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Why Is It Difficult To Get A Virgin As A Wife?

i am a virgin so i am the most quailified to marry a virgin. why is it hard to find a virgin to marry? good things are hard to come by, so are virgins who are also hard to come by.

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@OP.

I am never one those people looking 4 a virgin to marry. All i need is a gud wife who will b a gud &responsible mother 2 my kidz. I recommend this stand to u too.

However, dont let any convince u to think that there r no more beautiful virgins around though very few.

I used to think like that b4. That has change through my lil xperience. People dat r not will tell u there r no virgins but dat is a big. Be that as it may,marrying a virgin should not b d ultimate.

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4 ur mind u b v? guy na lack of opportunity.

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Be ready, because ladies that remains virgin till marriage are ladies likely of high handedness, be careful,

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You no go fit get virgin because you sef no be virgin, OLE, THIEF, OLE , LAZY MAN

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Why is it difficult to get a virgin as a husband?

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There ar many virgins around. Trust me.

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There ar many virgins around. Trust me.

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There ar many virgins around. Trust me.

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Yes. its difficult. The one I almost married didn't work out either because of that, even though she was introduced to me as a virgin

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i won't spend one second looking for a virgin! although I have not deflowered any girl, I still believe that most girls did

not deflower theirselves

males did it, so, why are they looking for what they have thrown away with their hands.

although we know that some girls are guilty too.

because it is hard to get one, please respect them; they deserve it.

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something is wrong with u

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, i don`t think its difficult to get a virgin as a wife, you just have to pray sincerely to God about it, l mean if thats what you want, and l guess they are still out there, most times play hard to get, and majority of our guy today do not like stress so they will rather go for the easy to get ones.

Just pray about it, they re still out there!

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where you wan see virgin nah wah for you

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Guys i've experiencies about virgine girl kindly contact ur God,4 a better marriage,

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This also applies to men

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Some try to make little of this great virtue. Virginity is a great value and an asset to women. This to me represent a strong women with enough courage, control, contentment and determination to keep a family and train up good children with high sence of value and character.

In the time we now live, its becoming increasingly difficult for this virtue to be sustained becos we have allowed the media and people of low moral standard define what is acceptable practice. As you can see, it has not always helped us. We must maintain our good virtue and refuse to relapse to vice behaviour just becos we may have made a mistake in time past and then accept this as standard.

I believe, the world will be better place with high moralityand value driven by genuine love. Both men and women can say NO. I am going to keep myself to that true one when we find each other someday. Think about it this way; its probably more romantic than hanging in the arm of any person not your spouse.

Anyway its probably more difficult when you do not sincerely Love God and strive to amintain a good relation with him.

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does it matter whether you marry a virgin or not? After all being a virgin is not a guarantee one will not cheat on ones partner. Just pray God gives you a good spouse.

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See how this guy just dey generalise. Till the end of time there will always be a few good men around and I daresay: a few good women too. The questions are: Are you one of them? and do you even want to be one of the? Remember in a bell shaped graph, the majority of average people are concentrated in the middle. Only a few will be oustanding and extraordinary in their outlook and disposition to life. The same rule applies to the issue of Chastity or as Nairalanders like to call it: VIRGINITY. A divorcee or widow will almost certainly not be a Virgin but may be Chaste.

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it's hard to find one cos the thing sweet, lol

virgins when married tend to cheat cos they want to have it so much that the so called husband can't give it all,

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@poster, to find a virgin wife to marry is not difficult. You just need to look in the right places. Don't mind all of this unrepentant fornicators and adulterers trying to run you down.

Here is the tip: If you know someone that you think might be your candidate. Ask her in a direct manner for intimacy without being shy (I am assuming you have been interested in each other for some time). If you are a perceptive person, you will find out that the VIRGIN (by choice) will be thoroughly embarrassed and mortified by your request. The non-virgin will probably smile and contemplate whether she wants you or not and will not be shy, embarrassed or mortified. In any case a little background check should help you make-up your mind. I wish you best of luck in this endeavour and to those who are Virgins reading this thread I say keep it up, its worth it.

