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Would You Date An Older Girl?

This Question is for "Brothers" in the room.

I prefer dating older girls and ladies to girls my age or younger for a number of reasons, which include stability, ability for some to "hold their own" and lots more.

What do say? Which do you prefer?

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Age is a just a FuQing number !! I can date and marry an older lady what matters most is the love and understanding

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@post

from a year older and above

Capital No,

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its no big deal for me .

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well i think it depends on what you define as older. I am 25 and i would date a guy who is 21 which is 4yrs older than me. if things work out hey while the hell not take it to the next level. I find that guys in their 40s seem to love women my age. I connect with them more emotionally but they tend to look like my daddy with their big ole pot bellies and gray hairs. why is that? hehehe

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sincerely, al grls hv datd sucesfuly in my life were al oldr dan me (1-2yrs). but d botom line in al des is dat i ws more matur minded dan dem. dat's importnt anyway, d guys maturity matrs 2hndle any relatnshp cos he's shldrin d relatnshp. nd one more tn, d guy shld be in contrl no matr who d grl is, evn if d guy is a dwart n d grl is omotola, he's in charg.

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I dated a couple of slightly older girls (1 and 2 yrs older) but I knew there was not going to be anything serious. In my mind, I knew I was just playing although they took it seriously, especially the first one

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Of course, the older the better, but I wouldnt marry an older woman but if its for sex, I prefer someone 10years older than I am, but not more than 10 years older.

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This topic i am a professional in it, Cos i have dated more than enough older ladies and even married ones,

What i enjoy there is i am safe from finacial problems,sexual satisfaction and what have u,

You can be happy with her and you dont need to be bordered on how she feels,

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You go through different phases in life

Right now, i am looking at dating and shagging women 5-10yrs older than me, and i am in my early twenties!

I can date an older girl, no big deal!

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I've always had this thinggy for an older, sexy woman, for many reasons. Lemme share one;

They know what they want, and they go str8 for it! You see, i noticed sumtin about Naija girls, some of em dont know what they want, some have an idea, but're always either too shy or too silly to go for it, some str8 up clueless.

For those of u saying peeps just like em for the money, I culd proudly call myself an xception, cos I aint no broke-Bottom, at least I can afford to live well, within my limit, that is. And u guys need to learn how to respect the feelings of others.If a man says he likes sumtin u dont, u dont have to criticise him, wish him well, ya hypocrites!

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i would date an older woman for her rich experience.

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i can, but not for money reason.

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yes i will date an older girl that is older than me, if the strong love is there because age is just number.

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Thoniaslim Hmm,

lets try to keep our minds Unclad

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sure,i will. i have and still will if she's my type of gurl

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YES,i will.Dating an older Girl is not the problem or issue but what matters most is dating someone you love and who also love you back.Love is greater than age. Thanks. Spyro

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Any guy who admits he can date or marry an older girl in Nigeria is a thief coz u r only after her money.

ABI U FIT DATE BABE WEY NO GET MONEY N IS OLDER THAN U?

ALL OF UNA B THIEF.

b real n realise dating an older gal is a sign of bn irresponsible n foolish.

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Any guy who admits he can date or marry an older girl in Nigeria is a thief because you're only after her money.

ABI You FIT DATE BABE WEY NO GET MONEY N IS OLDER THAN You?

ALL OF UNA B THIEF.

b real n realise dating an older gal is a sign of bn irresponsible n foolish.

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yeah I can and why not

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not bad,i prefer much much older ladies than the young ones,cos they are more experienced than the younger ones.if you know what i mean.

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i sure as hell wouldnt

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as long as she respects me,y not!!! age is jus a number

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sure why not. Nothing wrong so far there is understanding between you two.

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Love is no respecter of age, If you love an older lady and if she is ready to live with it then she'll respect u for being the head and not the other way round.

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I come to understand from your postings that you donot date older women, NO, NO SORRY, that you donot consider marriage cause you want to shape a younger woman to be yours forever? that is serious! I have 3 friends who are married to women 4years, 2yrs and 1year younger than the guys and their marriages look like a match that was made in heaven, age can never be a barrier to me if I wanna get married and I think the way the world is today that is something very practical.

