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Why do women fall so cheap by sleeping with their boyfriend before Marriage?

Why do ladies fall so cheap by stooping so low to sleep with their boyfriends before getting married?

Marriage means that the woman's body and her husband body belongs to each other

therefore having a sex affair outside marriage is like a type of stealing.

If your man really loves you, he should respect that body by putting a ring on you and say "I DO"(get married) before sleeping with you.

I am 25 years old and still a virgin and I will not dare to sleep with any lady outside marriage.

I will treat her like a lady she deserves by getting married before the next level.

ladies out there, take my advice and stop being cheap. Thanks

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You guys are irritated by the topic because you're not virgins! If you were, you'll understand. Thank God 'm one at the moment!

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testing what they want to buy

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It is actually true. Most girls regret losing their virginity to that certain somebody

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It's awesome walking up the aisle with a virgin chick, but a guy? Yuk!!!

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It's their own choice i guess. . .

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And that its so western makes it right? Please lets call a spade a spade and not just a garden implement!

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so you guys are still on this?@poster do not be deceived

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190 IS SLEEPING ON THIS THREAD~

OOh yes im sleeping!!

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I dont get this virgin thing. Why reduce se.x to a cheap thing? Its about the individual. Se,x isnt cheap to many people. Its an expression of love and sharing. We are sexual beings so why turn it dirty?How do you handle yourself? Its just too constricting to call virginity a good thing and judge all others.Respect and mutual understanding is vital.Get it? Repression is a lie. We must grow.

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I wasnt asking you. The question was for the poster who doesn't seem to know that the situation goes both ways.

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Why do men disgrace themselves by sleeping with multiple girls before marriage?

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I think its high time we all stopped responding to silly threads such as this. May God help you and that virgin Girl you will marry if at the end of the day the both of you arent sexually compatible. Nonsense!

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What's all this hulabaloo about virgin or no virgin? like it or not folks, deciding to lose ones virginity before marriage is a personal decision.

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Whatever makes you sleep at night, do it.

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Whatever you say mate!

I just dont get people's fascination with this virgin or non virgin business. It's become very boring,

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what i want to add is this ,i have also noticed that d non virgin ladies attack a lot. The question is, is it dat d feel guilty? dont get me wrong but d way d ladies reply is like d are trying to fight guilt. mama gee, michelin , etc, i have neva seen mama gee talk dis way but first time for everything ,

why virgins want fellow virgins is dat birds of same feather fly together , i dont want to deny me self pleasure and end up marrying someone dat didnt do same and i may not satisfy in bed cos of her experiences which will lead to her sleeping around after marriage , nobody said a virgin gurl can give a happy home but if the can  d wil giv the best dats if d hubby is also faithful and true.

more humble and faithful gurls in marriage were virgins b4 marriage.   in all if you are a true believer in God and his word pls do what is right, nonvirgins will still make heaven but fornicators and adulterers no place, (pls ignore d message if u are not a true believer)

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Would U have preferred if I had used Fornicators and Adulterers in the place of Non-virgin? Have I called any names and said U are a sinner. Have I even read thru the post besides the topic? Has the topic been closed? If it hasnt been then wait for it to close before U point out that there was no where in it where anyone encouraged sexual immorality.

I know holy pass but then this is a medium I can use to help someone stay on the right path and I will make the most of it regardless of what anyone thinks of me.

I havent broken NL rules have I?

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Dont take this the wrong way but you sound like a bit of a "know it all", plus i havent seen any where on this thread where anyone is encouraging easy sex, you can be judgemental and claim to give advise all you want but people will always live their lives however it pleases them.

Whe you use the word "non virgin" you make it seem like its a mortal sin, does the bible not say "judge not, so that ye may not be judged"?

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By their fruits u shall know them.

On such threads the virgins usually keep quiet (sadly)

The non-virgin girls make lots of noise trying to draw solidarity to themselves

the boys who know better keep the non-virgin girls engaged in arguments that will never end

The boys who like easy sex keep encouraging the non virgin girls and throwing support behind them.

I havent read thru this thread and I don't intend to cos it's just talk that wont change a thing.

Who knows what is right and fails to do it to him it is sin.

