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Why Is It Dat Ladies Prefer Older To Younger Men?

Therez dis guy dat actz quite matured but in early/mid 20's. I am afraid he may not stick 4 long wit marriage not at his immediate need. Atleast I am less worried of older guys, u know d ones in late 20's/in dem 30's, it baffles me because because I have also heard that guyz in in late 20's/early-mid 30's may be desperate; wanting to test d waters 2 find d right one, thus unintentionally breaking hearts, My people wot is ur take?

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yes l can date a old man if l see one that can take care of me

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Women look in men for stability and protection. Many times older men have more achievements on their credit. You never know how the young man would turn out after all. You have to really love him and believe him to trust him your life and the future lives of your kids. That is why some women prefer stability and guarantees. They get the men, who already gotten some results in their lives.

Plus those men already have made their big mistakes with women for the most part and they really know how to attract girls. They know how to talk, and how to court. Most of them are ready to settle down finally and they are not just after sex and fun. If you have trouble attracting a good girl, it might be you are little too focused on yourself yet, rather than being focused on her.

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did i hear you say test the waters?thats just one of thier numerous thoughts towards any relationship they have with ladies.the younger guy always has this naive mindset when in a relationship,almost childlike,they think they're smarter in everything even when they are inexperienced.hence not willing to share your ideas,or welcome suggestions from you,so(why join him in jumping out the window of the 15th floor).My advice -stick with the older guy,who's had many years of experience cause he's been there,done that and now more focused.trust me you are bound to learn a lot from the relationship even it never ends up in marriage.

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it is d same reason why older men prefer younger women

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There is nothing wrong with Young Ladies prefer dating Older men or vice versa.

Look at the actress Vanessa Willams as villian at "Ugly Betty" date 24 yr old young man---she is between 40-50 yr old.

Look at the singer Tina Turner has interviewed with the Ebony magazine reporter in the 1990s-2000s revealing how she stayed look young despite of she is 60s. Her answer was enjoyed having sex with young men between age 20-30.

Look at book author Terry McMillian, "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" that she is middle-aged woman married to young Jamaican boy telling a story almost similar to this book. (now she divorced)

Don't be narrowed-mind about dating older men or vice versa. By the way there is more existing threads for similar topic at below:

Why Young Women Often Date Older Men?

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2247.0.html

Why Would A Girl Date An Older Man But A Guy Can't Date An Older Woman?

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-79543.0.html

Would You Date A Man Twice Your Age?

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3277.0.html

Can You Date Or Marry Older Than You?

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-20604.0.html

In Love With A Much Older Man

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-69947.0.html

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