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Would You Get Married To A Girl Who Has Children From Another Man?

A friend of mine - very pretty and nice girl - has two children from a black man (she's German) and now fell in love with a Nigerian, living in Nigeria.

I don't know if they have any chance, what will the guy tell his parents? that his woman has already children?

what do you think?

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Nigerian men likes to be in control. all my brothers have wife younger than them.

But why are you more concern than your friend?

It is her problem to deal with. Everyone has to make their experience.

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Yeah it was but sheesh, still dont wanna ever run into tht kinda chick.

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Sissy,

I dey inside my skin ooo. Just watched that star trek movie tonight, not bad not bad at all. I also recommend the movie obsession. Kai. I pray say make I no ever run into that kind chick oooo.

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body dey fine jare, u nko? i dey oo

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why not

better her than someone who has aborted a couple of times

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May your lineage live and prosper forever.

A good woman is a good woman with or without children

You've spoken like a man

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@@ Chuck BA$$  RE: a family of Rug Rats

Do you mean a family of Rug Rats like this guy:

Family: Barack Obama was born to a Kenyan father and a white American mother. His father, Barack Obama Sr., married his mother, Ann Dunham, while studying at the University of Hawaii. The couple separated two years after Obama was born. His father ultimately returned to Kenya, where he became a noted economist. He died in a car accident in 1982.

Obama's mother's second marriage was to an Indonesian man named Lolo Soetoro. The family moved to Indonesia and Obama remained there until he was 10 when he moved back to Hawaii and lived with his grandparents while studying on a scholarship at the elite Punahou Academy.

God bless this Indonesian man,  Maybe a white man can do better?  I hope your representing all black men, because we will be in trouble.

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I don't blame you

Immaturity is your problem

when you become a man you'll realise that the fact that a woman has no children,does not make her a saint.

You may not know the countless abortions that have eroded her uterus

You may never even know if she's lost one or both fallopian tubes to ectopic pregnancies rendering her unable to conceive

You will be a man someday,hopefully.

You do sound "imbecilic" BTW,hopefully you won't give birth to someone just like you.

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Yes she has. If she wasnt expired, she would have been the flavour of the month competiting with other single sexy chicks for a man to marry her, but marrying someone who has already bosom fed Men and babies a million times, is definately not something a single man should aspire towards. Rather he should concentrate on starting afresh with a fresh, clean, unadultrated, pure and definately child free and not lactating Chick to marry. The major adavantage of not having excess baggages in terms of kids (Probably f**king ugly dense imbecilic kids i might add) is that you dont have to worry about the problems they inherited from their previous relationships.

They can go hungry, starve and jump into the lake for all i care, i am more concerned about Men dating single girls who havent visited the labour room before and are now stranded looking for someone to dump all their BUKATA ontop!

They should have Thought about that when their ex hubby was screwing their brains out to produce a bang baby that is now either a bastard or searching for someone to call daddy again!

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Many little boys on this forum.

So a woman becomes an expired cargo because she has kids?

What a childish thing to say.

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mntpaul, Na wah oh ! Una like 2nd hand for una family oh !

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I would love a woman with children and I would love her children. My father married a woman with a child and his step son is my brother; I love him. I have two brothers that married women with children; they are my nephews and nieces; I love them. You can adopt a children and love them as your own as well.

If you can purchase a pet like a dog or a cat and love them. Can we not love a child from some other father?

I don't get how come people put so much emphasis on blood lines? I think this blood linage value must be some sort of social construct based off of Old English ideals.

Be a Warrior and do not allow these concepts of the mind get in the way of love.

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No, not even if she has aborted before.

to be honest with you that guy is after his paper work, forget love. Wait until his paper issues is completed and see if he really do have that strong feeling he had when they dated. The guy is playing smart and trust the parents to accept her for who she is (even is she has grandchildren).

i am just curious why your friend has a liking for black thing.

wetin she dey find wey she no fit see for there?

age and no of children are no barrier, carry on and the outcome will be waiting for you in future.

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I wouldnt. The kid's father will always take priority.

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~ It depends on a lot of tins ~

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no, but after reading here that a guy is concerned about getting married to a girl that is a single year older than him, a difference of four, five years seems to be an eternety.

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ok, no offense. so your friend must be very old since you said:

hope she is not a pedofile.

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its a diff call, but if u like her personally then the kids come along with the package.

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busi-bodi, as I said, I am married. I had the child before.

but my friend hast to kids. and she's in love with a very young guy without any kids.

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many things to look at:

how old are the two kids, how old is the woman, how old is the man.

there is nothing love cant do.

I suspect you are the person

people always come here asking on behalf of there 'friends'

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Not all rela/ships ends/ shld in marriage.

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Lol. *second handed everbody*

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Couldn't have said it better.

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You spoke my mind,its as easy as that.

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Sorry o, my sista! I truly believe a man should accept me and my kid before goin into marriage, if not the child will be a constant reminder he is not the first to father your child. I admit not all men are into a ready made family.

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sista-jay, my husband married me although I had a child already. but I see that it's not all that easy for him to deal with that,

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Kai!! are there people like you still talkin dis kan talk. The man wants the woman, children or no children, its called love. Almost everybody is *second hand*

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but it would be very obvious that your wife is 'second hand'.

or would you claim the kids to be ur own?

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Hell no, just kidding;

it all depends on your hearth. Love can do anything, eventually everything.

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Personally, I would, yes.

I don't see the need of dating a single mom, if I have no intention of getting married to her.

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Personally i will not but i have dated some single mums b4 which ended when the issue of marriage comes up.

In ur friend's case, her Nigerian bf may not give a dam about her previous relationship and kids untill everything is done and dusted, i mean they got married, paper issues sorted out then he may strick leaving ur friend heartbroken, BUT i may be talking rubbish here.

In another scenario, it may work out IF her Nigerian bf has been married b4, maybe age 40 and above, not interested in having more children.

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