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cos u have not had ur chance to do it, doesnt give u the rite to spoil our runs or condemn girls who r matured enuff to decide to sleep wit their bf, one day u wud be opportuned to enjoy the luxury too, sexx is not for the masses its now a luxury

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hahahahha, me, i cant marry a virgin, no time to start teaching, but seriously, a girl sleeping with her boyfriend is so cool n so western

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Playing hard to get means you are making unnecessary shakara, and it has nothing to do with giving up too easy. You can refrain from playing hard to get and still not give it up easily, which is fine with many men. A girl who gives it up easy because she is genuinely attracted to, and gets along with, the guy is not a slut, even she gave it up easy. A slut sleeps with any dude that flashes money or materialistic things to her, and she follows no standard by which she selects the men with whom she sleeps. I hope I clarified the concept to you, for men are really simple. Men really want a girl who does not play hard to get and gives it up easy without the unnecessary drama, as long as the girl likes him for who he really is and she knows what she wants; and if she is not interested, she should politely reject the man's advances without attitude. Shikenah. Men detest money hungry sluts who give it up so easy because he flashes money or his car to lure her into sleeping with him, for the same slut will sleep with any guy who offers her the same materialistic things. A girl like that is not only a slut, but also a bhitch.

A girl sleeping with her boyfriend is presumably sleeping with him because she cares for him, and not because he is paying her or flashing stuff to get her in bed, so a girl like that is not a slut but a woman who deserves a round of applause,

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You all should stop exchanging words and and remember we are all adults. I do not think that it is right for women to be referred to as cheap because we slept with our boyfriend before sex. If the women are cheap what about the men? Both sexes should be given the same judgement . Have you not heard of cases where some men who got married to women who were virgins discovered that their wives ended up be lose. Please do not judge .

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pls leave the poster alone ,abeg.

he can be wateva he wants to be.

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guys,he is just giving an advice!if u dont want it leave it,haba

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This argument is ludicrous,what exactly is the problem?Virgins who feel it right to remain virgins & rightly so pls kip it up.Non-virgins like us me also have a choice to live our lives,the world is large enough for all of us,period.

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bandwagon effect, "lets be in the 'good book' kind of attitude".

Rightly said really, its not only a woman thing - the poster needs to modify the thread so as to make it seem one sided. Males also cheapen themselves aswell

However, No one is making anyone here feel bad about themselves. If you do feel bad about yourself, then its time to look inwards. Like I said earlier no one here is a saint - including the poster. We all have our struggles and it takes more than ur own ability to resist doing what your body really wants to do. We fall down, we dont just lie there, we get up with a determination not to fall again

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see as this mumu poster and his fellow brethren in daftness dey alow make women dey puor saliva for men body!

what is your problem? u wanna be a virgin, fine but what makes you think i have to be and accept your outlook?

most of these mofos are either impotent, bad at s*x when they tried it, or simply cant pick up the courage to ask a woman for sex/toast.

it then becomes easy to be a 'virgin" or Gay. these days the difference isnt clear.

respect other people's outlook. besides as the babes said, why pick on the girls? the guys didnt partake in the sex? so why are guys giving up their virginity to all manner of girls? isnt that cheap too?

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The mind really boggles hun.

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Some men are just full of it! You play hard to get, they say you need to get over youself. You give it up easily, they call you a slut.

Makes you just wonder, what men really want,

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^^We?

You're the only one in deep shitz, don't say we.

That's ridiculous!

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Am afraid it does have something to do with all of us, else we wont be talking about this

Ain't we in deep shitz already?

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this is not about male or female its about all of us. No one can make u feel like a LovePeddler without your permission, and it doesnt even matter what u've done. You dont bend to someone's rules because you want him/her to perceive you "rightly"

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I think you really need to get your azz together and back out of this thread already.

Cause you'll continue getting yourself into deep shitz if you keep coming back.

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Michelin, its not about what I think cos what I think wouldn't make any difference. Its about what we all know is the right thing to do

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Gosh he is an Bottom. If he feels like poo for bleeping every Kitty-Cat in his yard, that is his biz. He shouldn't try to shove his pathetic deluded ideas up our arses.

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It's your problem if you feel wrong about yourself. It has nothing to do with the rest of us.

Sorry!

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Damn girl!

Chill out with the attitude.

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You want the truth?

NO ONE GIVES A FLYING Bottom ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK.

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Am not saying am a saint, Am probably worse off. but I believe it will do us a lot of good to say the truth. It will do a lot of good to the generations coming

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1. She is a female.

2. I am not offended.

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Did you read his response?

Cause it was quite obvious he was referring everyone in general and that's not "humour".

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What happened to your sense of humour?

Do you think IB would insult people like that? You don't seem to know valid NL members.

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^^Cause it's only drunk mofos who throw abuses at "imaginary" people.

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^^Did you just bump out of a bar drunk?

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I agree, you're all whores, the lot of you

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@Ebonyeyes

Don't mind the hypocrites!

they claim sleeping with someone before marriage is a sin

yet they forget judging those people makes them guilty as well.

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What happens to their boyfriends? Are they also cheap?

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