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Why Do You Like Reading Your Partner's Text Message?

Hey guys, why do you like reading your girlfriends' text messages?

If you're a lady, why do you like reading your boyfriends' test messages?

Some people say it's not good - what's your comment?

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Readin ur patna's sms means notin els u'r guilty of sometin.my Bf reads my sms,chk my cals,&contacts yet i dare nt touch his phone.i simply dnt let rubbish boda me he can cheat on till wen i find out.gys are so jealous.

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This cell phones and all this new technology invention only God knows what harm than good it is causing in relationships/marriages

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i dont read my partner's text messages, it will only give me heartache

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y stoop so low? wherez d hissin emoticon sef?

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i personally could care less about his text messages. When you go looking for trouble you find it. If it is ment for me to know it will land itself right in my lap.

That has always worked for me so why start something new.

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I read his text messages becos | see nothing wrong with it. I mean if he doesnt not mind, then why wouldn't I read it?

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its not a nice idea,except in emergency situations

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its not good doing that because you are giving yourself HBP.

i dont like doing such but my woman takes joy in that but the day she read one and was disturded, she stop doing that.

so others pls desist.

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i dont think its right because what you dont now wouldnt kill you.

i like to respect people privacy.

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The last time i read my EX-GF'S message i cried badly and almost had an heart attack in my middle 20's

b'cos i found out that the sweet uncle of hers, was really her BF/Sugar daddy, let me just add that was 2004.

And i've not tried it since then. I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO ADVICE ALL AND SUNDRY TO DESIST FROM DOING SO,

as a recipe to long life.

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because women are full of surprises

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So I can know when she is getting a quiky somewhere.

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Well to me its a free world you are free to read my text messages if you want to cos ve got no skeletons in my cupboard and if you allow me read yours okay,if you dont its also okay.but i see no big deal reading your partner's text messages.Its all about love

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WORD girl,word!!!beat him to his own game.Some men think they are smart.

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My BF can almost go to the loo and bathroom with his phones. But i don't take any offence because i still get to read most of his txts behind his back.(I'm too smart to kid with). I lock mine and he kinds of nag about it. Some girls txt him and i sometimes allow him see my txts from other guys by purposely leaving my phone lying around him and unlocked. He flirts around, i'll do the same. He keeps himself, i'll do the same. 50-50. Period. He knows the rules and the game isn't over yet. (nice game too, nice dude)

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timmy, what kind of nonsense was that in the name of a post? you just made absolutely no sense! what have God and Jesus to do with the lies you tell your girlfriends that you call parables?

in case you are unaware, a parable and a lie are 2 different things!

Men tell parables, boys lie!

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Same 'ere , I am confused.

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how did that fit a text message?

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@timmy

are you joking,abeg stop saying that,men have the highest proportion for lying.

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believe him girl, he's saying the truth.. we men dont lie, we just twist things... im sure he aint lieing, just that the story thingy is a lil twisted

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Well am kind of confused here.

Men u can never predict them.

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@timmy

you said is a secret,but you ve said it already.

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@timmy, if i were you, i'll just fvck her for the last time and send her packing.. i hope you didn't regret reading the text though..

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Happiness is the end of every rational being so if reading the text might end ur relationship..why do it? why cant u be urself?

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Well,I guess its just a natural inquisitivenessssss.

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Well opinion differs.

@timmy sorry bro.

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Reading your partners text i just dont get it with people, its such a simple matter look Mr man if you know you are having any kind of affair by the side then make sure you dont leave any text on your phone and make sure you lock and code it all the time and keep it with you at all times and for the woman if you know that you are cheating on your guy you tend to get suspected if you follow the male rules so please tell your secret lover not too send you any text and you people should get time of calls and talking codes for your selves just incase you hit some troubled water capice.

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there is actuall nothing wrong in reading eash others sms,we are one now and so nothing should be hidden,if anything is hidden ,then sumthing is fishing.

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@timmy

My bros i feel your pain, have you confronted your girl with this info ?

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@ijebuman..mmmmm there's this old silly man that she calles uncle tunde, sha says he's her mum elder brother's wife's nephew's son(imagine the family thread) as if that wasnt enough, this uncle tunde trips her like mad all in the name on "im taking good care of my family members" well he knows me and has even sent me on erands before (silly me) well the main thingy is that he actually sends her those kind of of sms's that contains

"...i love you"

"...if only you can see through my heart"

"... where were you before i got married to my wife"

".. when are you going to leave your timmy"

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see u people, a girl as been fooling my a$$ and she finally gets bursted, en u think i was wrong!! gosh.. from now on any girl il date must have her phone submitted to me every day, its a new routine.. only God knows if akin is really her cousine

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I don't read my husand's text messages even when i use his phones to make calls. The first time he tried to scroll through mine, I had to destroy the handset in his presence even when there was nothing incriminating in it. I hate someone sneaking on me it shows you don't trust me.

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I don't think it is good reading ur partner's text message because I feel it will only result to mistrust among you. What you got to do for each other is to trust and love yourselves.

When a relationship has got into suspecting each other, I feel there is no genuine love there.

You can only read his/her text "only" when it has been a habit among you, and in which you derive mutual benefit; not a situation where this fellow will hide his handset and will be exploring the other person's "privacies".

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@timmy,

Thats serves you right.

hahahahaahhahahaah

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Why would you read ur partners text messages? that's nonsense, UNLESS your partner doesn't mind, then it's ok.

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MAKES ONE FEEL THE PRESENCE OF THE PARTNER IN HIS/HER ABSENCE

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You know what they say about what you don't know won't hurt you. Then again should you be living in ignorance? i suggest u could have a flick through to confirm any suspicions. abi o ro be?

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I read my girlfriend sms to know if she have any hidden runs or she is cheating on me

at times I do panic her on false allegation, just to know how much love she get 4 me

because girls of nowdays are unfaithful.

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to no whether he will be annoyed.

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@otokx

Thats ur opinion and u are entitled to it

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reading your lovers message is invasion but i would wanna read it incase..you know..but i wouldnt want him to read mine

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I don't read anybody's text message simply because i won't like him to read mine's. if he let's me read, that's a different thing, other than that, i'm a very private person and i would go mad if i catch him doing that.

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There's no need for that, cause it breeds suspicion and tends to break trust.

I dont read my wife's SMS's nor pick her calls and she doesnt read mine nor pick my calls too. By God's grace, our marriage is still rock solid

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