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Why Is That Some Women Are Ungrateful?

A man loves a woman so bad that he sends the woman to school I mean University, she studies and comes out with a degree, and she suddenly tells this same man that sent her to school that she can’t continue with the relationship simply because the man is not a university graduate himself….

This is biting the hands that fed you…

That’s what women do!!!

The question now is as a woman why do you do such a terrible thing, you knew right from the onset that this man was uneducated and still allowed the man send you to school, claiming you love him….

The man why would you be so silly to send a woman you’re not married to school.

My Candid Opinion I would never send a woman that am not legally married to, to school, cuz she might turn her back at me when I need her most .

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Wrap up this topic already. Let it go guys!

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sori,  u neva mit d gal wey go arrange make dem clear u, be4 u get home afta givin ha d list, shooooo,

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Why is the guy wasting government time?

Just calculate all you spent, add interest and give the girl the bill!

As long as they're all in lawless Nigeria, she must pay that money. Any attempt to argue nonsense, the guy should just organize the babe one time!

Use some more money, contact the right people and deal with the girl appropriately!

When fools think they're smart, then all known forces must be used to bring them back to reality!

By the time the guy finish with the girl, she go regret the day she call canda waterproof!

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The Gospel Truth is that a relationship that starts during your teen has its life span and it doesnt sound like the word forever, so many people did not marry their childhood sweatheart because they normally get to the end of its course during the first or second year of the institute, People need to wake up from such dream, Ok if it happens it happens but most people would like a change in direction of their life after heading one way since secondary school,

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Its a pity that most people to find justification for a wrongdoing based on gender sentiments.This is rather sicknening and wrong.I believe that being mature means judging issues based on merit.If making sacrifices as the guy in question did is wrong then i don't want to be right.I believe that it takes an honest man to send his girlfriend/wife to school instead of keeping her from getting education knowing that he did have one.I have had stories of men stoping their wife from going to school.I believe that education is beyond formal and brandishing "useless" certificate.We should be careful what we support because it might come to us.

I believe that the man sending the girl to school means that she cant afford it and if she didnt get that education she might not be in this position to classify the man as illiterate.

I will give the man credit but will advise him to forget about the girl and let her face the repercussion of her actions will surely come in a much more severe form than the heartbreak the guy will suffer.

If there are other issues with the guy,I might have looked at it the other way but no matter what, there is no justification for wickedness and betrayal.

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as u kno wen catalyst take part in a reaction, it remains unchange, so devil remains as it is,

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sciencifically in terms dat ,  u r A your future B n devil c,  subtance A + B> wif a catalyst C,  so catalytst c speeds d rate wich u distroy your future,  n the product given is  D(slow future)

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dumbass, aw abt spiritually? or sciencifically?

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@ smooooooth: nna men u be real igbo guy.

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apparently judging from ur IQ

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^^^so lame,  says who. wel aw person wey blind kno d diffrent btw pink n red, fool shey na al hausa dey do house wif

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i'm sorry that is too much sense for them to comprehend

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the things women base their decisions on are just dumb, why will someone abandon a very caring guy that saw u thru school, a  hard working dude with loads of container on the high sea and plenty shops scattered everywhere with enough boy boy wroking for him, for a broke Bottom graduate. na the graduate certificate she wan chop.

if i was a lady, i will go for the real man, and that will be the one tht can take up responsibilities, that cares, and loves me, whether na graduate or not.

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Best thing is to move on. Let the past be.

Live for today.

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na2day? your name is so funny.

If a girl jilted you it just means she outsmarted you.  Dont let love fool you mayne, it's a game.  The last guy in my life, He did me, I did him back. And i'm not leaving empty handed.  So it's tit for tat.

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hahahahahahahhaaaaaa

lmao, rotflmao, lwkmd.

LOL

Guy, you're so funny.  I love naija we're so hilarious. I'm always laughing.

There's an element of truth in what he said though. Many (not all oh, b4 someone chops my head off) of our girls lack finesse and etiquette, simple manners.

It seems you've been through some horrible experiences? Please do tell, must have been really bad for you to become this acidic.

Lmao.

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im doing great, aw abt u?

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^^^ Pls pls pls . . . try to contain your bitterness okay?

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@ALL THESE LADIES THAT HAVE CONTRIBUTED TO THIS THREAD,

YOU ARE ALL TALKING WITHOUT CONSULTING YOUR MEDULA OBLANGATA .

MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE NOT FAITHFUL

THEY ARE PERVERSE

THEY ARE LIARS

THEY ARE EVEN UNGRATEFUL FOR LITTLE THING.

THEY ARE EMBODIMENT OF BAD LUCKS.

IT TAKE SPECIAL GRACE OF GOD TO FIND A GOOD  GIRL IN NIGERIA.

UNGRATEFUL,USELESS ELEMENTS

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I thank God for kanye west for this blessing in a song

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lol @ the fighters on this thread,

Woman jilts man <-> Man jilts woman

We hear it all the time, but the truth is that each story is unique.  Each party had a part to play in the whole mess.  The solution to moving on comes with maturity.

So move on like an intelligent adult! (the not-so-smart ones also move on though the process takes longer for them lol). Who knows, maybe they will be re-united again, but dont hold your breath.  What's meant to be will be.

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obviously, u woke up and urs wasn't fixed

true, hard lesson learned for the poor fella

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hopefully when you wake up, your already destroyed brain will be fix to an extent and you would make argument based on common sense

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count your losses and move on.

nxt time think about sending yourself to school b4 some chick

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Will do Zee,thanks.

How are ya?

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You are just arguing blindly! A girl in first year has marriage as her least problems.

If they never talked about marriage or if the girl never agreed to marriage, then she did absolutely nothing wrong. Despite what you think, a man can still spend money on a girl he has no intention of marrying!!

