tradition" can tolerate certain issue, right!!

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Hei,

I was hoping someone could help me with this tradition issue!!!! I have no clue! Pls

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HI GUYS,IN ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT WILL STAND THE TEST OF TIME,1ST U HAD TO DEFINE IT,(2)DISCUSS WHERE U ARE COMING FROM ONCE ITS GETTING TO ABT 3MTHS INTO THE DATE(3)RAISE THE ISSUE OF FAMILY BACKGROUNDS (4)TRUST UR INTUITION TO GUIDE U.NOW LISTEN,I UNDERSTAND THAT THERE IS AN EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT ALREADY,SWEET HEART,LISTEN THE GUY IS MEANT 4 U IF U TRY TO GO FURTHER U WILL REGRET CRYING/LOOKING 4 LOVE COS THE PEOPLE WILL HATE U THAT U ARE TRYING TO STOP THEIR CHILD FROM PERFORMING HIS RIGHT.

IN CASE,U NEED FURTHER INSTRUCTION RESPOND TO THIS,I WILL FORWARD MY PHONE NO.

JUST TRUST/BELIEVE HIM 4 THE BEST.I TRIED TO ADDRESS THE LADY'S PROBLEM AND IS NOT REALLY A CASE OF WHY DO NIGERIAN MEN LIE,I WOULD ADDRESS THAT LATER.

PHILEOLOVE

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Hi lady maybe U do lie also

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i believe ur d one askin. but with ur horrible face dey get confused and say sometin else. now u know.

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It's the compulsive liars you have to stay clear of. Men/women will lie just to get want they want.

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wat kinda men do u meet?d agberos i guess,cos they r d only pple dat wont wanna say their real names,cos of its thick and terrible meaning

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the whites are bigger liars----no hard feelings,

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@ poster

shut the f********kup

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same reason why ladies lies.

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Because you ladies like lies

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Nigerian men lie because by nature, they are designed to avoid harm and punishment, even if individuals have to lie in order to do so, same as every other race of men and women

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Nigerian men lie because they do not want to be caught in any crime

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@topic, the average Nigerian has like 2-3 names. So you probably heard someone call him one name and some other call him another and that's why you think he is lying.

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You have only proved yourself a liar

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Why the generalization?

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This kind of topic are getting rampant. And frankly, they're boring the hella of me!

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Some or most men lie, reason being that when you tell a woman the truth she doubt your sincerity, but when you tell her a lie she tends to believe you, if you notice men that are sincere, do not have fiancee, but those that lice have a fleet of them

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Why do Nigerian man lie?

Are u trying to generalize or something because i don't get it with your English? or is it Nigerian men in Vancouver? and have you met all of them? you need to meet millions of other Nigerian men (including me), see if we all lied , then I would comment otherwise you've been meeting liars not Nigerian men

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they don't want me for what? its not about sexual but in general they do the very 1st time you meet them

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Whats in a name anyways

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It is not because they dont want you but because they are unsure of what you would be at first.

When they now know you better, they can tell you their real name.

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