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Worst Thing Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Has Ever Done?

This is in terms of your relationship.

I once had a g/f (if i can call her that) who was

knacking the whole of the asian community in Sabo.

I only found out because she had a distinctive whiff

on her breath when I went to kiss her one day.

lets hear more tales of woe.

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Why am I posting here? Anyway,

I was with my pretty fiancee, talking about a Nokia phone she wanted me to buy for her,

Wondering why she liked Nokia, (instead of samsung), I picked up her phone and began

going through it to see the features of the software. Only to be rudely awakened by a text

she sent to her "uncle"(yeah right) whom she was always going to see:

"I would have bleeped you in the office just now if not that people were aroiund. But for now, just

manage a kiss" and she sent him a graphical impression of a kiss.

The worst part is after confronting her, she tries to lie, later admits, she walks out of my life, tells tales about me to everyone, acting as though I

did something wrong. Reverse Pschycology. I loved her so much

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Funny posts indeed.

Post amended!

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guys guys i must say this is one of best thread i hv read here, i must confess that neva in my life will i believe or imagine that guys out there go thru such things in a relationship though i hv heard alot b4 now but definately this is an eye opener, i hv neva in my life had a reason to experience any of such thou am married now but maybe i was just "lucky" maybe but i think with destiny i hv often dated the "right" people for all your contributions, i personally want to say "thank you" for sharing your experiences that am sure will go a long way to "teach" many of us here something.

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The worst thing she ever did was making me know her, how I regret that day!!!!

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WORST THING MY GF EVER DID, HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

STARTED DATING HER WHEN I WAS IN MY THIRD YEAR AND WE WENT UNTIL THE FINAL YEAR, AND BEYOND. WHILE WE WERE WRITING OUR DISSERTATION, I HAD PROBLEMS WITH MY PARENTS WHICH LED TO CASH SHORTAGE AND SHE WAS AWARE, THATS WHEN SHE CHOSE TO ASK FOR "CHEESE" TO DO HER DISSERTATION. SHE LIED THAT SHE WAS GOIN HOME TO COLLECT THE CASH FROM HER PARENTS. THE DAY BEFORE SHE LEFT, SHE CAME OVER AND IN A FUTILE BID TO TRY AND PACIFY ME COS SHE KNEW I WAS SMELLING A RAT, SHE GIVE ME CHOP WELL-WELL. AFTER THE ADULTERY SESSION SHE FELL ASLEEP AND I WENT THRU HER BAG TO CHECK HER FONE. THE FONE WAS UNUSUALLY OFF, I PUT IT ON AND IMMEDIATELY, A TXT MESSAGE CAME IN. THE GUY SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO GO SEE IN ABUJA SENT THE MESSAGE REASSURING HER THAT HE IS STILL EXPECTING HER AND THAT THE "CHEESE" IS STILL WAITING FOR HER.

SHOWED HER THE TXT AND SHE WAS DUMBFOUNDED. SHE EVENTUALLY WENT AND CAME BACK, AND AFTER A WHILE, SHE CONFESSED THAT THE GUY DIDNT GIVE HER A DIME BUT SHE DID SHE DIDNT SLEEP WITH HIM (YEAH WE BELIEVE U, AFTER SPENDING A WEEKEND AT HIS PLACE).

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what are we hmmming about?

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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Girl, I wish I knew why also. But don't sweat it, he's just hating that's all.

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Seriously, get off Stephen. Why do you hate him so much?

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I couldnt even say it on here.

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@ morayosola.

Do you have your own tory to post?,

not really feelin the advise at all, simply post your own experience pls

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I must report myself to the whole nairalanders: worst thing I did to my ex before we broke up:

1. beat her up

2. took her atm and withdrew all the notes in it and spent nights sleeping from one hotel to another so as to deplete such funds.

3. Left her broke and travelled for x-mas to my base in K - town

Please don't crucify me I only did those things to hurt her feelings and make her pay for every goddam dime I spent on her in our three and half years relationship.

I was enjoying this thread until i saw this post and i became utterly disgusted. I cant believe that you proudly posted this. In this day and age you beat up a woman, cleared her account and shamelessly report yourself to nairalanders. Is it that your babe never spent anything or made any sacrifice while you guys dated since you said that you did all that to make her pay for the few kobo you spent on her. How, i pray my brother is she suppose to reclaim all her own sacrifices. I bet if you were the one that walked in on your woman and ur friend in a compromising situation like it happened to one of our fellow nairalanders, you would have just shot both of them. I wish i could see ur ex and tell her to thank God its over between you guys cos she might not leave with her life if she stays longer with you. I think you are very vindictive and should be avoided like a plague.

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Please is this a complex thing or is it that your guy has so brainwashed your brain into making you think that you cant live or achieve anything outside him. Why would we women open our eyes, see ants coming and still keep it open. Isnt it obvious to you that nothing good can come out of the relationship. Dont you have folks or friends that can advise you. You had kids by someone before , now you are in an abusive relationship and you are confused about marrying him, i think you have a very low esteem and you need counselling, above all you need God.

