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Why Does Love Hurt So Bad?

People say they love each other yet ending up hurting each other. Why do you think that happens?

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No I disagree,the reverse is the case.

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But y cnt we just love and remain happy,d guys r even d most hurters....no matter hw much Ɣ☺ΰ shw love and giv love to a guy,he stil hurts Ɣ☺ΰ.

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[quote author=Busta]feel ya - Love sure hurts sooooooooooo bad cos many people take for granted a lot of things and don't know wat they've got until tis gone. Saying I love u is a mere word of mouth.

poo HAPPENS, u gotta brace ursef and move on with ur life[/quote

I agree wit Ɣ☺ΰ there but we just cnt help gettin hurt can we?

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love exist only 4 dis who dnt luv, n 4 dos who luv heartbreak is wat exist. 2 n safe dnt show u luv jst ve a control ova ur emotion n feelings weder lust, like or luv.

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Love hurts so bad wen u put in ur whole hrt into it

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The reason is that; Any fool can fall in love, but it takes smart people to stay in love.

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Luv=hatred.u hate s1 u luv.

'i hate all =N=LanDeRs'!

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perverts? do they have much less give love?

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people have great and unrealistic expectations. we forget the people we expect love from or are loving are as imperfect as we are. only God's love doesnt hurt! love only works when both parties are willing to learn to love together, forgive, grow in love, bla bla bla

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@poster

were you hurt?

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i guess, love is either foolishness or full-leaseness, any ways, it will hurt bad

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i dont agree, i think its because people do change somewhere along the line

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*ummm scratches almost bald head, wishes

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@Poster

go watch the movie, " Why do fools fall in love". Love doesn't hurt, it's only perverts that makes it hurt. Love if you mean it and if you don't carry on.

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U can't be too careful. Nobody is perfect. We still get on each other's nerve without knowing. U are two different people trying to adjust to suit eachother so their will always be times u hurt each other. Hurt is inevitable in relationships, But the gravity is hurt differs.

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and what if she's careful enough to stay away from such things? i guess it will stil be love. yet there is no hurting. Except you want to see it that she may be hurting herself by staying off such things for my sake. In which case the sacrifices we make for our lovers' sake may then be hurting for us. But it is not the lover that is hurting us directly? Are we saying samething?

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simple, if she does something that naturally shld spark jealousy/anger or cause pain and u are not bothered. Then its not love. Getit?

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Hmmm, baby, could you please throw more light on this? Must it hurt to be love?

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Love: short as four letters, yet has been so destructive to many souls mostly because those they love don't love back. Love, that Makes the mighty fall, confused & wail like a baby.

If it doesn't hurt, then its not love.

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Song by Terrakota, i guess;

You are too young to fall in love. When you know the meaning of love, all the , you feel for love will pall. loving is not a child's play. That is why it hurts.

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Because people do say what they cannot with hold later.

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because a lot of people put in their mind n soul when they luv n cannot see, and when it comes crashing on their face, its explodes and brings down their heart like the 9/11 world trade center.

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can i join this conversation?

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SIMPLE!!!

ITS NOT REAL LOVE

REAL LOVE DOES NOT HURT SO BAD, IT DOES NOT HURT AT ALL

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Lack of honesty, openness and frankness. Say like it is whatever the situation

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Hmm, love does not hurt. The only reason it will hurt is when it is departing you. When you have love, you are always happy, no matter waht situation; love gives peace.

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@poster

WHY DOES LOVE HURT?

It hurts because we sometimes mix infatuation with true love

and there is never true love and if ever it exist only in the heart of few

True love can never make u cry, make u sad nor make u hurt

But rather will keep u through all the test of time

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Love does not hurt if its true love execept otherwise. And that means if there are hurdles to it which can only make it stronger.

Do u understand?

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when we lose love its no worse than any other tragedy or loss in our life. the only difference is. when we are in love the feelings we have are so amazing. that when we lose it we feel like we have lost everything. you should not hide from love. because nothing good comes without pain or hardship. you must take the good with the bad. just because there is a possibility that u might get hurt. there is also the possibility that you might spend the rest of your life feeling the most amazing feelin eva!

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Someone has already said that's it's the loss of love that hurts. If love hurts, then it's not worth it.

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Emotions is something we have no control over, when we love it's like a feel good factor,it's like a natural high. When love hurts, the pain becomes unbearable.

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It is not love that hurts, for love can never hurt. love is one of the strongest bonds two people can have. it is true that the person you love has the greatest ability to hurt you. however what actually hurts is the absence of love, or the loss of a love. Many people mistake love for Pain, but love is the most amazing feeling. if someone is constantly hurting you, they do not love you.

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Uuumh dt's a knotty 1.when u luv sm1 u r Unclad no crevices, no barriers. So any missiles comng frm d luvd 1 neva misses the target. Human luv is transient dt's wat i've found out

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@Busta

R u talking from experience?.

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DAPSY YOU SO FUNNY, I LIKE DAT THO!!!

EHN FILE!!! DATS COOL

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God is Love, Human beings are muthafuckers, Fall in Love and run down, FILÉ! (that is the koko)

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Love hurts Bad when it goes sour cos all your defences are down before it strikes, which sucks!

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Mc cube get over it and face reality dunt be silly cos u go get hurt again. and sweet TTTTTTT dunt understand you ooooooo speak the one i understand. lol

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ave been there and i know how it feels. love hurts and its only the person u love so much that has the power to hurt u

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love don't hurt. people hurt.

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@Diamond

You are one thick mama, huh, huh ! Thin in the waist and thick in the back !!! Oh my God !

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love hurts because it's pure, it hurt again because you are ignorant and stuid. hehehe

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The reason pple can't love others is becos they are not love themselves.For more of this mail

priestdaprince@yahoo.com

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Because joy wouldn't feel so good if there is no pain

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how wld u knw? though sum rships hv sum indicators of failure like beating and violence n stuff like dat

sum things start out gud n go dwn hill, so u won't knw unless u try

just try 2 brace urself 4 d impact is all, luv leaves u vulnerable u cnt avoid getting hurt it is sumn u hv 2 experience

besides if it doesnt kill u it mks u stronger

so dnt give up on luv if u've been hurt in d past, it might not be easy but u hv 2 move on and prepare urself 2 luv again.

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Love hurts so bad! It gets really bad, i can remember when i nearly ran mad cos of love, and even when i was tempted to do nasty things just to stay away from the thoughts of it. I remember when i fell seriously ill for weeks, the pain, the sadness, i remember when i didnt have a haircut for over a yr, and when i would starve for days, just the thought of it can bring tears to my eyes.

I dont recommend love to anyone, especially when u know it might go bad at a stage

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I guess the real question should be what is "real"?

Reality in its own term is subjective. So 'Real Love' is subjective too.

just as Gem97 said: THE TRUTH is that which YOU find for YOURSELF.

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