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Would You Date Someone Who Doesn't Find You Goodlooking?

How would you react if someone tells you: you are not so goodlooking but I'd really like to date you. I think you are cool and fun and we could make a good couple together.

Men and women, what would you say?

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Rather than derailing the thread, let it die in peace.

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Nope. But are you one?

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What, a muslim?

We gonna ride it too the wheels fall off. . . I got that from a jigga man song. . .

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Is that possible?No one can tell me that.Someone actually told me she didnt want me cos she has never dated anyone' finer' than her.It wasnt funny cos I really liked d girl.She was serious until everythg died down.

Most babes/dudes should be nice enuf not to say anythg nasty about anyones look. hubba hubba

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Proverbs 17:9

Disregarding a persons faults preserves love.

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Read in between the lines. . .that's simply a polished way of telling someone you ain't interested in dating them. . .

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i missed it o. means ur not handsome enough

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yea that's true but there are many handsome ppl in this world could they all be the same??

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who would have thought u were seunnowell lol

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Yea of course I'm online. I'm posting replies aren't I. I think the seriousness has to do with the added stress of the pile of junk of work I'm dealing with.

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why r u being sooo serious lol r u online

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like you said, it's whateva

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hmm whateva u say c2.

so ur going to be on nl through the weekend huh

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i don't think you know what you're talking about but i'll leave you to whatever thoughts your imagination is feeding you @ oyin

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haha typical c2 always working his magic on different girls

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ok am back. seunnowell, i will give u a pikshur and u will use it as ur profile pic for 3mths if i win.

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I sort of dated one once.  Funny how after I was through working the magic on her she changed her melody n started singing different tunes.  Not goodlooking my Nigerian butt.

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lol topup ur so adorable. u look 16

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I've been told that before, but I got annoyed because, who said a stranger was to start judging me. I could be unstable for all they know. It turned out that the guy only said it to shock me because he said that it was to catch my attention, since he knew all the other guys would feed my ego with compliments, he wanted to stand out.

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well after the sting of such a realization or comment is over I might have dated him (cant right now married, but if I were single) But then again, I think the sting may last for years. will he wait that long?? dont think so. even though A friend of mine married someone she didnt find attractive at all, but she still loved him I dont think she ever told him she didnt find him attractive.

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fu ck good looks, by the time my di ck enters the pu ssy in a slow motion manner, she herself will cry out in an extremely loud voice, she will say, look na looks, but di ck na di ck, this di ck better pass all the looks in this world.

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HELL NO!!!!!! dont need the constant reminding! but seriously do pple really say stuff like that?

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NO!!! Just imagine! Even if YOU KNOW you're not goodlooking, it's so rude for him to say that. If he's attracted to you (whether for mind or looks), then why does he need to tell you you're not physically attractive to him, if not to break your self-esteem and make you feel like he's doing you a favour by dating him. I smell an emotional abuser from the get-go.

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No I won't. Whats the point. Its foolish to date someone who keeps praying in her heart for you to leave when you are at her house .

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Porter@i probably misunderstood cuz i was doing lots me stuffs den.Well yeah i'll date d person cuz it will turn out great.

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Then he/she must be demented to think we'd have something great going.

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@post, we no go ever flow

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Poster@D guy must b either GUD lookin or d kinda guy who is really attractd 2 beauty bt not 2 worry.I actually thinks he is attracted 2 u sumtin bout u Dats wat matters.Anyway he has an ego so use it 2 test him i.e put him on a long tin.Attraction lik dis is GUD.It will actually lead to a great relationship.

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i`ll if the person is not good looking too

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a friendship would be better than dating in this case. take it from there and see how it works, how can they even kiss if as soon as he gets his face close to hers, she is turned off?

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No: There should be some form of attraction.

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ugly for face or for mind?

ugly with good heart yes i will go for him

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If you don't mind what he said, then go for it. If you do mind the way he approached you, let it die a natural death, no need for drama. Not everyone you meet is a potential life mate.

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Chill, d fact dt d guy says she isn't goodlooking dozn't mean he dozn't find her attractive, dose re 2 different things.If a girl told me I wasn't goodlooking I wouldn't bliv her anyway,it's called self-confidence.

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''I like You but Your nose isn't suitable for Your face and Your eyes are a NO-NO''.

C'mon!! Either ways he woulda made his point clear. . . . .

I just find the act worthy of awe even though it would impermanently hurt one's confidence.

Not everyone is bold enuff to be that truthful. . . It takes only a friend to do that.

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i agree, thats just a confidence killer there!

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Yes, but are there not better ways to say somethng like that than to say 'you're not soo good looking'? lmao. haba that is too much now. lol.

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