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Why Is It That Everybody Cheats In A Relationship? Even You!

It just puzzles me to find out that people in so called serious relationships would always cheat if the opportunity to do so comes knocking. To some people, we are humans made of flesh so we are unable to resist the temptation of defiling our bed even if it's just for the shortest of minutes. I was arguing with some of my friends who said there was no way I cud ever be faithful to my galfriend forever, how true is that? I maintained that I'd always love and never cheat on my woman but they said it was impossible that my "fidel" feelings will vanish soonest. The truth is that it is truly very very hard to be faithful, but I still feel it is not impossible. Tell us about your experience here. Time for some confessions!

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I can say with all confidence and pride that I have never cheated on a man.Its called discipline and dignity.Even when I had it rough,and temptations set in,I never did it,I would rather break up with a man than cheat.

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I just cannot imagine how a lot of pple can be trifling over something as sacrosanct as a relationship. See how babes dey yarn non-chalantly about cheating as if say na food wey dem must to chop. God! What will ever make a lady satisfied and remove her insatiable desires! I know of a friend who had a perfect relationship, bought her gal a car but she ended up on the bed of the mechanic fixing that car. Women just want a taste of what evryman has got! Na wa o

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Guy make you talk true. Your name alone sounds like you're a cheat, just tryin to leave in denial. Don't mean to be rude and we can obviously not generalize the statement but the post makes sense. It takes just the Grace of God to be faithful.

I've been made to realize that cheating is not just about having sexual intercourse but about doing something your partner wouldn't approve off. I did share ur view at first but we're all humans, we just have to take a stand and do what is right when we realise we're falling short.

peace out

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Are u insane? what makes you think that all guys are the same? for the fact dat calabers eat DOGS does not mean that all calabers are DOG eaters.because a guy or girl cheated on you does not mean that all men are the same so please take time.

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Quote from: full depth on June 06, 2008, 04:12 PM

u don't call it cheating, we only call it that when caught in the act .

We call it simple comparism . VARIETY is the spice of life. u can't continue to live on one kind of food alone,u'll die or become malnourished, something else should be sampled or tried .

Would it be ok for your wife to sample as well?[quote][/quote]

BRAVO!!![color=#770077][/color]

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Cheating got two diferents reason for both side : women cheat because their husband not have money enough as they need or women cheat because their Husband's rockets or missiles lost Pressure 0 Km/H Men cheat because linda's Fufu is better than Rosa's

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It makes a relationship very INTERESTING and sometimes CHALLENGING.

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to add more, women dont seem to be caught cheating as often as men because the socielty frowns more at them when caught doing it than men.

i mean men might even be praised when caught but the woman will be crucified.

everybody, i mean every body is liable to cheat.

all ye hypocrytes who say they dont, dont you some time see the opposit sex and think sexually of him/her? thats psychological cheating(still the same thing) its even worst because the possibility of getting away with that is absolute.

therefore the only reason why some of us dont cheat is not because we cant but beacuse we dont have the opportunity, or afraid of something, it could b anything

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The world is not stereotyped to a certain principle. There will always be deviants.

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WOMEN ARE AS LIKELY TO CHEAT AS MUCH AS MEN, ITS JUST THAT WOMEN ARE MORE CAREFUL THATS Y ITS HARD TO CATCH THEM.

THERE IS NO REASON WHY PEOPLE CHEAT, REASONS CAN BE FROM THE VERY MUNDANE (HE/SHE SMELLS NICE) TO THE VERY FREQUENTLY USED (HE HAS MONEY, SHES HOT, HE'S NEGLECTING ME).

TO ME, ITS JUST A THRILL, ITS LIKE A GAME.

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My own take on this is between happiness and contentment. It might sound strange but I believe you have to be happy and content with who you are with before you're less likely to cheat.

Now what do I mean by this? The funny thing is I was thinking to myself on my way to work this morning.

If I am happy with someone, that means she satisfies me for now but long term is definitely a no no. When what I am really looking for turns up I will leave that person. I might cheat by trying to check out if this amazing person actually is what I am looking for. In other words, someone comes along who I get on so well with and I'm thinking what are the odds. I have met someone like that and no I wasn't unfaithful. I now believe the "one thing led to another" phrase, but you can still stop it. This wasn't about sex but not often you meet a spend hours talking like you've known that person for years plus they are attracted to you and likewise.

If I am content being with someone, this means long term she is the ideal person to look to the future with but there are no fireworks. Everything else is fine and you get on well with them but there is no passion. (Mind you it's not all about passion). In this case you don't want anyone else to have a family with but you actively seek out someone who will add some fun into your life.

My take on this is that you should be with someone who you're make you happy and you're content being with them, that way you'll be like I have everything i want.

But you can be faithful if you want. It's a mindset even if you're happy in your relationship,

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Is that the topic? Go smoke the right shyt dude.

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radiant,

how many dudes do u have as a boy friend?

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People cheat when they are not able to communicate their needs to their partners. In fact cheating is a very immature act. No adult should even indulge in such a degrading act.

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i even wonder why men cheat more than women

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Do not generalise.

Not everyone cheats.

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dunno about u but I have neva cheated in ma life,

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the reason why people cheat is that their partner gives them problem

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Erm. . . . . .not eveybody cheat in a relationship.

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cheat ke, God forbid bad thing.

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You cheat whe you feel like cheating.

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Me am a saint. beliv it or not

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Not me . . am no cheater!

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you know with this thread you are basically telling on you self. so you have cheated

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I don't know why it happens, even when a guy is dating the girl of his dreams he'll probably still cheat.

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When one has no girl, its very difficult to get laid.

When one has a girl, all the other girls(including d ones dat previously said no) would start flocking around. Temptation rises and we cheat.

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