Ok,picture this scenario: You're a guy. You're in a relationship with a very nice girl. She's a virgin(it's not some devious trick,she really is a virgin),and she says she's waiting till marriage. You're a decent bloke,and you love her like crazy so you respect her decision. She's a bit naïve,she's young;20,21,and you're her first serious r/ship. You've been together for 8,9 months. Prior to this,she was more financially buoyant;in fact,it'd caused problems in the past since you had a problem accepting her help. Anyway,now you just got a great job and you're now on equal footing with her financially. You move in together,but there's still no sex. You try not to pressure her,but you want her,badly,and living with her doesnt help matters. You try to make her see how difficult the situation is for you,but she still doesnt budge. Naturally,your r/ship becomes strained. You throw yourself into work and become distant,you don't talk,you never listen etc,and you use work as an excuse. It's not like you're doing it deliberately,you really love her,but still,your r/ship worsens and both of you quarrel often. Once,you travelld on business. You were gone for a few weeks,you never calld,you werent there when she needed you,basically you neglected her. During this time she grows closer to a friend of hers,a guy,who she's known for a while . He's in a wheelchair. He's in love with her,but she has no clue. She's naive and inexperienced. She doesnt see him as a man,she's unaware of his sexuality and how he feels about her. She doesnt see him as a threat(she thought he couldnt perform,not that he ever said so,she just assumed cos he's paralysed from the waist down). While you were away,he gave her the emotional support she needed. One night,he kissed her for the very first time. She got carried away,and that same day,he made love to her. You get back from your trip and notice she seems diff. In her defense,she did try to tell you,but as usual you didnt listen. You tell her you wanna do things right and u ask her to marry you.