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Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?

hehe! all me friends have refused to marry the Nigerian girl abroad,they say they are going home to marry , whats happening with the Nigerian girl abroad? whats wrong with her oooo, What a Pity, !!!

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Because they are not marriage material.

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I have a story that wld make the men start marrying the girls dey meet abroad. My family friend( A guy) went to Lagos for London to find a wife. He came back with a girl that went to OSU who was acting naive. After the 1st year of marriage and she knew she wld have only one more year to get her British pali the gurl started acting up and eventually got out of hand. Before he knew it she got her mother to send some Jazz ( concotion to turn man to MUMU) to her in London. With time all the guy's salary was being paid into her account. The day after she got her british Pali, she cleared the whole house when the guy left for work and only left him a coffee table saying " I Have chopped all ur money, dont need u anymore. By the way my divorcee papers are at court saying u beat me regularly, so If you love urself you better not ask for me back or end up in Jail".The problem was she had even become smarter than the girls abroad. Now the guy is repairing his life. A man that had a 5 bedroom house of his own is now living in a room sharing a 4 bedroom house with people he doesnot know.

As God would help him, a girl who is in England here feel inlove with this guy and they are getting married soon.THE DEVIL U KNOW (GIRLS ABROAD) are BETTER than the ANGEL YOU DONT know.

Word of advice o.....

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SMH, wherever all the nice Nigerian guys and girls are hiding, they need to come out. People are starting get restless since they can't find anyone to be with. Its a good thing I don't go around looking for guys to date, otherwise I'd go crazy.

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Well, I don't have a preference when it comes to who I relate to. Its so multi-ethnic where I live so I don't really see how I could just hang out with one group. It would make me feel like I'm not really taking advantage of the fact that there so many different groups of people to interact with.

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Guys chill, why are you loads running away from teh Gospel truth as for the UK%90 of young Men preffer to marry from 9ja the reason are obvious, the first and fomrost is PAPERS, then there is the issue of manners,then there is another issue of money management, like someone rightfuly said earlier, the Nigerian girl abroad has reduced her self to make money woman,ie, Guys wanna build house for themselves and family girls too wana do same and we all know sey na co-oporation nah make rice full pot, so its a catch 22 situation, so 9ja guys keep marrying who you want and also 9ja girls go 9ja go pick ur guy too

PS, 9ja girls too form.

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Personally I would rather marry a Naija girl in diaspora. I feel I can relate alot better to them.

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u mean guys or girls?

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They are too fake. . .

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I would love to marry a Nigerian girl abroad, but, sadly, they all seem to like white men. . .

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@poster! cause niaja babes are doing wat dogs are doing that why?

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@vivaladiva

pretend how?

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u girls having these problems, i cant marry a person who hasnt left the shores of nigeria for more than five years. trust me there are enof nigerian boyz in uk looking for wives, the problem is una naija girls too they pretend.

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You Guys are still writing stuff to my blog, lol, NIgerian Babes Abroad, hehe, and u sillyme? wassup, urre very funny,

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I think its cos inwardly they feel the ones abroad are more of hustlers in the street than the ones here. and the ones here are MUCH CHEAPER and docile !

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cos they are so bad!!!!!!!!!!

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Most Naija babes abroad would find the above quotes cryptic!

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the reason they dont marry , is cos it is money education business that landed them .not marriage

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Well, I think many Naija babes abroad are confused about what they want. So, it's better to leave them alone until they figure it out all by themselves.

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ROTFLMAO!!

You're not serious!

same thing you said b4 na

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OK let me try again.  I said that

There is actually a thin line between being bold and being Cocky

Many will misinterpret your boldness as being cocky but it is not true. I have had problem with that when I was in Naija. Someone will say 'that guy is too pompous' and stuff like that.

Come to think of it,  if you do not have personal pride, you will be feeling inferior and will never be happy. This applies to both men and women

Over here in the UK they say Nigerians are cocky and loud, why they are bold and they go for the jaugler even if they are into evil.

When one is assertive, he comes accross in a resolute manner without being aggressive or cocky.

The cocky person will see him first as being cocky

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You haven't seen COCKY until you've seen this

Inconceivable Pleased Mother-to-be-inlaw

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-144251.0.html

When I read the title, I swear I never laughed so hard in my life. . . then I read the first post and i thought I had reached the max on laughter allowed a human being. . . until i read his rebuttal posts. Let's just say, It took all I had to convince my family not to have me committed.

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There is actually a thin line between being bold and being Cocky

Many will misinterpret your boldness as being cocky but it is not true. I have had problem with that when I was in Naija. Someone will say 'that guy is too pompous' and stuff like that.

Come to think of it,  if you do not have personal pride, you will be feeling inferior and will never be happy. This applies to both men and women

Over here in the UK they say Nigerians are cocky and loud, why they are bold and they go for the jaugler even if they are into evil.

When one is assertive, he comes accross in a resolute manner without being aggressive or cocky.

The cocky person will see him first as being cocky

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Na, it means nothing.

Just wondering how you can be confident and bold without a lil sprinkles of cockiness.

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which one of the 3 you previously mentioned do you belong?

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Primitive ways??

What about the babes in Naija?? Are they more sophisticated??

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hahahahaha negronts don kill me o. yeee my little ribs.

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But am very sure you're willing to answer my question

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I guess you should detect my drift from my tune

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So which one are you?

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I guess being cocky brings problem but being confident, bold and assertive gives room for compromise

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All the people wey contribute to this thread don craze finish Grin.I have been reading and laughing so hard.

I almost had a heart attack o,the babe for cam fit be me o.You show,they run.You no show,they accuse you of hoarding/uptightness.No wonder he has stopped calling,I thought it was work.Why exactly was he happy when he was viewing?Naija men eh,nawa!I tire for una. Lips sealed Angry

sure it was you doing that stuff on cam, Nija babes don become strip tease on cam, na wa for oyinbo land ooo, na wa ooo i tire!!

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If you let a woman control you, you are in for it cos power drives them like Rum.

But if you treat the reasonable ones well, you will get a good ROI (return on investment )

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Ok then try first . . .did you see the post above?

I guess they are doing that on purpose

You won't a US version in UK

I experienced that and had to download the UK version and it stopped

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So you telling me that your sis don't know you getting married?

hehehhe, more dangerous where? Afraid they'll still the wedding cow before she says her vow?

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Because Nigerians girl abroad have the same old primitive ways in them! Their pretending not love man way. We men don't love them when they are like that. Instead, we better go for foreigner that will not pretend!

This is the reason why we Nigerians men abroad don't marry Nigerians girls abroad.

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Cheaper you said? Isn't he bringing her over?

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@Okija

same thing is happening to me!!

I'm currently using my email!

It just won't open, I reinstalled, but still not working.

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I was born in nigerian grow up in nigeria before come here abroad i dont see any thing bad about guy's going back home to marry a lady there because one it is cheaper for most men that go back home and marry

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@Ruby i said I'll be getting married soon and you'll be getting the wedding Iv soon ok?

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my YIM isnt working O!

Some bloody error msg keeps appearing everytime I try to open the cursed thing

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@ topic

That's their choice!

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Onyee that's the music

It was done not in central Igbo but in Owerre dialect

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And I thought you knew your bible.

Genesis 2:18 ¶ And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him

Ge 2:22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man

Ge 2:23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

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Ok YIM now if you have. my add is my profile

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