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Why Do Some People Fall In Love Online?

like seriously I get really amaze when I see threads of such. how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

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Love has no colour, no place, no defination and blind.

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wow it is quit possible to love some one whom you haven't seen but felt through text or chatting ,probably it is called love for sight , (who knows if the will later marry when cume in contact face to face).

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which one is this that my words turn to "intimacy"??

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too bad some ppl have small brains and closed minds, You are not GOD so dont tell me we are not meant to fall in love or that we are doomed. I bet you have never been in love b4?

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ever fallen in love with someone

ever fallen in love, in love with someone

ever fallen in, in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with

doom doom doom doom doom doom doom.

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lol

the guy foud americana

ope ooooo

obi agu i wish u the best!

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I am a happy person who loves my life however with the nasty reply that you gave me, you obviously need to get a life! silly Bottom

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Well said. Wish I could use this as my signature

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What exactly is love and why is it so puzzling to perceive that it can be harvested and compounded online?

Hearts can meet anywhere.

It's not insurmountably difficult to understand that love is an emotion triggered by whatever special kind of impulses the brain receives and interpretes a certain way. The emotion can be enhanced and kept alive through physical interactions with the someone; when you're able to see them, feel them, smell them physically etc . . . these are all vital to the survival of love. However, to think that feelings of love cannot be initiated through wired interactions with people met online is simply flawed.

People both online and offline can impress upon your mind certain images of themselves that you in turn could misinterpret and could end up being misled. You never truly know who a person is completely even in person; pray serendipity leads you to a genuine individual who will not deceive you.

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Some of us are really getting it all wrong the question why do people fall in love online to me its tactical en also cunning. I still stand by what i said previously that one can make friends online en not to fall in love online, anybody that does fall in love because of webcam, chatroom, skype, phone chat etc is either confused or fraudulent. In a scenario where a guy met a lady online en later met her offline where the fortunately fell in love, will you say that they fell in love online because they 1st met online?

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I guess one of the reasons people may be slightly cautious about revealing their real Ids online,may be becos u can never tell when the other party would unilaterally break off all comunication ,thereby leaving one in an emotional lurch .

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Why? Same reason why people fall in love in person. Because they fall in love! Because they like something about the person, thats why.

If youre trying to imply that falling in love online is wrong, (to each her own but, ) i think you have the wrong idea.

In a world filled with so much hate, am suprised we care where or how people fall in love. Love is love, regardless if you were in the bathroom taking a piss or on the internet checking your email when you tripped, why does it matter?

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@op

Because love does not have a permanent address.

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Its nt as bad as sm peeps on here paint it 2 be, are U guys kiddin abt sm1 fakin his/her identity? Common peeps whatever happened to webcam,numerous pictures to which U'l specify d pose, mms, ah!! 2many 2 mention we aint talkin mere frnds but a relatnship, apart frm d offlin physical munchy smoochin thingy there's really nt mch difference wit online,it dosnt tak2long b4 da people involved gets 2meet up and hang out even if it dosnt happen ertime but @list once in awhile aint 2bad, if U dnt liv in da sam house/street/state/country wit ya partner aint it lik online Dtn?if U ask me, da online thingy is quite matured and wud build whoever engages in it for da future,long distance relationship (which in mst case is inevitable) wnt be strange or new to U, you'l kno exactly wat to do, da funny thin is it is very very easy to know if da oda person loves U& if da person's faithful or not, I recommend it. Its worth the try

So to ansa ya (op) qxtn, cos the person on da other end pleases and connects with their heart.

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Its commonly found with the females. Guys normally takes it for fun noting more.

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why do some people fall in love online? it is simply because they can't fall in love offline.

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I guess from the replies from some matured minds for and against, I would say there is nothing wrong in seeking friendship online. It's a new era, and like someone said, busy schedules and all that give no time for proper socialising. But as Orikinla stated, be cautious and get to know the person physically because some can cover up, use fake facebook ids to get u to add them, reveal your personal life while keeping themselves protected. If not for the risk of meeting the wrong people, I would advise online daters to keep it up.

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please people should wake up and know wat time is it!!!!!

there are busy young men and women out there who are quite busy

to meet and socializie cos of their tight schedules. so meeting someone

online, phone chats and later seeing in person can creates a wonderful relationship

this is a social media age, u must nt wait 4 a girl at the conner of the street or pick her as u are driving along like a

call girl, meeting pple online is perfect, it all depends on wat u want!!!!!!

