Why not the opposite or guys what do you think?
It is because is very usual for women to ask men out; while it is natural for men to do so. Imagine a woman doing same, I am sure you will be convinced that you have a prostitutes around you. The yoruba parable says...if the robe of cow is hug on a chicken..and if such is honourable to the chichen, certainly, it will be dis-honourable to the owner of the chicken that holds tight to the robe in his hand. It is a simple culture -way of life.