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He cheated on me with this banker lady for almost a year.

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seized ma car key 4 1 week,

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Beat dis: A friend of mine arranged a surprise birthday for his g/f @ her house, only to meet another dude seriously in the act with d girl.

The funny part was my guy planned to propose with a pinky diamond ring on d day.

No need to tell you guys what happened afterwards.

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@rebellious

This new one no go make it pass you car door. I predict. it's like a blind date gone wrong. wait and see.

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She denied me sex on a cold cold night when it was raining with all the thuderstoms and lightning and the weather was so cold, she had excited me with fore play ad all that only for her to tell me that she is not in the mood anymore -it was actually her way of punishing me for a Bleep up i did earlier in the day as i later found out

It was the longest night ever. I have never begged for it so much all my life but she refused bluntly and i enventually slept alone in the sitting room.

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Well, my ex of about a year(we were on and off tho') had a wife-to-be I obviously didn't know about, I actually found out online, Internet is a b****, mehn!

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My ex got really drunk at a party and as I drove him back home. He threw up in my car. And it wasn't the small one but the huge seemingly endless one. That was the grossest thing ever. Made him wash my car though.

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Well, i had a guy that i dated once.

I really liked this guy and we clicked straight away- i truly liked this brother and he had always acted strange (no house phone, wouldnt speak at certain times, his fone never had reception at certain times) but i didnt seem to mind cause i really liked him.

He went to nija for a few days and when he returned, i didnt hear from him again.

Thats how the whole story ended o.

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Went back and read of some more replies.

@ d guy who posted this: Your own is coming! Do you have sisters? Mother? Aunties? How can you beat a girl because of money you've spent. All women should walk run away from you without looking back. I hope she survives you!

@ bridget 007

U dey craze? Wetin you still dey do with that demon possessed individual kukuma carry belle born pikin? What he did to you yl u were pregnant wasn't enough? Is it until he hurts one of your children that your eyes will open? I don't understand women that stay with men that beat dem. God help my husband if he beat me or unnecessarily hurt my children___somebody go die that day!

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I've endured some shady things but that's for me to know. Friend of mine from Senegal was with this Naija girl back and forth, back and forth yl he was in the states and she was back home. They had met earlier b4 he came to the states. He went home for a month to set up wedding. His whole family loved her and everything when she flew to Senegal. 1 wk 2 wedding Folashade told my friend to give her money so she can go and bring her mum and her 3 siblings. She went and never came back. He was in a frenzy thinking that Naija airways killed d babe or sumtin! He travelled all the way back to her house Naija in only for peeps to tell him nobody has been living in the house for 5 years, they don't know any Folashade and he has no way to get back the N650,000 he gave her to bring everybody and sew asuebi!

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ALL THAT I HAVE SEEN POSTED HERE IS ALL ABOUT SEX, STRANGE UNCLES, AND EX-BF'S. U NEED TO HEAR MINE. I ONCE DATED THIS IGBO CHICK. I DID NOT EVEN SLEEP WITH HER FOR ONE DAY. THIS WAS BECAUSE SHE SAID THAT SHE HATES GUYS AFTER SHE SLEEPS WITH THEM. ME NA I BE MUGU. I DID NOT KNOW SHE WAS GIVING IT TO OTHER GUYS LIKE RECHARGE CARDS. I BROKE UP WITH HER. THEN SHE NOW WANTED ME TO ENTER THAT CANAL. ME I DEY CRASE, I KISS WINCH, OR ROMANCE CRASE, I JUST TOOK A FEW MWWAHHHS AND GOT OUTA THERE. SHE DEY CRASE.

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whao i luv this topic. HMMM let me say it was the day her school boyfriend came to visit her in Lagos, and i took them clubbing and she xcused herself to go and change her shoes and her friend followed her cos i was so lazy to walk to my car, and they smooched and kissed in my car damn it

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Aisha, you are absolutely right, I'm just a hopeful fool, I live not too far away from you. I bet you probably know of him lol!

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Bridget007, get a grip of yourself. Are you ok. Why in Gods name would you hang on to a man who has no love for you. He only wants you because he sees green card, as soon as that comes through he will dump you. It is not Going to work because he is doing nothing and you are the only one who wants the relationship. He uses you, abuses you, humilates you and disrespects you. girl, what else do you need. plus he is a financial drain on you. Damn girl, kick his Bottom out, let them deport the silly, selfish bastard. He has used and abused so many women and they are all silly.

