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Why Do You Want To Get Married?

Almost all the single people I know have plans for marriage.  Women start panicking when they are approaching 30 and suitors are no longer there, while the men are pressured by family members to "settle down". 

You probably want to get married.  Yes, I mean you!  Why do you want to get married?

- It is because you want children?   If so, why not just adopt a baby?

- Is it for social recognition or respect?  Why not just make some money and flaunt it to get respect?

- Is it for love?  Is there any guarantee that his/her love wont evaporate after marriage like that of your five to ten former lovers?

- Is it because the society demands it?  You'll be surprised that when you 'bone society' and keep doing your thing the rumors will eventually die down because people have their own problem to worry about.  Nobody complains about the dressing Charly Boy anymore.

Ok, I still want to get married.  I think it's love I'm looking for; love in all dimensions.

What about you?

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already found it honey

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This lady is looking for love! I pray you find it.

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coz i love him and i know that i wana spend the rest of my life with him coz my heart feels fed when i think of him. He brings a smile to my face and i want him to be the one who walks with me through this journey of life. its too long when you are alone but its enjoyable when there is someone there with you every step of the way. I want him to be the one i go through ups and downs with him and i want him to never lv my side again

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Because i am tired of dealing with girlfriends. Time for a wife

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Cos i need companionship

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Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married?

« #6 on: May 20, 2009, 09:02 AM »

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my toilet needs scrubbing, my entire house is full of cobwebs and dirt, my clothes are so,

Na d kind una dey wash woman pants

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because of time and tide

maybe.

or just no particular reason.

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To conform to societal demands. Other than that, nothing,

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because i am getting OLD

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To have children and provide them with the right framework to grow up and face life with loving parents on their side.

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Cuz I want to be complete n obtain favour from the lord.

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Because i have so much love to give. Marriage is a life of sacrifice.

And if i find sb who thinks like this as well? we will be in perfect harmony.

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see me see question.

@ poster,why did u parents get married?

if they did not,which mouth,u wan take ask these question.hope u are ok?

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cos i want sumone dt wud realy love me,sumone i can spend the rest of m life loving,sumone i wud ve beautiful kids for,sumone dt wud be my best friend,dt wud love me unconditionally.sumone dt wud respect me and never cheat on m.and to fufil the laws of God which says go into the world, be fruitful and multiply.it trips me wen i see old couples who still stare at each other with so much love as if they jst fell in love.

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Cos I want s'mun I can legally call my own, s'mun who I can love and cherish and share secrets and act out my fantasies with. . .and even when we're getting old and our physical features aren't what they used to be, and the chemistry's all but gone, we'll still be together. . .cos we can't afford to be with anyone else.

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I want to fulfill purpose with a partner and leave a signature in the human race when eventually I exit.

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I get married to

start a new cycle of life.

start a new generation with the love of my life

have companionship

fulffill God's words and prophecy

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By settling down, one knows that he is fully a man. When he can Carter for his wife and children. asks of no sex outside his house when he has a wife who is always ready to give him what he wants. feed his children etc then he has reached. Not only that, i also think that when one gets married, he then becomes complete because God said that man is not complete without a woman. now if i should ask what of priests and all religious categories who don't get married but follow god. are they loosing or gaining?[email me @ obetachirotam@yahoo.com

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because i so much love him.and he loves me more

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it was never God's intention 4 man to be alone. so why should i be alone. i want to marry 4 companionship

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i wanna get married cos i want to witness the joy of being a mother and secondly wanna see how i can cope with a different character (being) for the rest of my life. i think and hope the journey is gonna be intresting.

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I want to marry cos I have a need to love someone in a special way. A need to have someone who has a smile (even it's in her heart) for me every time. A need to be more than myself. A need to be a father.

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Yea right!! Good luck at that!!

@ Post.

I want to have legitimate Children.

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To find my compliment and enhance our lives for happiness together. I am looking for my one true love. A love I have that is so great that nothing else in the universe really matters.

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eina, for goodness sake,

what you need is a house boy and not a wife, wives are not slaves period. Am passionate about this .

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A loyal fan (and vice-versa), children and family, friendship and companionship, shared bills/expenses, shared worries, shared responsibilities, mutual spiritual support, safe sex, a comfortable home and a balanced life,

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I want to get married for companionship when i'm more matured and hopefully, so is the guy. It's assumed by then we wud both have seen enuf of life not to mess it up with petty issues. You get to grow old with someone, and thats ok! After all, i thot when Eve was created for Adam it was so he wouldn't be lonely, we seem to have lost the plot with varied interpretations adjusted to our times. Love is fickle, cos as humans we just don't get it and so i wont rely on it, it's all a gamble. If it cud be avoided, i think it's a waste getting married young. Women become bitter from taking on to much and Men just cant get their acts together. Marriages after the age of 40 seems better, and is all about companionship. Personally, the fact that you cant have children is ok, you don't get to traumatize them with your mistakes. If only emotionally qualified couples got married, one wonders if that would correlate to less socially inept, sadistic, cruel individuals being born into society, one wonders!

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before someone else shanks my one and only looney for tooney

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i wanna have my own kids

i wanna have a man of my own

i wanna have a man that will be beside me at all times good or bad

i wanna have a man i can always confide in

there are just so many reasons

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Cuz i want toexperience the best of life.It is the best thing to happen to any man.

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cos 2 heads are better than 1.

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rotflmao. you are amazing! nice one.

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I need to join the craze before it goes out of fashion.

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is a thing of the mind

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So that she can b my masseuse

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for companionship with that one "special person"

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my toilet needs scrubbing, my entire house is full of cobwebs and dirt, my clothes are so dirty. pls I need a wife. anyone arround?

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Why Do You Want To Get Married?

what more than to set up my own family

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'Cos its time to grow up. Plus when the people at the free clinic know you by name, the punnany just got too risky.

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for companionship,love,friendship

, a threefoldtwofold cord is better than one,

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I like kids, kids, kids and kids. I want 'em, many, lovely, happy and very intelligent kids playin all over d house. I like to be loved by a lovely wife too. Haha!

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I want to get married on day. But he has to be a leader, good problem solving skills, business minded, and ready to protect his habitat. Prove to me that you are a man and stand your ground. That's my belief

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@ question

Wanna have children and see what it feels like

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I have never really had anyone in my life to love me truly, like my parents love me, but it sometimes feels like there are conditions, good grades, graduate, get a great job etc,

I want to get married because like many women I have that painting in the back of my head, of kids in a stable home, running around the lush garden and the husband and wife both working together and helping each other to make life's struggles less difficult.

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I agree with shylladear, marriage the ultimate fulfilment to everything in life. It's like a must do ritual.

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it makes you a fulfilled person be you male or female

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To feel what it is like to have someone I can always trust, someone I can always lose myself in and not to be scared of letting that person have me completely.

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