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Will You Attend the Wedding of your Ex-lover Who Dumped You?

Suppose your would-be spouse ditched you to marry someone else and then invites you to their wedding. Would you attend the wedding? (please vote in the poll above)

Well, if that should happen (which I do not pray for), I will not attend that wedding!

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beauty has nothing to do with wife material,maybe she has a "decent" heart...

You are beautiful doesnt make you a wife material,men knows what they want unlike you ladies that lives on ********* ,instead of facing reality,thats why plenty of una go old for una papa house...

For him to dump you,despite your beauty says alot about you.

Quit hating joor!

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Ladies dey like this kind thread...

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No i wont attend becos the typical me will flare up at the slightest provocation and the ceremony as i wont get over her not for months after. Even if i have a better girl i will always cherist our moments together cos i live on memories. So i rather not be in the same state with the wedding. i will prefer to do the other thing that brings me joy (Which is making lots of cash). Well, everyone has their abilities and getting over hurt is not one of my specialty

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I can't stop laughing

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of cos i will attend, so that if they get to the " who here has a reason for this couple to not get married please put up your hand" omo pastor no go talk finish, i go raise my hand and walk to the aisle, chikena Grin

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For most that responded, its "what if" it happens!!

I experienced it; my ex called me aside (2yrs after break-up) & showed me her wedding invitation, but she didnt sound like she was inviting me - she was just notifying me. Of course, i didnt go, even forgot d date. She even called me some months after d wedding, to according to her, "know how i was doin". From the way we talked, i guess she just wanted to be sure that I had gotten over her & forgiven her as per stuffs she did during the short time(8mths) we dated; fortunately i had long gotten over her.

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you said he ditched and/or dumped you. No I won't attend if I was in your case. maybe he just wants to show off. It depends on how he ended his relationship with you. If he ended nicely you can attend. If he truly apologises to you how he mistreated you, maybe you can attend. If I was you, in any case I won't waste my time and money and effort to do so. I have better things to do. What can u gain for yourself by attending.

In future will he be able to assist u in any way, business-wise or other.

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It all depends on the contest, if I receive an invitation I'l go co definately one will hv to dump the other.

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its easier said than done that you guys would go to the wedding, there is no point in this whole wide world for you to go to an Ex-wedding wey dump you, wetin you dey go do dere? na rice abi na chicken or stew u dey go chop dere? it basically depends on the circumstances surrounding how you guys broke up, if he broke up with you for no just course then dere is no course at all.

One Lurv

Cheers.

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I don’t think so.

To me, that invitation would look like an insult.

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If my ex, who dumped me invited me to her wedding, I'd attend.

I don't bear grudges, and it'll also show her I'd moved on with my life.

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i will attend the wedding no matter what.except i am away and didnt hear about it. although i know the jealousy might want to surface but,i'll keep it in check cos i believe noone will pay you to be jealous.

oh boy, i go attend,chop rice wella becus i know say na special table dem go give me and wish them happy marriage

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Hee, sorry hen. As long as the sisters and brothers don't give me funny looks, i will go. Mind you , they might not see me until the crucial moment(This is Nigeria where passersby gatecrash parties on a regular basis.)

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this is a tricky one, if i found someone better then i will most certainly attend, if not then i will not go anywhere, the pain and jealousy will be intense!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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No, i will not!

i don't like being in the midst of poeple where every of my move will be watch with intense suspicion, where i will be unnecessary monitored! really, is not worth it for whatever i want to prove.

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I attended the my ex's wedding and ewwww, the bride was as ugly as hunger!

That was the only thing that made me mad.

Such a handsome guy couldn't pick up a decent gal!

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i wont attend especially if i'm not yet married but if i am i will with all my heart

but again if the dumping was like he dumped mi and i didnt love him or was tired of the relationship then i'll go

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If am married by then, I would .even when not invited but if am not... i wont ( no hate) . if you like call it whatever, its painful.

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Tell them.

Welcome back legs longestime

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Sure i will go if i am invited

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of course,afterall i was invited.

i wouldn't give him da satisfaction of seeing me loose

if i don't go he'll probably think i'm still hung up on him

but if i do,den he'll know i'm not,which of course i wouldn't be

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If given an I.V.i will surely be there.

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Attend for what now? Obviously, the fact that u have been dumped makes painful feelings inevitable so there is no need to lie or deceive ourselves. Would you really be happy to see the man u once thot u'd be walking up that aisle with, take another lady instead? not to even talk of celebrating with them. Heavens Forbid! C'mon peeps, unless of course u want to keep a front. Let's be realistic now. As for me sha, i would not want to be responsible for my actions, so i would respect myself and keep away.

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who says when his shoulders are high, that means he wants u...,hell NO!!!, he is just trying to be your peacock

and before i forget, all girls have "fish brain"..the think they are soo wise and can read guys..

little do they know that we delibrately give them the message they want.

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Guys fall ffor simple things.his shoulders r wide open right?that means he wants here back

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hehe.. dressing too good..? u are just telling the guy dat "i missed u", and guesse what.

his shoulders are gonna be high up cuz he'll know u are dressing for him duh...,

u girls think guys are dat silly huh...?

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will i attend the wedding of an Ex-lover?, yes, if i got invited and no, if i didn't duh.

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haha, r u talking about That credit card, The yellow and red one. I can't remember the name. arghh

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l o l. Poor boy would wish he never left u.

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haha..y'all gat sum baddest revenges

i say

gbosa for all of u!

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Any which way I would ..........wear a dress in bought me that he likes to see on me, a fragrance he thats drives him nuts and walk in when they are in the middle of exchanging vows with my badass heels making some intimidating noise

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The dragon goes everywhere she goes.

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@Latoya Its just harmless fun. The mother would probably start hicupping on the spot and the girl herself would pretend she has astral projected elsewhere(thats if she is still conscious).

@Kelliorah whats with the dragon thing?

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@ HA yea..its like sighing and saying summin like o god!

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Kay and Kodewrta,u guys r mean,very mean

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They know they are mean.

@ nike...erm, great i was asking cos my dad's friend son has been saying that ALOT!

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I can only attend such wedding if I dumped him or it is an agreement between us because that is the best option.

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lol well hear frm d horses mouf

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Haha...how u know i was going to say that? Can u tell me why those in UK say "ohh, my days". Which days?

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kay, so you are also wicked?

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Kodewrita, don't do that please. She'll faint.

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wicked. come on, she dumped me, didn't she. i am allowed to have some fun. Imagine the expression on the faces of the parents of the bride.

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I'll go if i am over her. When the priest asks if anyone knows anything that will stop the wedding, i will stand up slowly and go to the toilet (just to give her a mini heart attack).

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u gatta be over her

i bring a date dat can make people and me say Amen, in de wedding and in bed..muhahhaha

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