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Why Do Some Guys Compete With Their Girlfriend?esp If The Girl Is Pretty.

I have a friend that has a beautiful girlfriend but the guy isn't really all that in looks department. i have noticed that whenever anyone tells the girl she look beautiful or if guys looks or admire her while she is with my friend he makes him feel uneasy, its like he doesn't want people to tell his girlfriend that she is beautiful, even though he hardly say it to her. I have told my friend several times that he will loose the girl if he isn't careful, The girl is def the best look girl he has ever dated and most importantly most well mannered and also a good girl. She doesn't play him around, even if we go her house unannounced she is always at home.She is a very decent girl and my friend knows this to but i really don't know whats wrong with the guy, cuz whenever someone tells her GF she is beautiful and he also comes up with some random stories about how some girls think he looks cute and how all her EX GF can never let go of him.

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he is just been a coward ,a sucker and he will definately be a loser

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Unfortunately these type of guys never learn. they just keep over exaggerating everything in their lives and never are honest with themselves or others. He will just keep loosing g/f and male friends and have to keep replacing them.

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u dont need to advice him, he will only tink u r jealous.

He will naturally loose her and have a sober reflection, that way he will bcom a better person

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i must say dat the subject of dis thread is quite diff from the story

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tell you friend to man up. oka so if he does have low esteem, who cares. he should build a bridge and get over it because we all have our insecureities but we dont let them rule our lives. if he keeps acting like a pre-pubescent teen then, he will lose the one thing good in his life.

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I agree he will loose her if he is not careful.  Nothing makes a woman feel better than to hear her man tell her she is beautiful and nothing pisses a woman off more than to feel like he has to one up her.  I used to date a guy who was like that, no matter what the story or what was going on he had a one up me story.  I did not want to compete with him but he wanted to with me.  Some people just need all the spot light on them.  I am sure he does this to everyone not just her but he will loose her because he is prob. lying and that poo will make a woman run as fast as her feet can carry her.

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thats called inferiority complex and its a very big problem with most people but they dont know

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Is he insecure or does he have low self esteem? As a guy i wouldnt want to be with a girl another guy doesnt want or admire!!!

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