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Would You Cheat On Your Hubby If You Knew You Wont Be Caught ?

Its often been said that given the right circumstances and the right motivation, we humans are capable of any kind of compromise.Whether or not this is true, i often wonder if this applies to married women.I've heard of cases where a wife who was considered faithful was later discovered to be quite flirtatious.I know lots of friends who say that it is just as rare to find a faithful wife as it is to find a faithful husband.They all agree that women are just a bit more discrete.

Now here's my question.Do you married ladies think that you are capable of adultery?If you knew you there was no chance of you getting caught would you explore your sexual fantasies with other men.

Love to hear your comments. No textbook answers please.Be sincere.

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Cheating on ur partner is a sin so immediately ur faced wiy such situatn, jst remembr,it's a sin, pray 2 God 2 hlp u n run 4 it as fast as u cn.

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Come on!!!

Another thing I have noticed when women feel comfortable enough with me to tell me a secret about their unfaithfulness, they normally claim not to have gone all the way when I am sure given the position and the advancement they were in, they did.

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So the % of cheating in women is high,eg a man cheats wt 30 women  and a woman cheats with 2 men,it still remains 3men have cheated and 31 women have cheated just my thought.

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uhmnnnnnnnnn nor be lie ohhhhhhhhhh. you forgot NYSC sef. thats the height. but then again they key word is SOME, SOME WOMEN

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uhmn you have spoken the truth esp in the highlighted part. i am no saint i had one or two crazy moments with guys apart from my bf, although never going as far as sleeping with any of them. but that na bf/gf level and that was because i wanted to do that at that point in my life. But as a married woman, i doubt if i will ever let that happen to me. its all about permitting something. when you let it, it happens. why would i want that as a married woman? i cant even think like that. its beyond my wildest imagination.God help me.

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This thread is really hilarious!

I cannot trust any woman who is not without her husband for even just a month. What I have seen of married women who left their husbands for one year to pursue their Masters degree abroad, is really awesome.

Serial and perfect cheaters.

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The fact is that, a vast majority of women don't fall in love, they are just in love with someone loving them.

So whoever does it (showing love for them) best is very likely to get laid as long as the condemning society can be kept oblivious.

If I am given consistent access to a married/tied woman, I believe with the right level of persistent flirtatious, naugthy and yet caring pressure, I have no doubt I will bed at least 60% of them because my attention on them will most likely be more intense than their partners.

Women cheat FREQUENTLY but with a small pool of desirable men, most men on the other hand will bang almost anything in skirt.

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it is not premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.

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If one is going by a random sample using the women that have responded on this thread, then one would say 80% of women would never even consider cheating, talkless of doing it.

What a load of clunking bullocks!!!

So who are all the women that me and my friends have been with that have a boyfriend or husband somewhere?

Given the right environment, right person and secrecy, virtually all women WILL cheat.

A man needs a place to cheat, a woman needs a reason even if it does not  make sense. And when a woman wants to cheat, they always find a reason.

When they get caught, they will deny it and hope the natural benefit of doubt capital allocated to women will carry the day. And when it is proven beyond reasonable doubt or she is caught red handed then lame excuses like: "He was not paying me attention anymore", "He has changed", "He is also cheating on me, I just can't prove it", "Even though we are together, the relationship was already over" blah blah blah.

Women are almost as unfaithful as men but the are just more discrete and they do it with far much less partners than men. Most men can cheat with 30 girls if they can get away with it, whilst women will not go over 1 or 2.

And since most men women are cheating with are happy to just be tapping it and the woman can threaten to stop it if he is indiscrete, women men cheat with will virtually always want to replace the wife,  so it is easier for women's infidelity to remain hidden than mens.

Don't for one second believe the females coming to this thread to lie. I have seen several cheating women in my time.

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Till then becos am not married yet,but it is better to be unfaithful than to be faithful without wanting to.Naturally,i get bored easily so their is probability of me cheating dats if i decide to go to the alter wit any man.

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will you lie to ur partner? or lemme put it this way, in the course of the matrimony for say 40 years, are you saying for once, none of the couple is never gonna lie to the other party? and if it happens just once,

tell me why would anyone in thier right mind lie on a life partner?

did u mean to say sinners are the scum of the earth or only cheaters?

get ur beliefs straight. na intelligent discuss be this no be rap

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This thread is annoying. Why would anyone in their right mind cheat on a life partner?

Cheaters are the scum of the earth.

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Sure. Never say never. There is a limit to every strength and there is also a limit to every weakness. Time and chance happen to them all. However, hope for the strength always.

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if she won't know, then i can try.

If she go know, and i still decided to damn consequencies, then i must be really MAD

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Lies!!!!!!!!!

