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Why Do Right People Meet The Wrong Ones?

i am a victim of always dating the wrong person at any given time, sometimes i just reflect and think that maybe i show too much love to my girlfriends and assure them that i wont cheat on them either by my words or actions they are always assured of my love.

The very last one was the most painful that broke up on 26th of december 2006 (boxing day) i had to tell her to free me of loving her after i noticed she was acting very funny, to cut the long story short, she told me she has been dating someone for over six months.

Even though i wont blame her 'cus she schools in zaria (ABU) and i stay in lagos, i know she is human and needs some touches once a while, why didnt i ever cheat on her.

And to make it worse she accepted and planned with me on our marriage plans,

Well since then i have gotten so confused to even chat any lady up 'cus i have been pissed with all of them. I just decided to concentrate on my carrer and believe me it has paid me well. i dey head to the muti millionaires club real soon (BY HIS GRACE)

SO THE QUESTION IS -IS IT A CRIME TO FALL IN LOVE?

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I heard once that we only attract people we do cause of whats in our hearts.

If you feel you have a low self esteem then we attract people that will treat us bad.

Take sometime to rediscover yourself, be positive about yourself and have the rite kinda energy about yourself and see women that are of ur standards will find their way to you.

And stop giving your heart away too quickly,you will only have it broken all the time.

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It happens like dat. The right girl falls for the wrong guy and vice-versa. so take heart life goes on

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@ poster,

if you are the type attracted to the wrapping paper and not the gift itself, you are likely to have another heartbreak!!! you dont judge a book by its cover. you must get to know the girl before you make marriage plans.

always look out for body language and all, and learn that what you see is not always what you get. shine your eye oh before you fall in love cos believe me love now wears contact lense plus glasses join.

always and always look before you leap incase of next time!!!

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I guess this happens to guys who like to treat ladies so special.I am talking from experience.Ladies are special but I think when you make them realize this they take you for granted.Well i guess the solution to all this is when you meet a girl let her show you all the love and hide yours.I mean blowing cool at a time and hot at another point not really showing your love for her.By this you will get to know whether you have a relationship in your hands or a game.If you know what I mean.

And I guess it is good to have a girl in your life before you are made up.so that you can determine her love for you.

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am a nice guy NO OFFENCE PLSSS

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hi,

There is no problem to fall in love but u have to know what u r falling for either 'love' or 'loss'

for love, it is something that you show at a proportion before you give the real percentage to the girl or guy you are dating. You have to know what the girl is like- do some home work to know what she is upto, her kind and gestures probably what thrills her much. Some of us girls go after 'loss' we fail to consider if we can go along mile with a dates or short smile. For instance, when you get a girl, you must do the home work very well to see if you can satisfy her or not. Belive it or not, when you're low to her satisfying measure, she will surely look out. You must know how to do some certain things to this ladies you are looking before you can win them finally. Remove spirituality from this. There is no girl that will not need your affection. - affection + love = wandering. So, u have to check some certain things which you have to consider before you choose another, Be wise don't let anyone take you for granted.

Of a truth, the girl might love you but need somethings from you which you could not give and the other guy can give it to her , i guess

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Mr rich guy! dats all dem ladies seems to b afta

Anyway open ur two eyes n The Lord will c u true,

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shine your eye. Eya pele, just take things easy

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