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What if a woman would say "I prefer to marry a young boy because am goin to nuture him to grow and bcom the kind of man i want, he becomes compatibly mine 4eva"?

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Women mature faster than men;I wil date an older girl if she is sexy and appealing without considering marriage. I prefer to marry a young girl cos am goin to nuture her to grow and bcom the kind of woman i want, she becomes compatibly mine 4eva.

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if shes not married why not? what makes her different from younger babes is marriage, if thats not there I will, also I want to correct the impression that an older person is more experienced its not always true, from my experience very many youger people are also experienced I meant Life experiences, in a relationship you learn from eachother, and all babes including older ones like a very intelligent person, good listener, caring and attentive.

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Would I date an older lady?

Nope, because it won't work. I need children and the fact that she is older might stick to my brain and I will probably find a younger chick on the side. Just a fact,

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i would say yes cos is better to date older girl dat are reach to marry than small chicks, older girl would take good care of you and she would never want to loose you.

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If its dating and not marry, then i would. She's older means she's more xperienced

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@ nightrider i think she is ur sugar mummy

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well i'm presently dating a girl thats 7 years older than me,

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Thanks, the question is 4 the boys,

I just do not know, most of the girls i have dated, i later found out they are older than i, let me say from 1-3 yrs

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if i were a guy i would neva in a million years date an older gal

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I have dated 3 ladies that are older than me and they never see me as younger coz i have all what it takes to take them out and the relationship is not just a month relationship, it lasted for long.

So, nothing is bad, what is bad is that you date someone far older than you

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What is wron with dating an older girl..Its normal to me

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why not if we are in love lol

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I can date an older lady and even get married her, if we both genuinely love ourselves.

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sure bros, older girls are far better and more matured. i dated a girl 6 yrs older than me once and it's top of my list as my best relationship yet. She never got angry, never raised her voice, would never demand anything from you. and much unlike younger girls, u don't have to waste precious time reminding her you love her 100x a day, take her to mrBiggs every weekend and all that stuff and nonsense. besides if u ever take note, conversations with older and younger girls are markedly different. the younger girls are more into the "waht will you buy for me, do you like my dress, when are you going to come and see me" kind of stuff, nothing stimulating mentally. older girls are more matured and are more into what the future holds for them.

i will not hesitate to marry an older girl if God permits, you can travel and be rest assured that ur home is not going to go aflames because of one inexperienced kid!

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I have never dated a younger girl, i always dates girls that are 2-5 years older than me, though not intentionally. But one thing i realized is when am trying to date a younger girls, they are always not smart and intelligent enough and can't handle a man.

i will surely marry an older woman

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I can handle any type... Whether older or younger

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i was once have a relationship with a girl, unkown to me at the first place that she was older than i, with that idea that the older mostly dominate, i become less intrested in the relationship.

I then dated another and find out the same secret about her. she is older than me with a year & 6 months, i decided not to go too far with her and that was the end of it.

Even the one i am trying to get right now, i have found out that, in her certificate she is 8-months older than me, she is soo okay to me that if i tell her she is older than me, she will bluntly disagree.

After a good observation, i find out that older girls have all it take to be attracted to.

And when a gisting a younger girl they feel you are telling them story or rather a sinful act to indulge in

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I have never dated a younger girl..they are usually nervous ...I prefer them older within +-5 years from my age...

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Yeah it's is Good u guys aresaying all this oh.. lyke me now i got a a gurl older than me now...

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Now everybody is talking oh i got a problem here same problem u guys are talking about... i'm currently dating a gurl dat is older than me.. but she kinda nice and everything a man needs from a lady.. what should i do to that.. ?

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Now Evevrybody is talking .. got a problem.. i don't understand. oh. i'm currently dating someone dat is older than me oh.. What should i do. now

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Yes i would date an older lady, infact i have only dated only just one younger lady !! I think my reason is more of the maturity aspect rather than age, other reasons would be understanding etc. Age is just numbers really when it comes to love. But i wont date someone that is old enough to be my mum. Infact I wouldn't date a lady older than me for more than 3 years. Reasons? Taste not really age again. Too old very unpleasant, especially when it comes to getting committed as in official.

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