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Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?

i know girl who rejected a guy she liked because she found out that he was 6 months younger than her. I thought it was a very ridiculous thing to do.

girls, would you date a younger guy? why?

guys, would you date an older girl? why?

i guess this is a poll question.

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For my money,linking up with an older lady,romantically,apt.To bethroth a lady?Imcomprehensible!

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It doesnt matter. But some guys have an age limit. But why do nigerians make so much of a big deal about age?

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Of course I would. Getting married to one soon.

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the main ish is love, but the age gap between the two shouldnt be much, i can date a girl that is 2year older than me tho.

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We have over 1000 Nigerian youngies who would rather date older ladies.Check their reasons in http://sugarmummies.blogspot.com.You too can apply to join free by sending your profile to sugarmummies@gmail.com

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We have over 1000 Nigerian youngies who would rather date older ladies.Check their reasons in http://sugarmummies.blogspot.com.You too can apply to join free by sending your profile to sugarmummies@gmail.com

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We have over 1000 Nigerian youngies who would rather date older ladies.Check their reasons in http://sugarmummies.blogspot.com.You too can apply to join free by sending your profile to sugarmummies@gmail.com

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We have over 1000 Nigerian youngies who would rather date older ladies.Check their reasons in http://sugarmummies.blogspot.com.You too can apply to join free by sending your profile to sugarmummies@gmail.com

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yes i can,not even dating alone.i can marry an older inmate 1ce there is understanding,my woman can be older than me. OMO KO BAD

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double standard huh? you find it ok for an older man to date a young girl but not the other way around. interesting

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He said it all age is just a number bt on a condition if not more than 5yrs and if she doeasnt luk it

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IF SHE SHOWS ME RESPECT AND I TRULY LOVE HER NOT LUST, I THINK I WON'T HESITATE COS AGE IS JUST A NUMBER. BUT WHERE THE PROBLEM LIES IS WHEN WE BEGIN TO AGE WHO WILL TAKE CARE OF WHO COS SHE WILL AGE BEFORE ME, NEVERTHELESS I'LL LOOK OVER THAT & WAIT TILL WE GET TO THAT BRIDGE.

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In fact, one of them felt I was 5 years older.So,

It all depends on the maturity.

Age is just a number.There are 30 year olds who behave like 12 year olds while

Some great under 23s like me can even baheve better than some over 40s

So, its in the person not the age.After all, age is not written on the fore head.

Only in Nigeria does such rubbish count with.

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definitely, my g/friend i will marry is 2years older than me

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I don't agree with women dating/marrying

men who are 5/6 yrs younger or more.

I find it sickening to see women with men

young enough to be their sons,

e.g Madonna aged 51 and her boyfriend aged

22!!!

Although I do not have a problem with men

with women young enough to be their daughters.

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Why not? If both of you can handle it why not? if both of you are matured enough, no problem. Why throw love away in the name of numbers or society's unfair impositions. Love is the reason for any union, not age, not money, but love and love recognises no age difference. Poster marry your man, forget his age.

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lucky me you won't even notice it in my case

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Love and compatibility are the prevailing factors here.In that light;it would be my pleasure to marry a lady that is older than me.kini big deal.

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I HAVE DATED OLDER GALS AND WILL DO IT AGAIN IF THAT IS WHERE I FIND MYSELF.

MY REASONS REMAINS THAT THE ONLY PEOPLE ATTRACTED TO ME ARE AT THE END OF THE DAY 1 OR 2 YEARS OLDER THAN ME AND I ENJOY THEM A LOT BASED ON MATURITY.

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Oh yes i can marry a man younger than i am. Infant in my present relatiinship d guy is 6mth younger and we've been 2gether 4 over 3yrs now.Both parties are not desperate in anyway. Also in my extended family one of my aunties is 2yrs older than her husband and the've celebrated 25th year of their marriage and blessed wit 4 lovlly kids ,d first about to get married now.

