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Why Is It Hard To Forget Ur First Love?

i hv alwaz asked ma self y do pple, most especially gals find it hard i mean damn hard to forget their first luv ,d first luv thing is like a virus dat has eaten deep into some1.Is there any cure for it? if dere is, honestly i wuld luv to hv one.

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Simply because its your first.

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up till now, i dnt ve an answer to dis qstn bt i still wonder, my first love, every moment of it was great i must say, even till nw, dose memories re still in my head.nd i dnt tink i will 4get dos emoments,

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because your first love is your first illusion.

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Its really hard. Thinking about it scares u. and u scared tat u might not be able to love again.

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Your first love? Hmmm. usually your first mistake, but not completely. it's only natural for you to remember it often. For me it was the first time i swam in an abyss of perfidy!

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well it was our 1st time, even if there is nothing 2 remember I can't forget her innocet cry

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its normal cos like me when i was every little, their's this my little friend too, that we do play 2gether, and one day she bed wet and the sister beat her and said to her do you think any man will marry you if your bed weting, i felt sorry for her but was angry with the sister for beating my friend, and immidiatly we left the sister present i told her not to worry that i will marry her weither she bed wet or not, so she sharked her head as an acceptance. and since then as am growing up she never depart in my memory, when i started doing girl friend i tried to find her but could not, in inspite of 14 years of lost contact i still look for and find her, and today we are together. that is first life for you. any thing first for me is unique

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I cannot forget my Sweet Heart of Gold, the first woman in my life. I wish I could turn the hand of clock back.

She introduced to the real man and lady relationship.

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Cos they are d first, they will b ur first

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I cant even remember falling in love, let alone forget a first love. Spiritually Jesus is my first love, can never forget him, He's my life.

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First Love! First Love!! First Love!!!

From ladies perspective/angle, It is very difficult to forget. First love here means the guy that disvirgin u whether from ur own freewill or u were being forced. Any lady who want to be truthful to herself will wish to marry the first guy that had intimacy with her. If a lady bought a mansion for u and u did not touch her b4 the separation, I can bet it, she may not remember ur name if asked.

For guys, it goes the same way, but not as ladies.

Exactly.

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Rod Stewart, firs cut is the deepest.

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My first love? mmmmmm, i dont think i can 4get her even when i marry i will surely tell my wife

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That's just the way it is. Your first love is Usually the one you give your all.

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u've already answered ur question,d first kiss and first sex,is nt easy how can u forget a tin like dat.but if eventually u broke up jst move and say is normal.

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Tell me about ur 1st love

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^^^^^^Lol interesting

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A visitor to a lunatic asylum found one of the inmates rocking back and forth in a chair cooing repeatedly in a soft, contented manner, “Lulu, Lulu, ”

“What’s this man’s problem?” he asked the doctor.

“Lulu. She was the woman who jilted him,” was the doctor’s reply.

As they proceeded on the tour they came to a padded cell whose occupant was banging his head repeatedly against the wall and moaning, “Lulu, Lulu, .”

“Is Lulu this man’s problem too?” asked the visitor.

“Yes,” said the doctor. “He’s the one Lulu finally married.”

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Lesson => There are only two afflictions in life: not getting what you are attached to; and getting what you are attached to.

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Who is your first love? Ralph?

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prototype

na beans? first second third fourth fifth . . . . infinity, they're all in the memory stored away

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Your mind is messing with you.

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As for me my first love is different frm my first relationship that ended on a platonic affair bt yet i cherished it more than my first intimacy wt d girl i didnt love to move wt bt we actually had a couple of intimacy wt bt i dnt cherished her wheneva d flashback thot came to me.

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That's why he's the 1st now, you guys shared everything together,

He knew you before anybody, well, did, lol

Dont' worry Old things pass away, so that new things come to stay

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Just like anything that's a first, you generally don't forget it, then there's the standard thing, you use it to weigh against your next relationships, I think

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Well, are talking about first love or first sex? The main reason why many find the "first love thing" difficult is because there was sex. Trust me guys, If there was no sex, all you are left with is a fuzzy cute feeling for the person and nothing more!

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I won't lie, this post made me to remember her because i forgot all about my first love long time ago

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its hard to forget cos when you think of love, the name comes to mind unless you are not ready to be involved in anythin that has to do wit love

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4get first lv, with the way the world is turning into some gals neva had it at the back of their mind, whether a guy is first or not . They still cheat and double date. If i matters most to them infidelity would not have been rampant in this country, especially amongst women.

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It reminds me of the energy, time and resources lost when my head wasn't matured in that context. Poor me! Now i'm a great tutor in relationship.

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The heart can't forget d first person that showed it love outside home.

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It's quite difficult to forget your first love because she's the first person you ever had a relationship with.

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coz d first love na im enter d place

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Exactly!

Not forgetting a first love doesn't necessarily mean your still in love with the person or if the opportunity came again to date the person you would cease it!

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i think say na only me, men i neva still 4get my 1st love,

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Do not forget your first love is usually those you married or are still with. It does not necessarily mean the first person you dated. You may or may not have loved this person

In many cases the first love is the one they married after so many trials.

I hope you can now see why they are hard to forget?

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Why did the moderator change my words. i wrote bastar, d and not naughty.

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Big deal.

I had way too many 'first loves' until I met the perfect one.

It is the ladies that make it a big deal.

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This your analogy no go at all because can't remember alot of my first stuffs especially phone.

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this must be thread #59087 on this issue.

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i dont know the answer

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My first love, I will never 4get. She is just too cute and she likes me alot when I was even no body, friendz tot i used jazz on her.

Cult Geez after me , lecturer tryna fail me, Damn!!! but she wont just stay away from me, back then was tough for me mehn.    

She insist to get married to me, her parents saying na yoruba boy, na wah o for this tribe issue.

Anywayz gurl u will always be on ma mind.

Moving on

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Ladies, never let your man kno about him.It is hard for some of you to 4get him becos you are liken to harlot(a dog that alway go back to its vomit). Take it out of your mind and never let anybody know about it. It should be a shame that you are defiled before your time.

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I jst cn't 4get my 1st luv. I stil luv im tho n we contact each oda ocasionaly. We dint rily av a relatnshp cos of sum vry cogent rzns bt WE LUVD EACH ODA DEEPLY. My prob nw is guys dt am in2 r taken yle d ones I dn't rily lyk r d ones comin arnd.

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It's a normal phenominom .

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It affects men too o.

I met one of recent, though she aint as beautiful as she was when we were together, & even though I've met some other girls since then, I couldnt stop thinking 'bout her long after we departed. dunno why

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Its a trade mark thingy, so its kinda hard to forget.

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Well, like someone said earlier, it's simply because it's your FIRST. Like the FIRST time u entered a boarding school/University, FIRST bunkmate, FIRST boyfriend(for those of us that have more than 3), FIRST(u can make up the list)

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