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Would You Kiss On A First Date?

I really think its odd kissing on a first date.The girl will look so cheap and i dont think its wise giving ur heart away that early.

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Sure notting is wrong with it ! by the tme you catch kissing flu, you go know.

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No -- there's a smiley that does that.

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Hmmm. [how do you make a "rolling eyes" smiley?]

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Is that a confession?

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I have been searching for this thread since sunday.

Okay here's it is.

I came back not to change my words, but to Losen up a bit.

Saying "kissing on first date is blah blah, self control blah blah, is definitely "easy to say". BUT When u are in that position where chemistry is taking it course, it's HARD".

Now i know and im here to say that, it's hard to control oneself, but a girl should at least try to do it, it definitely makes the guy give u more respect. I know wat im saying!!!

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no i will not do that on a first date

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It shows a lack of self-control. There's nothing stopping either partner from thinking, "this guy/girl is really loose -- just this on a first date. what'll he/she want the next time we go out?'

This is just my opinion -- I'm not saying everyone should think the way I do.

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@ Zak you said, "I definitely won't. I haven't done any [gone on a date or kissed] but I like to think of myself as someone responsible." are you saying people who date or kiss are irresponsible?

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omo you guy's make me laugh, i guess the answer to whether you rotten is with the guy, cause no matter when you do the thing does not mean you stay or go

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Most of y'alll got 'first date complicated"some of u don got it alll twist up.

My english sounds strange uhn, well you're about to hear more.

To some people, first date goes thus.

The girl is in your class, u like her so much, then u had the nerve to ask her out, so you're going on a date next weekend. Now that's a first date, you r going to get to know each other n ish.

To others, first date is:

You've been talking and ish, and you're now into each other, so he won a lottery (j/k), and he wants to take u to a restaurant or movies or summin, Well, yeah that's a first date alright, but not in the case of the first one. This one, u can kiss all u can like,

But if you kiss in the first one, Comma dey your case ojere (meaning,, i wont say its totally wrong, but it aint totally right either), No matter what anybody says about iits not being cheap, true love, i like him, his lips, his blah, Abeggi, save that for the bushes, U r not responsible!!! The truth hurts, but daing, ?

best believe me, i'd appreciate a kiss on the cheek/forehead/tight hug/soft talks, than you sticking your tongue down my throat.

Wait o, im not done, Cos i can see someone jumping of their skin already, , I'm not saying those who kiss on the 'first kind of first date i described are "LovePeddler/silly", im just saying, it pays to leave the guy wanting more. Let him want it, so u won't go home calling your friend or making anoying topics on Nairaland About "i gave him my number on the first date, why hasn't he called me".

Most girls don't know this, but even the "thugish" guys love reserved girls, Leave him wanting more.

When you r now dating, u can go saying "A kiss is just a kiss, i can kiss all i want, but just reserve the first date, there's always second date, third etc."

I actually think it's only people that don't see a future in each other that kiss on first date, they know they won't get to do that agin, so hell, why not?

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i KISSED ON MY FIRST DATE, and didn't think it was cheap, i love him and he loves me, and we're both responsible adults, so i don't think there's anything wrong with kissing on your first date.

What matters is who your with, and the feelings mutual.

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Yeah i did kiss on a first date.I asked for it and i got it.The feeling was strange cos i was expecting the girl to say"oh this is our first time out and you want me to kiss you!"

i was kind of suspicious of the whole drama.I mean when she kissed me.It came too early.

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i mean why did U go out together in da first place, it was cuz U fancied each other right? so U migh as well get to knw ya lips as well

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Kissing is nothing! you should be asking if you would Shag on a first date.

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an irresponsible man who is in love

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kissing on a first date potray u as an irresposible man

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Omg the sex will be something I would love to remember, wont stop at kissing. Well some dates are horrible u just wish the ground could open and u sink in, or trying to get the next cab home ,

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kiss ka me i make love the first date you come dey talk of kiss i beg spare me

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Welcome to Nairaland kenny. I'm sort of new too. There's a contact page on my blog.

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hello zamaka,how are you?looking for a friend am new here

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I definitely won't. I haven't done any [gone on a date or kissed] but I like to think of myself as someone responsible. Kissing on a first date [except I kiss her cheek] implies I'm looking for something else because it's not possible to love someone on a first date.

Love is a feeling that grows.

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