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Would U Go Back To Ur Boyfriend After He Has Hit U Several Times?

Would u go back to ur boyfriend after he has hit u several times?

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Yes sir, because I'll sit and wait for an abuser. And observe his change.

While some other women pray for mr. right.

For you to even compare bedwetting to abuse. . . . SMH

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I have no more to say after this. Someone who wets bed is a "bed-wetter." When the person grows and learns to wake up in the middle of the night, the person stops being a bed-wetter. Same goes for an "abuser."

I guess the real problem is: How do you know if the person has truly changed? I won't answer that, too complicated. But anyone who has changed deserves a chance.

You'll understand these things one day.

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Oh, there is the problem! You don't understand what I'm saying well. I am not asking for anyone to stick by an abusive guy, I am asking people to give a fair chance to anyone who has changed.

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LOLOL You're actually advising these battered and abused women to stick to an abusive guy and wait for him to change?

Ooti e serious. lol kora e soun jor

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Hard to lose, not impossible to lose. Give a chance to those few who got rid of these old habits. Life is free, let negative thoughts go and experience true love.

"I was wronged! I was hurt! I was defeated! I was robbed!"

Those who cultivate such thought will not be free from hatred.

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Old habits are hard to lose.

What if, what if. . . . there aint no what ifs here.

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What if the boyfriend changes? As they say, you really can't ever say never. I'm not supporting abusive boyfriends or abusive relationships in general, I'm in support of change and acknowledging change. I'm in support of forgiving and love.

Would I advice a girl to go back into a relationship with that same guy? If you have no one in your life, he has no one in his life, give it a shot.

I'll never touch a girl by the way, in case anyone is about to ask that question.

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If you have to seriously ask this question, you need to seek some counseling for being abused.

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No, Never! yes, many girls stick to abusive boyfriends but i would find it easier to forgive infidelity. physical abuse is something i can't ever stand in a relationship. i can't imagine what i would do that should justify abuse. i respect people so i expect to be treated with respect also.

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Hell no.I wouldnt for any reason on earth stand an abusive relationship.I would run and never look back

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@adolfe bad

how do we handle ladies instead of hitting them?

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@190,

u are right, all this girl come here to form all this stories

87% of them are being beaten by there boyfriends at most

times,

@NL

Please lets be realistic here.

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no, I would get out and never go back.

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if my boyfriend wants to hit anything he should go to the gym and not me.

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A lot of our ladies are spoilt brats

but there are better ways~ mature ways to handle them than hitting

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I won't give him the chance to hit me.

Should he hit me, thats the end of the relationship even if my life depended on him.

Only 'weaklings' hit women and children.

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lmao, what a question

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Don't do it except he has really changed his ways.

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So it's a date then. LIMM. . .I laff in the face of trouble. Newaiz I'm goin to sleep now,it's around 2 am here. Hasta la vista

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I love Chinese food!! Anytime you're ready, baby.

LOL we're gonna get in trouble for derailing this thread.

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Glad 2 hear dat. So when are we going on our conciliatory dinner,I know this divine Chinese restaurant. U like Chinese food don'tcha?

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@ chi: So I guess this means we're an item again,all past misdeeds forgiven and forgotten. . .

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Unless you want to end up 6fts below in the near future? Dont do it men who beat women are animals that have no business being in the Human race. That is all.

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@ chi: Thank you,mon chérie. . .that just goes to show I'd never beat you. As for those my neighbors,the guy's a certified wimp, I find it hard not to laugh whenever I see him.

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Men shouldn't hit women,it's a sign of insecurity when U start hitting up people just cos U can beat them,why not try beating up Gentle Jack? Women shouldn't stay in relationships with men who hit them,no matter how much the man apologizes after the act; today it might just be a slap,tomorrow a severe belting,next thing U know U're dead. All this being said,it's a well known fact that some men beat their women,and these women still stay in the relationship,which just goes to show that what should be isn't necessarily what is.

P.S: Women shouldn't beat men either,I've got this neighbor whose wife is always whupping his a.s.s.

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chelsea

most of em girls here wouldnt agree wit u

but in reality they are been beaten daily

wherever they find themselves even siena ^^ is someone

who believes in action with less words~

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No lady should go back to her "boyfriend" if he's hit her even once.

Once is more than enough - the next time, he'll probably maim her, or even worse, kill her!

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Y wld any sane girl go bak 2 a guy who hits he nt even 1nce bt on several ocasions?as emotion,soft n tolerant as i can be,i dnt tink i can put up wit a guy hu hits me,it'll actualy be dumber dan dumb 2 do dat,in my litle lyf i've learnt som valuable lessons & i'll advice any girl neva 2 mak dat mistake.

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Yes, if it was a fight and I hit him back.

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He wudnt even dare to in the first place wen its not as if he has gone crazy

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One thing i cannot tolerate in a relationship is physical abuse.

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why would such thots even cross his mind in the first place?

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