To all the ladies shouting never, are u saying u never cheated on ur boifees?

U were never smooched or kissed by someone who wasnt/isnt ur boifee?

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Never say never. You can only pray to avoid circumstances that could lead to temptations

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hmmm i dont think i can or would

but ive never been married

altho i very much doubt it

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The prayer is : God should not lead us into that kind of temptation. Poverty is worse than a disease

What's going on in Nigeria right at this moment??

Bankers are being laid off, the marketers have always been given financial targets that can never be met. A lot of wives are breadwinners and the feed not only their nuclear family, but parents and extended families too. If these ladies lose their jobs, the familes would be thrown out of their apartments and into the waiting arms of bad weather and thieves, amongst other sufferings. I am sure a lot of wives have slept with other men in order to prevent things like this from happening (I am even sure some husbands might know about it but deliberately turn a blind eye). I am talking about a situation in which you have looked for help and there's no forthcoming.

When you have kids and you see them suffering (I mean real poverty) in the midst of plenty, there's nothing you will not do to put some food on their plate.

Some women have turned to armed robbery of drug peddling instead of sleeping with someone to keep their jobs - does this make things any better?

Folks like sisterwoman might not know what I'm talking about . . cos Nigeria defies all logic.

Why did Adedibu become soo strong and people were ready to die for him: because he gave them amala, even without meat at times. These are poeple who have looked for work forever without finding any. They and their kids have gone hungry for days without help. He's dead now and his now hungry benefeciaries are the ones robbing people all over Ibadan.

The prayer is : God should not lead us into that kind of temptation. Poverty is worse than a disease

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Never Say Never!

Rightly said Sistawoman, Big Ups

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I learned a long time ago never say never. here is the example that taught me.

My policy has always been that if someone sticks me up and wants my purse that I would just hand it over because my life is far more important. I would sit with my friends and stake my head in bewilderment because I could not understand why the man/woman did not give up the purse/wallet and died over it.

Well on my way to work one morning, January 6, 2005, a young man ran up behind me and tried to snatch my purse. I did not let go. He hit me in my face. I did not let go. He bit me. I did not let go. he showed me his gun. I did not let go.

Something came over me and all of the "I would do this, I would do that" went out the window and in that moment I was not letting go of my purse. It had no money in it but it was mine not his.

That taught me to never say never, until i am standing in those shoes faced with what ever it is.

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na so all of una go talk,but wen e happen now una go say na hand wok of devil.if u all are innosent as u all cliames,how comes married men and women are the one running thingz in niaja?

@poster!God go forgive us

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@ poster No i wouldn't

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me as a married woman, God forbid.

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Never Say Never. . .

No SANE Person would want to cheat on his/her partner on a good day but at times,situation or circumstances might warrant such actions.

So I'll say don't say never until you ve crossed that mountain.!

The Yorubas will say [i]''Eni Ija O ba Lo N Pe Ara Re Lokunrin''.[/i]Literarily,It means Don't think you are man or woman enough if you have not been tested by travails/problems or trials/temptations.

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@Ujujoan, i like ur courage of standin out amongst de crowd of these immature liars. I respect dat!

All these 'holy-pass' adulterers wey dey claim 'innocenti', na una dey cheat pass, even when una dey sure say dem go eventually catch una. Lying bitches!

For me shaa, na by God's Grace wey me fit escape am, cos man!!! It's not always as easy as we think.

Cheat and not being caught, not even a trace!

Imagine say u and ur partner dey work for two different countries, and see once in a long while (say, every 6months), and these this cute and caring chic/guy at ur disposal, Abegi, make i end here, jo!

@MurderRator, wetin do de last topic wey i post? Better bring it back oh!

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@phillfree where in nashville r u

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hell no, i'm not the cheatn kind,

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I can't cheat, i don't feel a thing for any other lady than my wife.

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I would commit suicide before even entertaining the thought of cheating on my wife. Help me God.

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no, for me it is not about being righteous or anything as such, rather more about self respect and i wouldn't degrade myself to such level

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I would also hope that i would never ever cheat on my husband, but I learned a long time ago that you should never say never.

I keep myself out of arms way and try never to let the devil tempt me. I know that hubby holds it down and I am so scared of loosing a deffinante for a maybe that i dont even want to try another man. Why wonder outside when all I have to do is ask and hubby will do?

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true answer uju there exists a dr jekyll and mr(s) hyde in every one

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I'd love to say never like Ify. But you know . . . never say never.

I cant imagine myself cheating on my husband even if I know I wont be caught, I cant even imagine finding myself in such a situation.

But I guess I'll never know what I'm capable of, untill such a situation actually arises.

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Not for anything in the world.

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