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Would You Date Or Marry A Nigerian Girl If She Smokes And Drinks?

Guys i'm curious to know if you would seriously date or marry a girl who smokes cigarettes or maybe weed and drank.  Ladies i also want to know you think about this. Do you (Ladies) smoke or drink and what how do guys perceive and treat you?

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yea but a badman needs a good girl

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well said goodguy, cos a goodguy needs a goodgirl!

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Tobacco company - Killing millions to make millions.

Me, I wouldn't want to live a life of worries when she eventually has cancer of the lungs. And I wouldn't want to be a widower at an early age either.

Therefore, I will NEVER marry a smoker!

P.S. Smokers are liable to die young. Be wise.

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More women should smoke cigars and pipes. That will certainly raise women a notch in their quest for equality.

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if she can cook and clean ok, just try and consider for 6months if he cant hadle it then back out,

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abi o, pls help me tell them o

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dont really know,but if she changed u can

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lol, was just messing wid ya!!!

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forget a woman that drink and smoke, it's one that can't cook and clean, folks should be worried bout!

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u guys are just funny thats all! and big shishi never puts a lock on his shishi!

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yes can i help u, why the shining of teeth, lol

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badman, u wan use lagos mago-mago thief woman from shishi, be sef i me abeokuta warrior!!

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damn, i better get close to ur pups, oya introduction abeg, but for u nko if u are choosing

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nahh a drinker and smoker, is better than Indecency star or ashawo oooo,

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dominobaby, if i can marry a smoker and a drinker, i can marry anything!!!

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bad man, of cos not, lol

big shishi, abeg hint us,

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Hmm big shishi, me i dnt get da point o. Abeg explain.

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I wouldn't date a smoker but I can still be a friend. My friendship transcends categorization.

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lol, dont worry daddy wont do that, lol badman (rolls eyes), wetin?, lol

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why should i care what people say, they are alot of people out there who would like to date smokers, drinkers people that tall or short, personality, looks, sense of humor and many different things so each of us can't choose the same kind of person that is why we are uniqe in our own way. concluded

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so u care about wat people say bout u, damn!! i dont give no hoots wat people say bout me, as long as i'm living my life and i'm happy, wetin remain, if there was somethn more than chopping u raw, id do more than that, lol

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i agree with you that what inside that matters am just saying in general what people would think i know people that smoke and they have good intentions haba una wan chop me raw. Am just saying in a general community that wat comes to peoples head 1st

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wat silly impressions are u saying, probably u would say to u naijas, but i dont see anythn bad as long as u control urself and dont do it in excess, wetin sef, even some people who dont smoke or drink are even worse than those who do, ure telling me impression, impresion ko, espression attachment ni, damn!!!!!!!!!!1

ib i tell u close mindedness is a Dam, get real guys and be open minded

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@mamaput, i wouldn't indulge masef in such, knowing d consequences and y'all dnt need me to tell u the ill effects.

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Gone are the days when people judge you on your choices. People should be openminded

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Only if the lady is drunk. And i mean stupidly drunk that she is not in control of her self but same gose for men.

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but the impression it gives to people is that you are a bad person and iresponsible

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Smoking or drinking doesnt make u a bad person

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The qustion should be the other way round why she would not smoke or drink.

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you answered the question. It is a choice!!!!!.

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@ Ib, sure. But i stil wonder y someone would CHOOSE to do so.

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@dominobaby

Everyone is entitled to a choice on how they want to lead their lives. Thats why we live in a civilised where freedom of choice is the norm.

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Now i wonder y a woman would even decide 2 smoke n drink.

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There is noting wrong with smoking and drinking if you only do it in your home privately without nobody noticing.

But if you make it public its a hard issues because things you don't expect will come into your life to distroy you faster than you think for smoking in public,

I am saying this because of experience from most smoking addict,

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By the time she brings you home you havemade your impression of her your self.

Are you one of those that say like mother like daughter?

If it is smoking that makes you make an impression of me thats sad.

You know what my daughter used to tell her boyfriend "am not perfect and i cannot be perfect for you am not a wax figure and i do not function i live

Take me the way i am or forget it i cannot be what am not to impress you or your friends.""

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trust me mamaput

they can be bold

but guyz tend to stay CLEAR- AWAY from them

that is a fact

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Besides , meeting a gal's mum aint ma problem

The mum's character and personality is what matters most

If I was not a fling and am for real

& you smoke

There is a twist around on how I would take you and her to be

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I do not want to talk alot but I guess you already understand what I am trying to say

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wat silly exemples, is anythn bad in smoking damn!!! my first puff of cigar was at 7, so wat it do

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@ Bolex in the first place if you were dating my daughter you will only get to see me if she was 200 percent sure that of you that you are not just a fling: or so.

You have dissapointed me . You see those Female in Nigeria that drink an smoke outside are not the[b] Bad [/b] ones , they are the[b] bold [/b] ones they have less to hid than the others because "they just do not care" I will fear the others more.

You know what they say "Still waters go deep"

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I've had lots of fun with girls that drink and smoke. I'll do it over and over again because they're fun to hang out with. I don't preach to adults how to live there life. Marriage? maybe not. Marriage is overrated anyway.

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Truth is i will not find it funny if my kids smoke.

I almost went ma´d when my daughter allowed her friends to smoke in her room.

"your room were you sleep? what friends do you have ? they know you do not smoke yet they try that in your room? have you ever seen me smoke in your room?"

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I know it was ajoke what do you think.

my place is often full of people your age .and we joke a lot,

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thank you you my daughters age mate

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you too much for hiss

BIG MAMA

**hisses**

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mamaput

you need to quit ASAP

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I smoke too . Better smoking that drinking my head silly

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Even the white men that made ciggaretter are begging thier people to STOP SMOKING

na im 1 nigerian mumu gal go dey carry ciggaretters dey smoke

**hiss**

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smokes-yeah drinks -no i can't stand ppl who drink

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@Aunty Mary,

Why do we have to drop the 'african man' mentality? We're africans afterall. You really don't expect us to adopt the 'white man' mentality now simply because you smoke; hence we should see things their way.

Isn't it funny how you women expect us (men) to reason like 'other people' when it comes to issues that will only favour you; but when it comes to money spending, you then remember we're Africans who shouldn't forget our 'responsiblities'.

Nonsense!!!

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