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Why Do Women Blame Themselves Unnecessarily?

Why do women blame themselves unnecessarily whenever  their relationship go sour?. Why do women always feel that they must share part of the blame for the broken relationship even when the man may be a HE goat?.

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9 times out of 10 when this sort of story happens in naija, jazz has been involved.

Her story has all the symptoms of jazzing them by herself, why?

1. She confronted her gf and when that one insulted her in public, she kept silent and never went back.

2. She reported him to his family and they did nothing about it either so she just decided to move on without him.

3. When he got ill, she didnt visit [I dont blame her for not visiting either], and that sort of gives u someone to point an accusing finger at.

A woman cannot just come and snatch your husband like that, maybe your boyfriend but certainly not your husband. They were not divorced and her husband was not married to her friend, so why did she just give everything up like that? Marriage is not that soft abeg.

Honestly, I think she did it [and justifiably so], but i also know i could be wrong.

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She takes it as a really personal,thinking there was that one thing she probably didnt give the man that he was getting somewhere else

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Its the society's fault. Look at the terrible state of Nigeria, if a woman has only girls, she is branded a witch/ogbanje or any other terrible thing when infact its the man's fault she keeps having girls etc. The society needs a major overhaul. Women are really oppressed in that country.

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Generally speaking, women tend to blame themselves over relationships gone bad whether its their fault or not.

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From what I read,she didn't kill her husband or has any reason to blame herself. That serves the man right. As for the people blaming her for killing him;they need a shrink.

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Not all women! Not all are soft hearted.

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Some women feels that they did not give the man what he wanted so that's why he ran off.

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