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will i loose her if we dont make love b4 she leaves?

i agreed not to rush my 6 months girlfriend about sex bcuz we plant o get married, but she leaves for her nysc year in february.we havent had sex. i'm worried that if i don't sex her she will be captured in her nysc year. what do i do? am i worrying over nothin? am i riskin every thing if i don't have sex with her? someone please help me out here before i make a mistake. i don't want to loose her. i love her with everything.

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Why didn't you asked Obama?

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she has now become 'mama little ronaldinho' there. my point is shine yua eyez well well.

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@ poster

i know a guy who sent his fiancee to brazil. she tasted brazillian dick,and never looked back at him

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So are you telling me you havent had sex for 6 months!!!!!, or you've been getting it outside. I cant imagine no sex for 6 months, mehn kongi go worry me o,

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@StanP

Ur post will worsen the guy's fears, but that is the right thing u have just said. Oh boy, u need to visit NYSC camps to see what even the so called married women do with young guys there. I mean just the orientation camp that lasts only 3weeks, not even the whole of the service year o.

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if u know wetin guys dey use ladies do(even married ones) for NYSC camp, u go know say u dey put yam outside for where goat dey.

u beta chop somtin make u know say at least u don register your kini inside, if not she go come back from camp like say notin enta inside am, u self go mumu dey wait till marriage. U beta open ur brain

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thanx guys, we've agreed to go to the next level.  feel ya in if it eventaly happens.  the one thoing i know is tha for now this girl really realy loves me. left to me right now nysc should be banned.

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@ Post

What is the big deal? If she has kept it for this long surely she won't lose it at camp. Stop worrying over nothing and trust her.

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If she wants to go into the camp a virgin and come back out a virgin, she can do it

Some girls have morals and virtues u know

Why are you worrying yourself sick?

Don't be decieved by what almost everyone is saying!

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@POSTER

Guy! If you don't sleep with her before she goes to camp, then be rest assured that:

1. She will be heavily saturated with heavenly feelings by other bad guys in camp or place of primary assignment

2. She might end up not being your girlfriend by the time she comes back or finishes NYSC

So the best thing is to d everything possible to sleep with her continously before she goes unless, you would have just been another romantic loverboy taking care of another man's property.

Don't fall for all that insecure nonsense talk on nairaland by some people. You are not insecure but extremely secure and brave to bring out this topic. If she goes, she is NOT coming back as a fresh meat for you. She will be heavily boned by some other guy and its better you cane her well before she goes so that at least she will miss that part of you, but if you think she will bother to worry herself about how nice, cool and kind you are before she comes back then, sorry to say "Your out of your mind"

Better sleep with her now and rest your mind, and when she is off, try to get another chic by the side while she is during "attention" both on the parade ground and in Bed with another man!

Better sharp up you this man! Naija chicks today don't send you! Its either you chop them first or they chop you down!

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@Poster, see just free your mind and hope for the best. If she wants to have sex, let it be because she wants to give it to you, not

because you want to "consolidate". Don't force her, abeg. Free her, love her, let her go for nysc. Don't listen to the insults of people calling u an insecure loser, lots of guys have experienced what you are in, its nothing new.

If she wants to give it to you, it will happen naturally, virgin or not. Focus on more important things in your rlationship, i.e trust, love, etc

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me think you should free your mind and hope for the best,

it will be better to maintain a good reletionship filled with trust and love than bothering yourself about sleeping with her,

you may not be okay afterwards cos of the motive,

most guys feel sorry immediately they sleep with a girl in the category you are in,

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free ur mind dis guy

the thing is these days trust is hard.boys cheat girls cheat and it isnt until u sex that u can uphold her loyalty.let her go and try to just love her ur own way

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Obama

The Nysc orientation camp is the Government sponsored Largest free fuckfest in the world

When i was in camp, i the chic i rammed was a virgin.

So Boy, i'd advise you to tap that Bottom or risk spending the rest o ur days wondering what might've been

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i don't want her to ever leave,and i have been helping her so much.like tomorow i will give her 10 000 naira for her french lesssons. she knows the sacrifice it is for me to give her that .and

the fact that i don't "take any thing back" in return when helping her should convince her more. its only that my friends from way back have this saying that if you hadnt had sex with your chick you are holding her with just two fingers. so i wonder which part is wise here

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guy if u luv her, let her go; if she's urs, she will come back 2 u. hwever if all u dream about all day n night is making luv 2 her, den talk to her about it. but b ready 2 accept wat she gives 2 u. n remember u hav no business being in dat relationship if u don't trust her.

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try and talk to her, let her no that you trust her completely. even if you are not there with her you still trust her. Ori Lomo

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even if u make love to her 50times,she will still leave u if she is nt urs,bros love no b everything

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Hi D obama,

Although, having sex with her is a like consolation if she leaves, however, having sex does not also guarantee that she will stay.

Pls let her be, dont do it. what will b will b

Just b prepared, it could get better or worse. U can see am battling wit mine now!!! women are wonderful.

take care

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mr man. rattle the whole etu, and do it etu-siatically

what i mean is make sure u shake the whole area well well b4 she

leaves,cos once they are out of your sight, they are no longer yours

anything can happen. so take your opportunities while u can. goodluck.

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having sex is not a fulfilment of ur manhood,rather a lack of self contol outside marriage, whats wrong with all these young bloods, that u can produce a baby doesn't make u a man, u would lose her when u have sex with her, i bet u that.let her go to NYSC with that trust, infact what do u guys talk about in quiet moments, u better start thinking of your future dude.

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if she loves you she will return after the youth service. just pray she does'nt get carried away.

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@ lekki2

why should sex destroy a loving relationship and not enhance it? dont forget that in these mordern times lots of youths tend not to be virgins by the time they are 19.i included.i am 29 years old.this girl i want to marry.so i am only trying to make the right choice.

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