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Zandra, I want to try and make things work cos i do love him-wish i didint tho- as in many ways since we had our son he has changed and I can tell he is trying but I definately do not want to marry him for a few years, saying that though i don't know whether realistically I can get over the hurt and pain of what he put me through. He was always secretive before the birth but now not so much and his mum came over to stay with us for 10 days a month ago-she was lovely. I just think he will never grow up enough to be a real man for us, he is in debt, has no money and to marry him will make me poor and I can't do that to my kids. (I have kids from a pror marriage). I know him being with me ( older and a divorcee) has put him through a lot of turmoil as he was so scared to tell his family but I think me and my kids and our son will be risking too much to even consider marrying hinm for a long time. Trouble is he is pressuring me by saying his visa is due to renewed in spetember but he isnot likley to get it as he has not been attending his study classes enough. So he want me to marry him so he can stay here for us and son. I think that isn't enough reason to marry.

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Bridget007, would u still contemplate marrying him after all he put u thru?

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oh laafter house and kids whilst he studies!!!!

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My ex would talk ALLLLL THIS sh#t about me to his friends, meanwhile he was shining his teeth and smiling at me thinking it was all good.

So I didnt know this one was telling STORIEs ooh, I trusted him. One day his friend curses me out, because of something he told them. That is when I just shine my eyes like sooo and realized this one be moo goo. He talks like a little school girl, no maturity.

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Na wa oooo!!!! Touchy stories.

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Went to visit my Girl, she wasn't at home but her cousin said she was around, the little girl later saw her at the opposite building and pointed her to me , i walked closer where she cud see me and expected her to walk up to me , she didn't, i looked at the direction and saw her sitting wit a guy she always tells me "he is only a friend". I asked the little girl to go call her for me, it took her like 20 mins to come , first she walked to the girl and scolded her ( i guess for revealing her ) then walked to me( i was with 2 of my guys), she excused me and just told me she cudn't talk to me now because her mum (who just came back from Jand) was around.I was so mad but didn't say a word.

She came to my place with her friend the next day, and i gave her the coldest shoulder i can ever give, she was so embarrased, told my friend a lot of poo and that it was over btw us.

She started calling me like a month later asking that we should 4get abt everyting that has happened.

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she came to my house one day and was really Hot. i was not prepared but decided to give it to her anyways. i went once and couldnot go again.

she landed me a dirty slap for making her feel used as i couldnot satisfy her. she got up, wore her clothes, took her bag and left.

never saw her again.

good riddance? Guess so.

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My own experience was that on val's day,i came to spend the nite the nite with ma boo. But ended up spending it with him and his roomies. He shares a room with his buddies and he told me the day before that he had told his roomies 2 excuse him for that night. But on getting there in the evening , while i was in the room alone, he was outside with his roomies

it was then he was informing them that i was around and would sleep over. I dont know whether out of wickedness or ithe impromptu news, They refused. Didnt have anywhere to stay that nigght so had to stay there.

But throughout the nite i was boiling with anger and embarrassed and disappoinment.

At a point in the early hours of morning while all were asleep(or so),he wanted to put his arms around me but i flung it away in anger,instead of him to keep quiet and and keep to himself, he started asking me what was wrong with me. Wud hav replied him but didnt want to talk cos the listening audience(his roomies).

He apologised the next morning. But to this day anytime i tink of it, i get embarassed within maself and wonder to myself why i havent broken up with him. Couldnt discuss it with ma frds cos it so embarrassing.

To this day, he hasnt mmade up for it. I havnt still 4given him 4 i that day but he doesnt know. We r still goin out though. But ma heart isnt fuuly in the relationship.

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And what did he DO? Right now it's only satan that doesn't have the luxury of being forgiven. Is this guy satan?

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She got pregnant, not for me of course. And that was it.

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alagolo edit that, seun removed the spammer that replied before you

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stop pollutin the thread na. . .

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because simply walking away would have been too much of a manly thing to do I assume?

Reacting like a demented baby seems to be the "in thing" now.

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I must report myself to the whole nairalanders: worst thing I did to my ex before we broke up:

1. beat her up

2. took her atm and withdrew all the notes in it and spent nights sleeping from one hotel to another so as to deplete such funds.

3. Left her broke and travelled for x-mas to my base in K - town

Please don't crucify me I only did those things to hurt her feelings and make her pay for every goddam dime I spent on her in our three and half years relationship.

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@emmydee,

Your story hits me bad. What a story, if it is true anyway.

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awwwwwwww man these sories are sooo bad and depressing. Especially the guys, now i understand y u men dont wear ur hearts on ur sleeves, most of u are damaged goods.

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He was 24, I was 16. He thought he could use me the way he liked. He hurt me so much. Today however he can't even look at me in the eye. He knows what he has done is unforgivabe.

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the worst thing i've ever experienced from a lady is ingratitude. i had a girl friend who never said thank you,,,,always thinks u owe her the world

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That requires a very good and hot slap

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my girl friend was calling another guy's name during love making, Bleep it!!!!

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this thread is tewwwww mad oh, all u peeps dt have bin hurt.pele.moi has nt xperienced nyfin rily bad b4 but there wuz jst dis b.f. of mine dt wuz lyk i reminded him of everyother babe hez bin wiv, dt wuz jst so annoyin wuz rily pissed

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