Would you date your friend's(or relative's) ex boy-friend/husband?
It depends on some factors like ,
1. the terms of their break up
2. how u saw/felt they loved each other (the two ex(es))
love(emotions) is a pivotal ingredient that brings two together to love each or to establish a relationship. even if they break up, they still will have memories of each other's good/bad times. in a case where sex was involved in their relationship, there could be a repetition of that even after break up depending on how they permit the opportunity whenever the two ex (es) have the chance to spend an appreciable time together. and we guys know this, once u do it, u can always gain access again, (it depends on your level of discpline). But since this can be prevented, y not consider some other babes (there're lots of girls out there). It's even possible to prevent the emergence of a relationship with your friend's ex when u begin to feel the imminence of feelings between u two before things seem to get out of hand.
have u ever heard this? , that a guy hates to hear a girl talk about her ex in his presence. It's true
this is what i opine!
No way! It's a matter of respect first of all and second, there will always be trouble because of that. There are so many people on the planet! Why choose one of ur friend's ex? Plus, no matter what the friend would say, there still are some feelings inside bottled up. You can only damage ur present relationship with ur friend.
That's a NO-NO thing!
well, my friend ex and i have something going on though not official and public. its just a cruch that we both know and we are ating too decent to admit.but to i see nothing wrong in dating her my friend treated her real bad and i am just here to show her that not all guys are aseholes like him.
no! they say "never say never" but i can say never this. why? not b/c i'm puritanical but b/c i've been hurt/broken hearted before. long story short: i was in love w/ this guy. he was playing games w/ me. lying but i trusted him. i got my heart broken. i tried to be mature about it. like a month or almost 2 after our parting ways, i wrote him a letter & sent his b.f. present that i had withheld b/c i had been one of my best friends at Uni & i didnt want either of us to have a bad taste in our mouth. but he turned around and asked out 2, count 'em, 2 of my girl friends w/in like 8 days of getting my letter. that hurt so bad. i thought the pain would blind me & it opened up more wounds. i NEVER want to do that to someone else.
thankfully, both of my friends said "no". one laughed in his face & the other was like "not ever".
since there are usually some exceptions, i'd say an exception would be if they had dated very young & neither had any baggage. but i pray never to be put in that situation.
bottom line: they're more fish in the sea!
I am not sure if people feel me but imagine thinking how ur friend has used ur female friend (Sleeping with him and having intercourse for as long as it last) before It go be my turn.....that alone might make some people loose intrest. I try not to think of it cos it will make me not to date them....
never say never......its only one who wears the shoes that would know where it pinches....i cant say for sure that i wouldnt...wat if i never met this my friends ex while they were dating,then we meet and fall desparatly inlove..i dont know o.right now i would say never..but i dont know wat ild do if i find my self in such...i pray i dont
i personally dont see anything wrong in dating ur friend's ex,however, i'd ask myself/friend a few questions;1 does my friend still have feelings for him? if not girlfriend is in there! 2. Are there any children involved? if not kool.
I dated one of my friends exs when i was 16. they dated for one month , i lasted with him 4yrs. A friend of mine recently dated my ex, she knew i was cool with it cos she asked me first if there were unfinished business and i thot that was really mature , we are still friends by the way, ex included.
It all depends on the individuals involved , as far as i am concerned exes are just that, exes. i never go back to an ex so this means someone else is welcome to them ,why not ur friend?
It gets messy and notso friendly when all involved either lie,be sneaky or there are still feelings goin on.
After a reaccessment of this question, I believe tis too old fashion 4 the present world that we now leave in. One man's meat is the other man's fish. Ur ex could be my best and vis a vis.... Tis all in the mind I tell u... So far they do not have anything goin on the underside u do not have a problem. As u know, in dis world, we have the pros and cons so if things are still warm under then problem fit dey but if the ex is trully the ex then please be my guest........
loveth don't be so sure of it. your friend's ex is not your enemy. i guess you're doing it to show respect to your friend or to prove that you don't go after the guys your friend has dumped but what if he's the right guy for you? will hou be so silly (no offence) to let him away because of these unacceptable reasons??