would you date a girl your brother slept with
I'm currently in a relationship with a girl I know has been with my brother in the past. It was years before we ever became intimate, and she claims her experience was emotionless. It bothers me when I dwell on it, but I believe she is a great person, and one of which that I have grown to love and deeply enjoy being around. So much so that she has began school almost 3,000miles away, and we are now beginning a long distance relationship that will have to last 4years until she moves back, if we want a chance of continuing our relationship.
My brother and I have always been best friends, so I wanted to make sure that he didn't have any feelings for her or judged me for ending up with someone from his past; he doesn't, so I pursued. I continue to cope with this decision, but when you find someone that you can be yourself with, trust no matter where they are or what they do, and gets along with all your friends and family, I believe you should make the decision to try to keep the past in the past and do what makes you happy. Deep attraction and intellectual, as well as spiritual/emotional, connection is what keeps me going.
I wish you luck sir, as I know I need it too.