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just like it is sickening for a lady to think a guy owes her marriage bcuz she slept with him and had a child or she supported him when he was nothing etc

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you are such a darling, thanks for seeing it that way

its really sickening when some men think that can own a woman just because of the gifts they gave her

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Just because a man helps out a lady at any given time-it does not in any shape or form give him total control over her affairs.

Some men really need to get that into their heads!

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DIS ^^^^ IS DIFFRENT FROM ~~~~~. GOD Y IS DIS GUY DIS DAFT NA

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OK fine wot the babe did is very wrong becos she is now a graduate she feels the  guy is no longer in her class after all he has sacrificed for her.she is realy ungrateful but ur friend shd jst 4get it maybe dey were not meant to be together after all.God only used him to sponsor the the girls education.she wud regret it later.its realy bad.

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i see notting wrong with the girl dumping him

most of these victims i mean women marry this men because they have no choice

the senerio is usually an old man of about 40yrs going to the village to get a girl of 16 or18 cos they believe she is pure, plus someone they can control (that is after they have slept with all the women in the city and called them prostitute)

then send her to school,  later she finds someone she actually loves but since she has become the property of some selfish guy that thinks his money and paying for her school is enough for him to own her she marries him and remain unhappy

the girls that usually dump them are brave and i give them kudos for following their heart, i know its painful

all these men should learn to get a mature woman to marry

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Or your friend, rather.

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I dont like hearing all this "women are ungrateful" b.s. Men can be ungrateful too.

Before you sent her to school did you come to an agreement on how she would repay you?

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university graduate Now u don't need to go to the university to be educated. Yes the rela/ship may lead to marriage i agree with u, but that is not the reason why she dumped him.

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I am really sorry for the Guy but he should take heart.I know its not easy for him to just forget it but tell him to try.Most people here see it as money but not sacrifice,depriving himself of a lot to see her have a better future because he loves her.

It is nemesis for the girl but blessing for the guy.I wish he will not try to revenge but allow KARMA to take place.I know that the same girl will come back years from now to ask for forgiveness when things begin to happen to her.

I have heard stories like this several times with different outcomes. Some take instantaneous actions which is usually deadly others allow the law of KARMA to prevail which takes time but is far reaching and is for lifetime.Most people stay barren,suffer failures in all life endeavors even with their qualifications,disabilities due to acid splash etc.

I remember a story where a jilted lady injected the kids of the man with hepatitis and HIV virus after many years of the jilting incident.Many stories of acid splash,murder and voodoo ( for those that believe).

I wish they will settle amicably and avoid curses. For the men try and know who you want to marry to avoid bringing a curse woman to your house,so is women.

I have a brother that dated a girl for six years and married another lady with a flimsy excuse,up till today he is still struggling.He was a multi-millionare but since then what ever business or contract he goes into yields nothing.I was very young then but i remember the lady crying and cursing.

If the man can educate her,I believe she should help the man get one too and not dismiss him as an illiterate.

I believe that all these are results of poverty.

I hope the guy in question should forget about it and hope for the best and for the lady i will advise her to find a way to make peace with the man and God.

We should not support evil cause what we wish others will come to us one way or the other.

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i just dont think its right to want an educated wife, and not be educated yourself.

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Thank you jor!

The problem is that most of these uneducated guys think that money is enough. Well it isn't. Not when it comes to forever! i cant even stand an illiterate, not to talk of date him, not to talk of marry him!

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Now you are getting sentimental. She used him? Correct me if I'm wrong but he was doing those things because she was his GF. I dont think she forced him to do them.

Whether you want to admit it or not, it's diretly linked with marriage! Should she continue in a relationship that wont lead to marriage when her days are going? For christ's sakes she's a woman. In school you can get away with anything. once you are out, you have to redefine your life. That's when you cut all r/ships that wont lead to marraige. Even the the guy in question, does he want to date her indefinitely. Isn't he ready to get married?

She dosent want to marry and illiterate. Why should she be curcified for that!

Like I said in my earlier posts, I'll only fault her if she led him on. If she made her stand known all along, then she did absolutely nothing wrong!

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that is not bitting the finger that fed you, rather moving with the times.

why would the guy offer a lady education when he does not have one.

ever heard of not being able to givewhat you dont have?

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@Ujujoan.

I'm sorry i think u are mssing the point here.

This is the point:

A man loves a woman so bad that he sends the woman to school I mean University, she studies and comes out with a degree, and she suddenly tells this same man that sent her to school that she can’t continue with the relationship simply because the man is not a university graduate himself….

She knew all long that the bf is not university graduate and he was paying her fees for 4yrs or more, then she graduated and dump him cos he is not university graduate This is not marriage here, not abt ownership or something. Is not as if they were just friends and he was helping her with fees and later want to turn it into rela/ship No there were going out and the only excuse she dumped he was cos he is not university graduate Ujujoan if u paid your bfs fees for yrs and get dumped after his graduation cos u are not university graduate how will u feel?

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@ujujoan,

Did you read what you posted?remember karma will catch up with people like u

You are showing you are more like the girls men dread, learn to do good at all times,no matter the situation

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This is why you don't take things from men. At the end of the day they feel you're indebted to them. If you want to give somebody aid, help her because she's a person in need not because you have placed a label 'ownership' on her. Besides from what I know, most of these ladies these men "train" are usually young girls. These men feel they can groom them. . .and what does the girl know about relationships at that age?

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Wrong the reward for ignorance is suffering.My advice just walk and repress your memories of her.Deny everything

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I support whitelexi also love is just an illusion wake up.

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The guy should add it to the list of things he has done to help others. . . his reward is in heaven, leave the girl and move on but dont make same mistake twice.

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