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LET ME PUT THIS IN CAPS.

IT IS NOT SAFE AND IT IS NOT WISE TO FALL IN LOVE ONLINE.

MOST PEOPLE ONLINE USE FAKE IDs AND FAKE PROFILES.

THEY CLAIM TO BE WHAT THEY ARE NOT.

WE HAVE BITCHES AND WITCHES POSING AND POSTURING AS INNOCENT SWEETIES ONLINE.

SOME BABES EVEN ON NAIRALAND USE UP TO FOUR IDs TO ACT AS FOUR DIFFERENT CHARACTERS.

I MET SOMEONE ONLINE, BUT I DID NOT FALL IN LOVE UNTIL AFTER WE MET AND STARTED OUR RELATIONSHIP FOR OVER THREE YEARS BEFORE I CAN NOW SAY I AM IN LOVE WITH HER.

YOU CAN MEET ONLINE, BUT PLEASE DO NOT FALL FOR THE PERSON UNTIL YOU HAVE MET OFFLINE AND DATED FOR A WHILE.

What most people mistake for falling in love is FALLING IN LUST.

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unno its gna be easy for a guy to sound sweet on the internet! sha!

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It's true sha, love can come from anywhere, but personally I don't think I could ever, I'd be to scared that the person wouldn't be all that I gave him credit to be once I finally met him in real life.

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doesnt anyone think online dating takes the fun out of proper dating??

however ive found many articles abt women who succesfully found thier partners online sha

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Who are u refering to?

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On the other hand, since me and Chiogo are now divorced I wouldn't mind marryn Abekeade and/ or Thoniaslim!

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Is the poster tryn to make fun of Platinumk? Cus she fell in luv wit two guys online in 2009 and kept sendn em money only to find out that she had been scammed!lol. Funny desperate chic

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I think it's because this person wants to break another person's home ,especially when they know the person is married and they don't limit their nitwittedness to naira land but further carry it to yahoo IM and share pornograpy links and admire each other's ikebe.

I hope I solved the puzzle,I could do better if you're not satisfied.

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There are exceptions to every rule. Meeting someone online has nothing to do with shyness, timidity or other lame excuses. Life is not always black & white. Also, tThe nature of one's work, life may leave room for few social interaction as the case may be.

Met my wife online. We've been happily married for 6yrs now with 2 wonderful children. In fact, this morning we still reminisce about how we couldn't imagine our lives without each other. Even if God doesn't answer anymore of my prayers, I'm content with this. That's how fortunate I count myself for having her in my life.

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i think sometime this love stuffs just works 4 me on the net.i get to meet them girls and hook up with.but the thing there is these relationships dont last[color=#990000][/color]

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Since i quit my last relationship two years ago, i have resorted to making friends online if anyone of them could lead to love affair. i see online as an avenue to meet people and physical meeting will determine the extent the friendship can go, especially when your work doesn't allow you mingle as you want.

i have tried online dating and it seems to be working, that doesn't mean am not courageous enough to woo a lady and at the same time not a loser.

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Online dating, can lead to true marriage,  but you don't fall in love online, with someone you have not seen, or spent time with, you are ATTRACTED.

True love is a conscious thing, a thing of the will, factoring in the good, bad, ugly, up, downs etc.

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I came across my house wife through yahoo messanger, and we are now together as husband and wife happily married with two kids a girl and a boy. So on line dating is good 4 some pple.

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LOVE NOR DEY SEE ROAD . . . In english "Love is blind"

Or are there "other" reasons?

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find love by clicking the link below

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you can find real people here, click the link below

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@justwise relax no need 2 worry am not a old member am actually new 2 d site(kikidaope by name , if u wondered) so if u nid more informations on ur attackers scroll bck

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And who are u? Old member with new ID? How many pple here attacked me?

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@justwise dem jus dey attack u 4 NL i wud advise u 2 caution wot u say ooh my brethren

peace

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No chance, u are still living in the past

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lol,  seems to me your confessing that you're in love with miss Johnson,  But yea, people do fall for dem on-screen divas and blokes,

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the reason why people fall in love online is a matter of choice period,

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yawn. Famous last words. . . .

By the way, the "I don't give a Bleep" is entirely mutual.

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Hmmn. Desperate for my attention. . . .

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oops i forgot to include[b] Friend[/b]

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