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Why Do You Think Most Girls Consider Being In A Relationship?

they grow up to hear ugly tales about men,

some of them are well to do that they have financial security

most of them have great friends that are the best company

some of them are too scared of loosing their virginity that sex

is not considered yet

some of them come from great homes with productive members

then i ask? is this relationship risk worth taking if so tell us Y

and vice versa

i will love to extend it to the guys too if they have other reasons for being in their relationships,

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Considering all the premise you noted buttressing why a gal or guy ought to be alone,I guess it's obvious why we all want to be unhappy, it's divine. At the risk of sounding spiritual I dare say it's a command that has been embedded into our genetic code, you know, He made us in pairs if you are for the pro-creation theory. Doesn't it puzzle you that despite having everything you'd still feel empty if you are single, no matter what we say about this, in the still of the night,when you are alone and you wander away in thoughts dont you wish you had someone you could really call your own, don't lie, no matter the career lady or man you are nobody wants to grow old lonely and unloved, not the paternal/maternal nor filial love,I mean looking beside you and not behind you to see the one who had stayed with you through it all,the fights,ups,downs,sweat tears and blood.That's just it, simple.

Me thinks that despite how uncertain the relationship terrain is, it's worth venturing out on, and if you're still skeptical and scared just hold Ur heart in your arms and take the first step, I assure you it's quite a journey, one you are wont to take now or then, I suggest now cos no matter how many times you get hurt or lied to or cheated on,you'd hit bulls eye someday,that is if you've learnt from the past and still believe in the efficacy of love. A pre-requisite to a good relationship is you MUST believe love can happen to you, if you go in doubting,then Ur believes will come true, guess that makes you a prohet, of doom I suppose. So plunge in.

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It depends on the lady. . .different strokes for different folks. . .

speaking from my own angle . .I really do not have an issue staying single. . .

It absolutely has nothing to do with security, comfort on any of the reasons you listed above. . .

I would say my reason for wanting to be in a relationship with a dude is because he intrigues me enought to wanna be with him and connect with him on that emotional and intimate level. . .

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Once beaten, twice shy!

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One may not appreciate this unless been in love for at least once.

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WOOOOOO that's below the belt ooooooooooo

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i think the ladies are in the best shoes to comment because, as a man, when you find yourself in a situation where you are dating someone that you think has it all ,you will definitely run out of impressions

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@ seeker

what baffles me is a situation where all those parameters are in place yet they take the plunge,

i dont get it

come to think of it, what more happiness do you seek when you have it all

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Different people have different reasons they're in a relationship. But mostly, it's a pretty normal thing to be in a relationship. I'm not sure any girl is too scared of losing their virginity hence, that is out of the question.

Relationship really isn't all about money but comfort can't be ruled out. Friends can't be compared with being in a relationship; there's a special happiness that comes with that  - it's natural for anyone to feel that way.

The most thing that a relationship encompasses is happiness and once that exists, everything is good. Howbeit, happiness can be achieved by different means in every respective relationship depending on the individuals involved and why they both are in the relationship.

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Dont judge all by a few persons's standard.

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no money no relationship.they consider your pocket first n foremost no ego no relationship.

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Relationships are over-rated. Notin dey there.

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All those once na pure lie, any girl wen enter into any relationship, na say she don sample the guy and she notice say money dey, u never hear, no money no love, if any girl love you without money, omo guy comma dey,

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Why Do You Think Most Girls Consider Being In A Relationship? I guess because after awhile they get bored and reckon it's time to try something outside of their comfort zone.

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