What exactly is it about the NYSC scheme that kills relationships?
I've had many friends and other none- friends who have lost their otherwise perfect relationships because they or their partners went to "serve" Nigeria for one year.
I always thought twas an original commitment problem until my own fiancee, not girlfriend now o, fiancee, walked out of our relationship because of another guy she met during the service year. And I could have laid down my life to defend her commitment to the relationship.
My hurt apart, i'm just trying to reseach what are the reasons that this happens so often!