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Would U Marry Ur Age Mate?

my guy is dead serious about marriage come next year.but he is younger than me by 6months.he is afraid i may go for a better guy cos of his family standard so is uncomfortable.we are both educated and working.

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My parents love the good girl they have now. They know i'll never be the type to go for immature boys.

At my age, if you are dating me and can't marry me - bye bye to you.

Mature thoughts lead to thoughts of marriage. . . . . . . How many guys do you see on NL who are married and yet, acting immature? Very very few. . .

Guys who are not desperate but ready to pack it all in for one woman - are usually happier

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i agree. So perhaps u'd be thinking of marrying a 5 yr old now no?

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@ Stillwater,

Are u the masquerade?

I spared it the last time i saw it in ma dream. . . . . I won't be merciful this time around.

@ J-girl,

I need to speak to your parents.

Dirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrty South has derailed u extensively.

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. . .and sometimes five yr olds do talk sense than supposed adults.

The masquerade thrashing is still working on you, I guess.

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Guys know when women are pretending now! how hard is it to tell that the holy sister you saw in mass last week is a stripper?

My own is that when guys are mature enough, they begin to recognize the good women that they can possibly marry. Their inner senses are opened up to be able to spot bad and good. The immature ones marry the deceptive ones.

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doesnt always follow. 5 yr olds have a point of view too no?

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Wait until you are mature enough to agree.

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Like i said - it's a matter of maturity.

In the case of amy, her boyfriend is matured because he's ready to settle?

If you were that steaming at 17, what's stopping you from marrying now?

When men are ready to settle, they stop playing games and start acting like adults. They know what they want, they go for it and then they know how to handle their women. Most guys are still busy looking to score at the age of 30. Marriage is no where near their mind - It's actually sad.

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@ J-girl,

Don't make me break your bones.

Age is a number.

There are 50 yr-olds out there acting like 11 and there are 21 year-olds who act like 40.

It depends on maturity, exposure, experience and all that kizzack.

When i was 17, i could have married a 30 year-old chic. . . . . .cos i was that steaming!!!!

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i soooo

disagree with you j-girl

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Whats wrong with marrying one's age mate?

The last time i check, age is just a number.

You better marry the dude before u are left stranded . . . . . .

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6 months age difference is SO WHAT! Age is just NUMBERS! Go ahead marry him. . .ignore his parent's old fashioned tribe way he must follow.

This is 2008. . .not 1800s!!!

For strong relationship between two people connect that is based on:

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[li]Trust[/li]

[li]Spirituality[/li]

[li]4 Characters[/li]

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[li]Humility[/li]

[li]Kindness[/li]

[li]Responsibility[/li]

[li]Happiness[/li]

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[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]

[li]Communication Skill[/li]

[li]Personal Habits[/li]

[li]Strong Connections[/li]

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[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]

[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]

[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]

[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]

[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li] (refer the knowledge of sexuality)

[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]

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FOR MORE DETAILS:

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-133197.0.html

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