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Would I Ever Find Love?

i dont know y av neva been lucky with guys and relationships. its either i love d person and he doesnt or he loves me and i dont reciprocate his feelings. am so confused. av had two relationships so far, the first, i loved him wholeheartedly but he travelled out of the country without telling me, d second one was a long distance relationship, i couldnt stand it becos he wasnt making any move for us to see, so i quit. And there isa guy that has been asking me out for the past 2 years but am not in love with him, he loves me to a fault but i just cant reciprocate his feelings, honestly, i couldn't deceive him coz i didn't just love him!

I never thot i could love again,

Finally, i met some1 who i thot loved me so much, i loved him BADLY! he made me fall in love again and i trusted him! am a kind of person that loves some1 with my entire being, i loved this guy so much!!!! i did things that i thot i could never do for this guy, i sacrificed some things, went tru risks, infact i almost lost my vir*** to him, (i thank God it didnt Happen). But what happened? he suddenly called me one day to tell me his girlfriend had come back from a trip, (a girl he never told me about!) he told me as if it wasnt a serious thing, infact he said it so easily, He dumped me like a pack of cards!

I was so sad! I almost lost my mind! but i thank God for his mercies!

Now i just can't seem to trust guys! i dont think i can even bring myself to love again! its been 2 months now!

I feel so lonely with a broken heart! i nd someone to love me but i just dont think i can find love,

dis brought me to d question "WOULD I EVER FIND LOVE

Lola.

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All things work together for your good girl. Do you know the trouble they save you by leaving you now? Hmmmmmmm just be grateful to GOD that it not in marriage that their attitude sprang up. Real one will come cos at the end of the tunnel is a ray of light!!

God kwos best and you will have the best in due time. Get yousef busy with your education and always remain positive.

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lol

maybe you resemble namibian.

btw hope you know who wasnt mentioned in your first post. the dates don tey sef- when was he doing the fakeazz sweet talking again?

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ok omolola, luv is now knocking at ur door, open and say hello,

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J,E.S.U.S, am in trouble!

This is an old thread, i dont need the advise anymore!

Plus am not Namibian

MODS PLS LOCK THIS THREAD!!!

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you've reached the right place for your solution.

tell the namibian girls to come to either nairaland or nigeria- we are known for our men. They love to help out damsels cos they're nice like that.

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wow, thread opened in july 2010.

not even a year since, and so much has happened.

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my dear friend, you are not alone,,,,,,,a lot of gals in Namibia are suffering from such situation,,,,, don't worry, the right man will come at the right time,,,,,,,,,,,

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Story story! Let the woman decide jor!

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can you get to me? 07033604250 or obivee@yahoo.com.

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*curiously waiting for the response*

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Is that u r sooooooooooo ugly or u r soooooooo blind to know what true love is?

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it's a pleasure baby.

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@ marhoski, av added u on facebook

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lol, my nite was fyn, thanks.

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@marhoski, lol, i wasnt refering to u, was refering to atiku.

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lola i hope you re not refering to me concernig ur pic nd fb?

How was ur nite?

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lol, because God didnt want me to loose it to an assh**e. lol

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@kpoli, lol. because God didnt want me 2 loose it to an Bottom***e, lol

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@SAlady, thanks! i wud take it one step at a time. thanks

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if u wan2 see wot i look like, am on fb!

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av cn ur mail, why do u wnt me 2 send my pix to ur box, wen u cn c it on fb.nyway,i dont send my pix to pple's email add

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@Poster welcome to the world/land of the living. It is only when you realization that you are capable of LOVE that you know you are truly alive. Keep on giving love there's always somebody on the receiving side. Its only a matter of time till you find your match.

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nd my second question?

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@bigworld, thanks. my situation is just lyk urs,onli dis time am d girl in question. well, av decided to take my time.

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@190, dnt wori u wud find ur missin e-n/l babe if she is so foolish 2 fall 4 ur sweet mouth! lol

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@ 190, why wnt u give up,wen ur concubines re already threatenin u, lol, nd did i tel u am dating marhoski??

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Ok ok

lola

they say if u have sometin u love

let it go,if it comes back 2 u, its urs

ure free 2 go 2 marhoski

please marhoski treat her rite

she deserves u, she stood by u all along

lemme continue my search for my missing E-NLAND GURLFRIEND

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^ am sure ur concubines are watching ur fooshines and foolish life aswell.

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he got tired of it mayb, lol @190, i dnt need 2 b in bondage 2 kno u re a joker! go get a life jo! lol

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you are under the spell of mahoski

dont worry just a kiss would relieve u from his bondage~

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@190, I don't love u!

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@ marhoski, lol. @190, did i tel u am lookin 4 E-love? u beta go nd cast ur net somwhere else

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@lola

Just when I thought it couldn't get better, you prove me wrong! I love you!

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^^

Lol, im not a womanizer im only searching for true E-love wic i believe ive seen (LOLA YOU ARE THE ONE IVE BEEN WAITING FOR)

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@190, go back to mamagee!!

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@lola

im more serious than him

do u want me 2 cut my heart out

rite there u would see yourself inscribed inside my heart~

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@190, u re dreaming! u beta go bak to mama gee

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^^

Lola

Words alone will never be able to express the depth of my love for you.

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@ marhoski, i wasn't referring to you, wz refering 2 190. neva knew u were dis serious

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Lola my love, You know that you have always been my Hidden Jewel

Your love shines rite through the nite straight in2 my room~

rite now therez no lite here (despite AC WAN kill me here) But your Love

keeps me going~

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lol, evry1 knows dat. 190 the womanizer

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coz u be womanizer!!!!!!

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lol, let the game begin!

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