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you know like how parents always claim they know what is best for their children even when it comes to mate selection in marriage/ relationship,

if you find someone you really love so much with all your heart, and you introduce him/her to your parents and they object, and advises you to end the

relationship because they have the eyes of the wise one and see something very Peculiar about the person which you havent noticed or doesnt think is

true would you listen to them and end the relationship or would you go with your heart and contiune loving?

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how many times do we have to answer "same questions & posts". I contributed to a thread like this yesterday.

@poster, i will recommend u check out other posts related to this question of urs for variety of answers. So, i will just answer u this way "it is not healthy" and please cast ur net somewhere else preferably outside the office premises if u wanna enjoy true love and freedom.

best of luck.

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If things dont work out, you'll find things uncomfortable

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i definitely would listen to them, cox sometimes when some pple are in love, they choose to be blinded by it, and b4 they regain their sight the damage is already done.

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its kinda hard sha, but i will try 2 make dem see reason wit me, if dey dont o boy i go follow my heart o.

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honestly if a guy introduces me to their parents, i happen to know that they don't approve of me and there is nothing that will change their minds

about me, i will kindly end the relationship though i may really  love the guy.  cause eventually if the guy disobeys his parents and we get married,

it is really going to be hard for me to get along with them and you know nigeria marriages are, when u marry a person u are not only marrying that person

but also his/her whole family so it will definitely make me look like an outcast which will be very awkward to deal with.

however if i introduce a guy that i really love and my parents objects, it is going to be very hard to deal it, though they might know more about

marriages/ life and relationships, i must also put my won choices on the table, cox evetually i'm the one who is going to live with that person,

not them but it is going to be very hard

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They say when an elderly person tells you something or gives you an advice, no matter how foolish it may seem considering your present situation, go and think about it. If I introduce a girl to my parents, and they object, I would heed to their counsel if I know its the best option for me.

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Easy to say "I'll go with my heart" When yawa go gas now. . they will run back to their parents.

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This one is a little sticky for me because I have ignored my Dad's warning in the past and stayed with the relationship and he is ALWAYS spot on.

Lets just say thank God he approved my hubby and thank God I am never getting married again.

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go with my gut feelings 100%! unless they uncovered a part of his past that I didn't know about e.g. he's a killer, woman basher, armed robber etc etc

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No one can tell me that

It is about a woman i want to spend the rest of my life with

If anyone is not happy, say gobe!!!

Wedding will go ahead, anyone wey no wan come go watch video later!!

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Listen to them, their advise, their reasons for objecting, why and so forth, try and see it from their point of view etc, if I can still see no problem in my choice for a husband then I will follow my heart

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what if they insist you end it or you will be disowned or they will not come to your wedding or have anything to do with you ko?

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Whatever happened to ELOPING!!!

Solomon Island----here i come.

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I would defo go with my heart!!

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I WILL EX IT NI OOOO, CAUSE I NEED THERE BLESSING

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