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Why Do Single Girls Love Married Men?

Yesterday was quite an eye opener for me. I was hanging out with some friends all married men and I was the only guy there who had no val. They all had chicks hanging on to their sleeves and their wives were at home. Now these are young pretty girls who should be running things with a dude like me not those balding guys. Of course after they have been used and dumped you can be sure that I will never go near any of them again, then they will start to complain that they cant find husbands. It's so annoying!

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I think it works both ways. I had an experience, and realised how very easy it is to fall into this trap. Esp when you are working with the man.

The ring doesn't stop u from trippin for the person,but if u've always had strong moral convictions, you won't give in.

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They do it for the sake of money not any other thing. How can you tell me that a man that has children and wife to look after wil still show more care than a guy who value his babe?

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@ try100, c, every day i thank mGod for thr kinda of woman i married, its a beautiful experience if u marry ur friend, many of us get married for the wrong reasons and with the wrong notions, dont jump, be careful and be displined and God will work it out for u, dont be afraid, just be truthful, careful and dedicated

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u know, its a phenomenom i cant understand, a single lady called me up on vals day asking me to come take her out, i was suprised cos we be just friends, i told her no, that i was taking my wife and little daughter out, she was furuios oh,  on monday @ the office, she refused to answer my greetings, i havent talked to her since then, quite funny, really funny

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Well, I dont do such.

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Its not luxury to the girls.

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Married Men are more caring, time keepers,spend cash$,holiday trips and also discuss *sex* before/after.

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finally after u get married, ,i believe someday u will still hang out with single babes,then ur feeling now will disappear .lol

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This is not always true.

I have seen single ladies with high paying jobs(especially bankers) date married colleagues shamelessly on the one hand. The annoying thing is they are mostly of marriageable age , praying by fire for God to give them their own husband on the other hand.

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What do we say about married ladies that go about chasing single guys. its a two way thing.

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why do the ladies agree to go out with them? if u ask me maybe their wives went out with older men wen they where young. they are facing the repercussion.

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Why do married men chase after single girls. . . That's a better question, after all they are the ones with the obligations.

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we can't keep blaming the country for personal choices. the decision to date a married man or not is a personal choice. it would appear that despite the taboo around dating a married man, these girls defy the norm to do so. methinks it's beyond the economic situation. it must be some emotional or psychological pleasure they derive from it.

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Its the messed up system we should blame, if these young girls had jobs and the young men had jobs, they will not resort to dating married men and yahooism/kidnapping/armed robbery. Nigeria is slowly self-destructing before our very eyes.

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because married men are able to provide them with the comfort and financial security that most single guys cant, like a poster above said: nobody likes suffering, i am a guy but i can undesrstand why they do it even though it is not fair to the married women left at home, i guess thats life, its not always fair, good things happen to bad people and viceversa, just live with it!!!

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Na married men alone dey love abi?

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very simple because single boys don't love

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LOL,

Don't you av a girl? if yes then go get a girl marry her and let all this konji thing stop in your life

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Married men are ready to give money. While young guys are stingy. Nobody wan suffer. Even you.

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Even if you don't want them, they will find other means of getting you.

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It was quite annoying o. See me here dey battle konji then some people cup runneth over!

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Its the new way of things.you should learn to go with the flow.what i find really baffling is that these girls get  their fingers burned and then turn around and start playing the victim!a girl is dating a married guy.she knows he's married .knows there's absolutely no chance he's gonna live his wife 4 her.then she hangs in there yr in yr out.until the guy finally moves on.then she'd tell you how evil men are.how she gave the best to that r/ship and got dumped.ask her if the dude ever promised marriage or anything of the like and she would say , well, it was implied or (this one kills me!)she loved him!then she'd now blame YOU for her own mistakes.

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I think they are still gonna regret of that their evil act.

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It's their evil nature they want to see their fellow girls being cheated on.

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@poster:more kudos to ur elbow bro. they are after the money of course but very few of them love the guys,i mean very few. the funny tin is dat after been dumped by these guys they come knocking at our door(singles) for marriage and relationship. only God will help us in naija!!!

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life is all about negotiation. someone is offering something in exchange for another. the married men dish out the dough while the girls massage not only their ego but provide a happy ending. i must confess though that some given a diffent setting would wish to be with each other but like i say, there is a way it ouhgt to be and a way that it is. this is just the way that it is.

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Every where I look, i see more reasons to dread marriage! How would one marry these sorts of shameless, possesed tramps!

**sighs and raises hands in supplication**

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its now a normal thing,we just ve to deal wt it

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