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Why Don't Women Ask Men Out On Dates?

I have come to the point where i wish women would do some of the toasting sometimes. naturally i am an old fashioned guy who believes that men should do the asking out. but the way some of these women behave these days plus the kind of isho (nail or rejection) some of them dish out to guys these days makes me wish some of them would actually try doing the work of toasting men sometimes and see how it feels to be nailed the way they do. Really wouldn't mind seeing women toast men for a change.

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who says they don't?

the first 3 girlfriends i had asked me out.

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It's an African Mentality,

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@ poster

they dont ask men out on dates becos na una go be d same people wey go turn round say them be sluts.

if dem gree quick quick for guy,we go say dem easy,

if dem no gree quick qiuck,we go say shakara too much asy dem hard.

we go complain say make dem dey open up,

if dem open up,na we go start to yab then again say dem cheap tarts,

i agree with dem,

make d men ask dem out if dem wan them.

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yea yea u wanna know why?cuz they aint matured.only matured ladies can do that.lol

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i dey hear this 4 the first time,women approach men everytime,everyday,have also experience it home and abroad.no big deal,doesnot matter who,i love it when women does.

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I have read many poster saying women should and women act like they are in 1950. My fellow nairaland from observation and what I noticed a long the line in the dating or relationship a man will always be a man he will some remind you of your act either verbally or through body language. Let the man make the 80% or 90% move and that then the woman can take over. If a woman struggle to get a man she will struggle to keep him simple

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some women do. they obviously take that bold step to grasp what they want.

the ones that cant are simply Cowards, YES ! thats what they are, cowards

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yes a very small number of women do but not many women do. most women just think that its fun to let men try to get close to them so they can reject them. i guess it makes some of them feel really important.

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well toniaslim has said it all, if you like 'em, better tell him cause you might never know ,he might just be feeling the way you do, better than never, mz

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@poster

because for all the new found women's lib in africa and its attached baggages,most of them are still stuck in the 1950s way of doing things,

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@ Poster if a woman does it the first time,second time and third time soon she will become tired of doing it because it is not in her nature to do it. 80% of men do not feel comfortable seeing a woman doing. I think there is something God deposited in men that makes them more comfortable to woo a woman and ask a woman for a date

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I guess it varies in society. where i stay it ain't a big deal. there more girls than guys here, so if you busy hanging around waiting for someone you think you deserve to approach you, then you might just hang around for ever.

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dats true o, experience is d best teacher

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because of because. . . . . . . . .

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