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Why Do Women Test Men?

Women test men.

That's the reality of the situation.

Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and

they keep on testing FOREVER.

For most guys, the concept of a woman "testing"

them seems a little strange.

Why would a woman WANT to test a man?

What could she possibly gain from it?

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In order to find out how true is the man to his words. Men preach and never practise what they say, at times they need to learn from practical stunts(test) we have to pull so they can keep their mouths shut. They can be soo good at telling you how to act in particular situation meanwhile they are not capable of doing what they ask u too.

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really? how so?

its only logical, men who do not know this suffers in their relationship.  They are the ones, who their girls wear the panties in the relationship, they are rather pathetic, pathetic guys or you could call them Mr Nice guys.  A man is got to be a man, doesn't mean he has to be rude or arrogant, but a man must have vision and passion, this would drive him and make him be focus in life and definitely earn the ladies respect.

Remember:  If you cannot command respect as a man, you cannot command love from a woman.

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cause it helps you in knowing the kind of guy you are or would be dealing with.

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Well, others have spoken and now I want to spake, to ask "why women tests men", i think it is rather simple, a woman is expected to spend her entire life with her man, she cannot live comfortably with that man until she knows him too well, to be able to predict his actions.

But let me quickly add that "Guys" when a woman knows you fully, to the extent you can tell your next move, you have just lost your value,

Thank you

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@ezechidion - There are certain things you can do that will

INSTANTLY communicate to a woman that you "get

it", and don't require the INITIAL TESTS.

Don't get me wrong, women will always test

you, no matter what you do.

But you can SKIP TEN LEVELS of the initial

testing, and accelerate the process of "getting

together" with a woman DRAMATICALLY if you know

the right things to do.

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@coco29 - I can't make you love me if you don't You can't make your heart feel something it won't Here in the dark in these final hours I will lay down my heart ,

"I don't know if we'll make it out. I want to tell you that I love you and I love the kids ,

im going to try to do everything i can to make it hapopen , i knew it. i knew someone was in love with me. ,

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sweetie woman love attention from their man

we like to know how far we can push u

we need to know what you are capable off

we want to know if you can protect us

if you can dance

if you can f u c k

if u can read and write

hell we want to know every s h i t about you so the only way for that to happen is to test ya asses

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@GNature - Is there something built into the female psyche that compels women to push, test and challenge their men?

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what is this 'test a man thing'? Personally I dont need to test my men- na batteries abi?

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security and the truth

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@damola

I wanted the question answered first so I can give you an appropriate response. Again, are you questioning

why women bother to test men OR the degree to which they do the testing ?

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Hi! i think most women test men cos dey're insecure.

They want to make sure he can meet ALL her needs before jumpin in.

Thats Drab men!

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@GNature - is there something you would like to see improved or added? Whats your own opinion?,

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@Damola

Are you questioning why women test men at all OR the degree to which they test men ? Because both

men and women test one another, but as far as to what degree, that varies from individual to individual.

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@coco29 - Probably the most interesting thing about tests

from women is that they're not OBVIOUS.

  At least not to most men.

  In fact, I'd say that 99% of all the tests that

women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR.

  They're right out in the open, obvious to other

women (and a few men), but for the most part, they

go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED.

@somegirl - for all i care. will l be paranoid about her spying on me?

It took me a moment to pin it down, but then I realized: u were asking me questions , In retrospect, I think it was at that moment that I'll become the Spy, ,

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Mhm, I could imagine that testing would end once you've build up enough trust and have no resons to doubt him/her. Anyway, a partner never can be perfect and, as long as you're at least sure of each others commitment, than I think you don't even have to know EVERYTHING. But some things, like another girl coming in between you (she might not even know that he already has a girlfriend/fiancée/wife), that's something where I would not agree with "what the eye doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve over". Also, if he starts to doubt our relationship, I would like to know it from him.

What do you think about a girlfriend spying on you?

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@coco29 - So the teacher gives you a TEST to see if you

REALLY know what's going on.

Well, in the same way that teachers test

students, women test MEN.

And that means YOU, Sparky.

@somegirl - If you meet an attractive, interesting,

emotionally healthy man, you can expect to be

tested until either:

1) The relationship ends.

2) You or he DIES.

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@somegirl - thanx 4 ur swift response but really i think there culd be more to it that meets d eye.

i'll agree that By testing a man, a woman can learn THE MOST

IMPORTANT thing about him,

but

The purpose of a test is to figure something

out. It's a way of getting "true" information

about something.

If you walk up to a man and say "Hey, how much

money do you make?" he can LIE.

If you ask him if he is good in bed, he can

LIE.

If you ask him if he's strong enough to deal

with the challenges of life, support a family, and

reach his goals, he can LIE.

Are you with me here?

So whats d point?

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Damollar, hi again! To your question, maybe it is in order to avoid disappointment or even heart-break which should be less likely if you get to know his character well before involving any deep emotions. For the ongoing testing, that sounds a bit strange. Maybe it's caused by a lack of trust (resulting from earlier disappointments or current, strange behaviour of the guy in question) or low self-esteem (how can he possibly love ME?). But is it really a women-only-thing?

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