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Would U Give Up Ur Dreams Or Ambition 4 Luv?

There's something  u are passionate abt, something dat makes u happy. U always envisage it & finally, u have it. But ur ''love'' doesn't like it & he/she asks u 2 drop it if u must be in d relationship. Wat wil u do?

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And waht if he dumps you after, then what?

http://www.lifeinbiglondon.com/2010/03/06/torn-between-my-fiance-and-college/

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HEY!!!

afternoon where? aren't you in the US (well i thought)

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^AMAKA fine gurl how u dey dis mornin?it's afternoon here doeo

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HELL NO!!! how dumb can someone get to even think of doing that?

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Short man? What do you mean bgy short man? meaning poor abi? Theres something I would like to make it clear to you. My husband's success is my success. If he is poor, than Illl work hard to make him rich! Thats it! I dont really think that career is that important but I do think having a good savings is important. To mem, family and husband comes first!

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No love is worth giving up one's gream/ambition for. Infact true love is meant to help u accomplish your dreams not sabotage it,

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Yes, I would give up my dreams for love if my lover is genuine and sincere

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i think that to most in 9ja, their highest priority and desire in life is to be married (and make tons of money) so you would understand that one completely. LOL!

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I knw a lady who gave up her boomin carrier bcoz her ''husband to be'' didn't like it. Accordin 2 her, he is too gud to let go

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circumstance is important

what if ur ambition was unrealistic??

any woman that has dated or fallen in love with a 'footballer' will feel me on this one

ambition is good---whether its realistic or attainable is another thing

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no i won't, not for such a flimsy excuse.

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Hmmm, dat kain love never catch me.

But then, it depends on the circumstance. . . .

E.g If I need to give up my ambitions to take care of sm1 I love who's ill. . . .that could fly. . . .

But not for smthn as flimsy as "I don't like it" or "I'm not comfrtable with it"

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DEFINITELY NO!!!!!!

you  have to remember that the day you give up your passion/dreams/ambitions you will become a shell of a person and thus, however great that love was, you will end up miserable (unless you believe that your love for that person can fulfill all your desires in life)

i would give up my passion, dreams and ambitions for NOTHING in this world. . . . . . . . .  . N A D A!!!!

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It depends nd lik ma sister said is complicated.I did similar tin bt regreted it a little so for nw I can't do it nw again

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@OP I had a lyfe b4 meeting him so my lyfe will not stop because of him.

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i have a loooong story to write abt this but no time

'not liking it' is not a good enuff reason for one to drop his or her ambitions

its a complicated situation attimes

but personally i wont

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I think it's complicated.

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