Age may not matter in all relationships,what matters most is ur personalties and ur endurance

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I'd rada date a guy dat's younger and acts more mature dan a guy dat's older and acts younger as u knw many of d guys do. So it's a question of maturity not just in age but in acts, words and thots. Chikena

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I won't!

It will definitely be like of chris and rihanna

Even when the guy is older, its kinda hard, talk of when she's older, na die.

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Age is not just a number, sorry. That's another "urban legend" in Bawo's word, which many people use these days.

Many people saying they're comfortable dating/marrying someone younger/older still place a difference limit on it e.g s(he) can't be more than ---- years younger/older than me. If age isn't a number, why not date/marry someone who's old/young enough to be your granny or child? I'm just saying.

Age is more than a number, depends on what the number means to you.

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I can bt d diff cant b more dan a year

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I think the maturity of the person really counts in rocking the relationship and not the age.have seen a matured guy of 25yrs and a guy of 45yrs that has a brain of 15yrs. to me age is just a number.maturity really plays a big factor.too bad if you dont no this.

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Those of u saying no r just saying so because u've not fallen in love with u before.

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Age is just a number .

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Were you responding to the comment meant for me or do you have a man?

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Some people don't mature early so they tend to look young even when old, especially skinny people.

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that's an urban legend that has never being proven true.  BS

As per the thread, i won't mind an older woman

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yes of course i c notin wrong in dating a girl older than i as long as there is mutual understanding. it is not a big deal.moreso think about it , what if she lied concerning her age, would u know?[b][/b]

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of course. They offer more support,show more love and throw less tantrums.

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Sure, as long as we love each other.

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Age is just a mere factor in relationship,I av neva dated a girl am older dan,even right now,i am dating a girl dats is 2 Yrs older dan me.So wats the big deal?,

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Marriage should be contracted when you are convinced that God has shown you the right person, it doesnt matter the age difference.

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I can if she pretty and doesn't look older,most importantly if she has good manners.

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Honestly, I think I like older gals. From my experience, they tend to be more mature and understanding than the younger ones.

But there's limit to the age gap thing oo. For me, maximum of 3 years is ok. Anything above that is not welcome.

Skillworks.

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yes wld definitely, nd wld stil consider not been 2 old,,tink wld feel real gud wit a carin nd lovely person, cuz dats my person.and finally prettie 2 d feet inwardly nd outwardly, thanx

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why not especially if ur intentions are sincere, age shld never be a barrier 2 a relationship built on true and sincere feelings. i cant stop  askin myself why would pple jeopardize or destroy a relationship because of issues lik dis?Well i hv come 2 realise dat d only reason is external influence.One shld learn 2 follow his or her heart wen decidin on who 2 spend ur life wit. IT'S UR LIFE!

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When I was at Uni this girl fresh from Naija joined my class in the second year, both the same age and after a while I wanted to move in on her but she stopped my advance by telling me that she dates older men! that am too young for her! fair enough! we became friends within a period of 4 years she ended up sleeping with loads Married men who lied to her or those who have a fiancee waiting somewhere for them, in the end she had to travel back to Naija look for a bobo to marry then came back with her but the guy looked more like a pensioner!!!

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Sure I can if we are good together

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we've seen this a hundred and one times hia.

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This is a perfect case of letting society predict or colonizing on how you should live your life?

Its called shallow minded or narrow vision,  how long before the word "Our Culture" pops out!!!

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aint no big deal in dating or marrying a lady older than me .am not surprised at those that said no or never.it shows how immature they re when it comes to love.when you love someone ,age will automatically be a mere factor of numbers. yall need to grow up and handle biz like an adult and stop using culture as a motherfucking excuse.

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i m a few years above 25, but i m not 30, i am dating a lady who is 35 , so what d Bleep!!!

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to me ,it just a bad thing for a lady to be older than a guy

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@iice

Yeah, I undastand, lyk linda Hogan & Mariah Carey. Dats takin it 2 d extreme

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