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Why Do Nigerian Women Not Respect The Men?

Why do Naija females not respect the men? They act like they are the men in the r/ship and dont want the stress of being accountable to a person. My opinion? If you do not want to be accountable to anyone, get the heck out of the r/ship!

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Lol, Funny but nice one.

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@ poster, i think it depends on if you are rich or poor,

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Good god-- you've noticed this too, my good man?

I was just tellin' this one sista named "iice" on here about that.

black women-- the world over are losing their minds and the respect of their men along with it, it seems!

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one thing leads to another, and from another thing, to another. these women so to say need space. very big one. u just gatta giv em dat space u know. but on the other hand, please let the guy in qoute be fulfilled first in his buisness or endeavor, let there be enof moni first, cos the way poo is going, ladies need challenges not submisssives.

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You must be speaking some out of earth grammar i don't understand. Cos i find not just naija women, but african women just tooo respectful to be true. If only i can continentalize in another continent.

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I am SO FREAKING GLAD I AM AN AMERICAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Lots of Nigerian women are respectful & submissive (sometimes to a fault). Most women that I know have been brainwashed to believe that their husbands are mini-god to be revered & worship

On the other hand, if you want accountability then be prepared to give same, respect beget respect. If you are not the one wearing the pant its difficult to demand accountability or to earn respect!

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It's true, AND IT'S AFFECTING THEM (Ladies) SO LEAVE THEM WITH THEIR PROBLEM AS YOU CAN EVEN SEE HOW THEY ARE ACTING TO THE POST.

NO WONDER MOST OF THEM KEEPS SAYING THEY'VE NOT SEEN THEIR MR RIGHT AND GUYS PREFER USING THEM AND DUMP THEM BLA BLA BLA , WHY WOULD THEY MEET THEIR MR RIGHT WHEN THEY ARE NOT RESPECTFUL AND SUBMISSIVE AND WHICH GUY WOULD GET SETTLED WITH A SPOILT GIRL?.

BUNCH OF -------------

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oh dear another Naija men vs women thread!!!

****am outta here***

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What more do you want? You want them to worship and kiss your feet everyday? Wake up son.

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We feel a lady dis-respective when we allow the two Influence to clash in our heart.(Western and our Local one).

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^^u're right. There's no big deal about it. As long as there's peace in d relationship. Why should u be the one to tell her what to do and when to it? I'm not her father neither are we married.

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@ topic, its just a reverse form of inferiority complex from women. a lot of women were raised to think that they were in competition with men, as such that engenders all the attitudes of superiority masked as equality. "what a man can do bla bla bla, that statement is the dumbest ever, what bearing does it have to do with anything, men and women are competing now? for what? our worlds are differenttssssk

cast your mind back to schooling days and the girls who were academically competitive, do you remember the attitude and fierce competitive thing esp with the boys, like she had something to prove?

applies mostly to daughters of spiteful, hurt women and single mothers

As an aside, may i ask the question why women feel that in a position of authority, the males have issues with working with them or receiving orders from them?

i say this because i noticed this everyday around me, the women just behave stereotypically about how

the male doesnt want to be under me thingy, it doesnt work like that!!,

the male just wanna size you up first b4 knowing the way to approach working with you. when you start the "devil wears prada" routine without prompting, they compartmentalize you along with other she-devils and act as required

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it's not opinion. It is fact with the exce

Most, I mean most Nigerian women are not submissive or respect man. They are very rude, insulting and saucy especially if they are working class.

1. Go ask the men that have women has BOSSes .

2. A Nigerian girl will just size u up , size up ur pocket before she dates you

3. So arrogant in their approach as u can see a lot of example in nairaland

4. Will believe they are equal to the man or above him

5. will want to make decision instead of listening to the man

6. Want to rule the house

7. Want to be the one to wear the trousers in the house

8. They want to dictate the pace of things, decide the eatery to eat in, decide the kind of wedding, without minding the man's ability

I have gotten the opportunity to see how women from Ghana, Liberia, Sierra Leonne regardless of Gambia treat men. U will be so humbled and happy to be a man.

We need to learn how to take care of ur men

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My opinion? If you do not want to be accountable to anyone, get the heck out of the r/ship!

Why you telling us your opinin? Keep it to yourself AND i don't think all Naija ladies are like that,

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so you've dated most Nigerian women? and if so, are you sure you aren't the problem? and if that's not the case, how did you come to this conclusion that most nigerian women dont respect the men? or have you been watching too many nollywood movies, please explain.

if anything, naija ladies put up with too much due to the culture, so that's the way it is

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Accountable to u say because na u dey help me cross road,acountable ko acounchair ni.agba ya.

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sure,u are right u know.

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