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quick question,

which would you prefer, a virgin with bad manners/eventual unsatisfying luv mkng experience or a non-virgin with good manners/satisfying luv mkng experience?

All the same, virgins who have made conscious efforts towards keeping themselves for their future spouses deserve commendation.

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quick question,

which would you prefer, a virgin with bad manners/eventual unsatisfying intimacy.u.a.l experience or a non-virgin with good manners/satisfying intimacy.u.a.l experience?

All the same, virgins who have made conscious efforts towards keeping themselves for their future spouses deserve commendation.

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Why do i have the feeling that girl846 is trying to get the poster's attention cos she claims to be a virgin, cos shes been screaming "im a virgin" indirectly since, why not go meet him and tell him, you r interested, finito

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If you don't unwrap that present, someone else will unwrap it for you

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so wats the big deal abt marring a virgin? after having sex once she becomes wat? meeting her a virgin doesnt mean after the hymen is broken she wont be promiscuous. Aint a virgin, even if i see an angel that wants to give me free of charge, i will reject it.

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i am the poster. just to clear up somethings. i can find a virtuous lady who is always a virgin, having a carnal knowledge of each other before marriage is a sign of weakness and lack of self control. only real men have self control . virginity is pride believe it or not. and for those who want to marry those that are exprienced in sexuality then go and marry a harlot ( commercial s-e.x worker) they are experienced in the act. there is no doubt that there are more adult non-virgins than adult virgins, you do not need a survey to back it because we all know the truth though some people say the wrong things because of the wrong path they took while growing up .

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@Girl846 (f)

I read most of your submissions on PAGE 1. I must congratulate u (and the poster). I was once like u, although things always change. I believe your choices are still there. Dont lose hope.

Kudos

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, shakes his head as he wonders why anyone would want to marry a virgin

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If wishes were horses i would have all threads with word virgin deleted

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who told u virgins gal are good thing. besides u need more experienced chic to shag u

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u[color=#990000][/color] u cud be damn wrong here nowadays almost everyone wants to feel among so even if they dont knw a tin they talk that way to make pple fell they are , (u knw)

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Virginity is overrated. There's nothing special about it. I'd rather want a more emotionally mature and stable lady than one who prides herself on being a virgin.

The way I see it: Most times, Virginity is as a result of a lack of the "right" opportunity.

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Keep believing and deceiving yourself! If you don't know, women are as pretentious and cunning as snakes.  We can hide a lot from you and you would never know but if you do find out, it would be too late for you, I promise you. So, pray that God send you your own honest and innocent woman.

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i long refrained from commenting on this dumb thread topic, but im getting irked by the silliness of it,

@ topic, why we dont have virgins? BECAUSE THE MEN ARE BUSY SCREWING THEM!!!!

is that ok now?

JEEZ!!! n3rve!!! wtf!!! how can you be whining about virgin? what magic does that confer on you or your marriage?

if your thinking is this way, then why the hell do u complain and whine about the rest of the old fashioned stuff? sure they used to marry virgins!, BECAUSE THE MEN DID NOT HAVE THE NERVE TO GO AROUND SCREWING THE GIRLS!!!!

THIS CONCEPT IS SO ANNOYING!!! you want a virgin, then stop screwng them, besides whom do u want to marry all the ones YOU have screwed?

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virgin are no more in fashion, nobody cares

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@Poster

How did u know that u are a virgin.Virgins dont meet virgins.Bad boiz meets virgins like me?

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Who said it was ever easier?

