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Why Do You Love Me?

So my girlfriend's husband, the one i told yall about before, sent me and email and asked me the below:

I asked him last night why does he love me and his reponse was I dont know why i just do. How should i feel about this?

So I am asking yall I dont know how to answer her question i have never had a dude tell me this.

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@OMO_IBO wrote:

"by the way, asking a guy if he love's u is not and has never been the best way to find out if he realy does love u."

So tell us, what is the best way?

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love has no reason,sm marry cos of d good characters,others marry cos of the wifely material in her,but i ask a question,wat if that thing u married her for is no longer there,wat happens?

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I tink u shuld sit & retink b4 makin moves cos u just might do d wrong ting.

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Sometimes, the reason is different from what the woman wants to hear, so you keep your mouth shut.

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when it comes to love and relationships, there is always a reason. if not then men and women would not waste their time cheating on each other because they loovvee each other, if you can't come up with a reason why you love me then you prolly don't. even God has a reason why he loves us all (because we are his children) so why shouldn't the guy in question have a reason.

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Sumtimes,"luv has no definitions" . . .

To be candid,if i get such a reply frm ma gf,i won't feel anyway cuz probably,that might be her own definition of love . . . "unexpleanable,meaningless" . . Luv is a 'variable' u knw ??

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Wonderful! I just knew men like this existed, but then again, actions speak louder than words and I hope you also show 'your woman' how much you love her.

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@ orinkinla

Nice one!

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me dont know what love is just like i dont know why my heart skips a bit when i see him

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There is no true love without reason as there is no egg without the yolk, except it is an empty shell.

If a man does not know why he loves you then he does not know what is love.

Emotions are emotions and love is love.

I know why I love my own woman, because she has made me to know that there is more to life than making a name.

She has become the mother I have not had since my mother passed away and she has become the meaning of why God made woman for man.

The one I can share the essence of life with.

Iron sharpeneth iron.

To make  each other sharper.

She is my princess and my queen.

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Well maybe she should have found out if it was love or lust before. . .  you know MARRYING HIM??!

Isn't this a case of closing the barn gates after the cows have espcaped?

And for some people, yeah it IS if you love someone. . . that's just it.

I mean what does she want here -  1001 Reasons why I love you?

I love you because you eyes are Blue

I love you because you make me laugh

I love you because you cook well

I love you because your legs are straight

LMAO! Seriously, what are we. . . in grade school? Oh another thing with that. . . he starts mentioning what he loves and say he doesn't mention something she thinks he should mention,  it is gonna lead to

"Oh, you don't love this about me?"

"I do! I do!"

"Why didn't you mention it?"

"I was gonna, I just forgot"

"Oh if you really loved it, you would have remember"

A whole new drama begins.

So if you don't mind telling me. . . why is she asking again?? Why do women go digging for trouble where there's none?

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Na true you talk oo, my bro.

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Thanks for yall responses. Topup you got me cracking up over here.

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At least he didn't deny loving her! Phew!

Also, there's a difference between putting in words the reason why you love someone and actually having no reason to love someone. It could simple be that he can't quite grasp that emotion that he feels about his wife. But I guess if he shrugged his shoulders, burped, scratched his Bottom and said 'dunno' then continued to watch his sports game, then I'd be a little concerned. Not everybody can encapsulate their woman into one word or description, maybe he just can't describe it. I think it's best to give him the benefit of doubt, after all he married her.

Now worries.

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so u r and ur friend(s) bring ur husbands and family issues to the table for discussion? ehhh?

i thought common sense suggests you keep relationship and family issue out of the public domain.  . . . . . i guess im wrong.

by the way, asking a guy if he love's u is not and has never been the best way to find out if he realy does love u. i wonder when these women go learn sef

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Seems like some1 is heart broken here.i rily do share in ur pain dear.

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Trust a guy to come up with such an answer. However, I understand where he's coming from. There's not just one single answer to that question.

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Love is as mysterious as the water. And as ancient as the sand. It is the one thing in this world, no human can possibly control. Love controls us. Love drives us to do wonderful things. It also tricks us into doing wicked things. With love, there is no reason no guidelines no rules. We love because we love.

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love has no reason sistawoman

if u love for a reason,that reason might go away,and wen it goes away will u still continue loving dat person?no is d answer

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So you mean to tell me Rhino, that if you love a woman it is just as it is. There is no reason behind why you love that person. I know why i love who i love. And when i ask this quetion of the person that loves me they can tell me why.

So does this guy really love her or is it lust? Because that was my first thought when i read her email.

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How come all u guys just do is talking about your husbands, na wa oh.

Anyhow, the reason why he has no reason is cos he love the woman without condition and the day he cld find a reason why he love her, he will stop.

Dont mind me oh, just being a rhino.

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