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Why Lead Her On?

Why do some men lead the women in their lives on when they know their relationship ain't going nowhere? which is more masculine, leading her on and not being man enough to tell her it's over or telling her straight up it's over? Could it be that cruelty is part of manhood or that these men actually think it's cool as long as the woman in question is not their relation?

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Finally got to the end of the thread!!! Phew!!!!!

Verdict : NL peeps seem to take a lot here seriously. Plenty of gossips and hear says going around. Please, most peeps here really need to go get a life. No need bursting a nerve on NL. It aint worth it.

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My tiger is baaaaaaaaaaack!

nite folks

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let's watch and see

Oh you'll be in med school perhaps.

you're right .

You'll be too busy doing deep neck dissections on cadavers

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lol

Toyin,

wast goin on next yr? u getting hitched?

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where were you when sly was speaking Yoruba

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No Sweetie,

Ur Manhood is not xterised by d countless number of ladies u've slept with, But Ur Ability To LOVE GENUINELY n Make one woman Love U!! Playing is overrated.

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So what is it characterised by?

The number of times i pee?

@ Sheniqua,

Stop this Igbo class. . . .

Most of us cannot read. . . . Thank ya!

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Yes . . Ur Manhood ain't xterized by the amount of women u've slept with!!!!

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rofl osisi ,apu nwoke opioro mango kporo onwen ya sly,ifuro otu odika ife umu azi ji agba igba ndi eze cultural dance

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@SLY,

Am guess[i] Sharraaaaaaaaaaapppppppppppppp [/i] was the first word u learnt to say huh?

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@ Buzydiva,

Ssup with your signature?

Manhood is not characterised by what?? ?? ??

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morenike edit those posts hon.

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@ Buzydiva,

Ya assets are more than a man ever could ever wanted!!!!

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sheniqua ive modified it

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Ashawo mine . . . why u assessin another girl . . my own assets neva do u?

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oya jenny edit your responses too.

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Haba,

u pple are taking this internet/nairaland harder than I tot o

relax pple . . no need to exchange brawls here . . its all the net

Toyin and Pataki . . una know each other b4 NL?

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You guys should warn Sly ooo!!!!!!! He should not make me annoyed this night!!!

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morenike don't respond anymore

what can he say?

someone chased you or you chased someone

Is that a crime to chase and be chased ?

I hate it when these people threaten people up and down.

very pediatric I might add.

let him reveal what he wants to reveal

nonsense!

sounds like primary 4 language

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do your worst!!

all these threats here and there

if a girl clings to man, trouble

she runs away, trouble

she clings to woman,  trouble

abeg stop all these threats,this is childish

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tell him to back off sweetie . . the guy is a big doofus!!

yeye woman wrapper! . . a dirty one at that too

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jackal wats wrong with u?its obvious u really want trouble dis nite,if not y r u so restless and rude?picking on pples posts?pls let jenny be abeg,im not ready for all dat

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Pleaseeeeeeee. . . . . . .Not tonight!!!!

Let SLY be. . . .He is a nice geezer.

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I know u do!!!!

@ Jennykadry,

Don't make me bash u with a sledgehammer!!!

Whats that about?

@ NubianQ,

Men and not boys, huh?

You are a big clown.

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Jenny . . take ur time o b4 I bust ur bubbles to uncle kadry.

which kan yeye love be dat?

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who cares about debo . . they neva deport that boy yet?

and SLy? . . the problem with him is that he thinks he knows too much when he doesn't know poo!!

@Xerxes . . u know I gat ur back sweetie.

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@ 4her,

The only thing u would smell is your blood dripping outta ya nose by the time u get cyber-slapped.

I don't wanna smell your pungent FARTICLES. U can shove em up your Bottom.

@ Pataki,

Please beg this sleazebag to lemme be.

Matter of fact, i can pay her to go away.

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@Jennykadry

Of course it's wrong that is why it end straightaway. No excuses.

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@ 4 Her,

The instruction is simple. . . . . .stay the Bleep away from me or me comments.

U dont have to reply me, do u?

I have told u this several times. . . . Just stay away.

@ Jennykadry,

Go n make out with Mr Kadry.

Your worries will diffuse like a puff of smoke.

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@dreeldee

im not trying to move the blame over to d guy,even for a babe to sleep wt a married man is wrong,but d issue here is d guy that slept wt a married woman,he posted it not d woman,let the woman post hers and i'll also reply her this way,but till then,we r still on d guy

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@Sheniqua,

No I did not date a neighbour. Excuse me for not laying a preamble. All of these people I only found a bit later that they were married or had boyfriend. And once i found it was over. Remember I had just gone throught the same thing.

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even if d woman in question was so loose,it still does not give a man d right to sleep wt a married woman,no matter wat

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That must be the first revelation of the night

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"dated "a woman when you knew she was married.

plus a neighbor's girlfriend sneaks into your flat and your conscience was OK with it

clap for yaself

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@Sly.

If you care or you don't care, I really don't care as well,

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To all immature Nairaland men boys, i dedicate this song below to you just to help in your transformation to men.

You will know{BlackMen united}

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RedBlazingHot Osun queen off to watch lakers vs Celtics game. Good night y'all. Remember, there is no place on earth as wonderful as Osun state.

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@ Sheniqua,

I dated, is that a sin? If I was galavanting I can understand your concern. All these happened over a 7 year period. I don't get your point. All you can pick from post is that I am man LovePeddler. Your sisters are claiming to be angels whilst they're not. and I thought you are one of the reasonable ones.

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what do you think that makes you?

You chronicled some of your rendez-vous proudly,should we give you a keg of palmy?

You are as much a LovePeddler as the people you talked about.

This time a man LovePeddler

give me a break, slimeball

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Maybe I should start hating on women myself

1 My ex who knew I would have given her the whole world and I actually did. Ask her and she will tell you She cheated on me with my neighbour (imagine the embarrasment). 8 years later she still apologises

2 One I met after my ex and I broke up. She was married but claimed she wasn't happy. She cheated on her husband with me. Told me it was her problem.

3 A friend of the lady cheating on her husband. This was even worse. She lived with her boyfriend in a studio flat but she comes to mine. Her phones rings and rings but she ignores it. She said wants to punish him because she asked for something and he said no. She thought I was better than her boyfriend and wanted to heal me so that I can be with her. Now they are married.

4 This one approached me on the street (sent a guy friend to talk to me). Later found out her she has 5 yr old son and the husband adores her.

A friend just moved back to Nigeria and an estate agent looking for a property for him wants to sleep with him without a condom and she has a boyfriend. My friend said but you have boyfriend and she goes let me worry about that. My friend has told her nothing can happen between them but she keeps sending sms messages and begging him thatthey have a future. This is as recent as 2 weeks ago.

And you paint your fellow women as angels? Puhlease. These are all true stories no exaggerations!

I have every right to hate women but I don't.

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Na wa with all these cursing and name calling.

How typical of Nairalanders.

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who's been lying to you?

He's one of the immature "twits" on NL. . . abeg, let me hear word. . .

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xerxes, I am shocked! I have always thought you were a gentleman, won't hurt an ant.

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T, whats up dear?  I didnt know u fight.

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lol@T  , i have two eyes but i can only see the men's point of view on this topic.  My other eye got a patch on it at this moment

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Intelligence might not have anything to do with it. . .there might be other factors, even if she did not love him.

See where staying with him brought her up today. . .might end up being a vice president. Now that is what I call intelligence

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