Marrying a woman who is a virgin is a good thing, but that isn't d main thing; ur focus should also be on her right standing with God, her character, is she the helpmate comparable to u? (Genesis 2:18), etc,

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I am seriously in need of a young decent girl whose virginity is still intact because in my street where i stay, i am very sure that there are no virgins from the age of 18years old

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I wonder y it has been so difficult 2 come across a virgin,anyway,no matter how scanty they are,i believe 'my wife must be a VIRGIN'

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Uhhh, Million Virgin girls are all around, Its just the fact that they can't put placards on their forehead to tell you and reason been that most of our ladies dress and look wayward which makes Men think they are disvirgined. Because a lady looks outwardly wayward or attractive does not mean she has slept with virtually all Men or Guys around. We have descent girls and perhaps If you're not lucky to get one, Maybe due to your luck, you can find a descent lady who is disvirgined but have an appropriate and a justiable reason for loosing it @ a point in time. Its not all disvirgined Lady that loose their virginity due to promiscuos way of life. Some could be molest, seduction at a tender age and what do you want them to do. Lol, We have cute chick who are Virgins and are determined to keep it, But won't tell you. Go get someone serious and forget abot this Virgin thing. If all men are waiting to marry a Virgin Lol, what will happen to homes and marriages. You might decide to remain a virgin maybe cos of your religion or State or you're not the outgoing type If not, No guy would see the opportunity and not grab it. My GF is a virgin, Soo other girls I know who are admirers to me, Watch, Beautiful girls are most Virgin because of their self esteem is quite high and are well accepted in the environment, But Well to beautiful girls always want guys around them and they a reaped off of their Virginity and dumped. In a nut shell If you want a Virgin, I swear approach th beautiful one.

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do be careful

i understanding that girls can make themselve virgins again with a special kind of creame or soap

and everytime they know that their hubby will be doing it, they just apply it

know that he being a jjc wont know

pls just find a good heart otherwise this ladies can even opening up to show u a tight hymen if that will convince u to say i do

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@orikinla

no kill me with laugh o

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Poster, there are over 55 million virgins in Nigeria from the last census.

If you are a Muslim, you can follow the footsteps of the prophet to catch them young from the age of 6 and wait until they are 9 or 13 like Senator Ahmed's 13 years old Egyptian virgin and then attack them and cause many of them to have VVF. But if you are a Christian, you need to fast and pray to see any virgin under 30. Most of them have lost their virginity even while climbing Okada motor bike on the street or whilst dancing hip-hop at late night parties.

Virginity is is not a proof of chastity or purity.

Many girls who have not even slept with any boy or man have done worse things than those who have had sexual intercourse.

There are still Nigerian maidens who are virgins, but don't go asking them to swear or prove it.

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virginity doesn't count cos all these prostitute u are seeing are once virgins. What u need is someone with good character.

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@Poster,

Never base your conclusion on the comments people make on FB or other social website about se!x. A group of psychologist once made a research amongst teens and the young adult. They found out that majority those who acted "loose", of those who dressed like "sluts", and of those who spoke "flirty" were actually virgins. While majority of those who were quiet and cools had multiple sexual partners. There are actually more virgins out there than you think. (Used to work with teenagers)

Most people hide behind invisible mask. Because they talk dirty does not mean they are not virgins. You would be surprised. You would also be surprised that that "spiritual" sister is NOT a virgin. There is more to just looking for a virgin for a wife. Find a good woman. A woman of good character. A woman who love and respects herself. It is that woman who would love you in return and truly be the Wife of your dream. Not necessarily a virgin. A lot of women can fake vriginity for some men especially if the men are virgins. I have heard a man talk about how proud he was of his wife for being a virgin and yet she was not. she had even had an abortion before. I bet there are some other naive men out there too. (dont be one)

So, in your search for a wife, look beyond all that. Pray to God for YOUR woman. OPEN your eyes well well. OPEN your mind too.

My piece of advice.

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Are u a virgin yourself?

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have you guy's been to virgin island?[img]http://[img]http://[/img][/img]

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well guys,virginity is not the basis for being a good wife, it only shows u have respect for ur body and God. its every lady's pride. so if are still a virgin guard urself against unauthorised users and if u are not, its not too late to desist from such act.

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@ Poster, Believe me virgins do not carry sign posts on their heads!!! There are many out there, It may be a handful but there are, both guys and girls alike. It might interest you to know that I have four unmarried sisters, all above 20years all Virgins!!!

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