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Would You Like It If A Girl Was To Approach You? (directed To The Fellas)

You like a girl, she likes you but you don't make a move (i dunno maybe because of fear) would you like it if the girl approached you or would you think of her as desperate? Guys I want to hear from you.

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You know, personally, I do not see anything wrong with that, if she will come to the first guy, and speak with him or simply to meet. If you are confident that your mutual affection, why not take a chance and try your luck. It is the fate you knowingly brought together and a chance to meet. If a girl comes to the guy first, it is absolutely normal, bold, and not the kind of girl will not look stupid in this situation. Only when a girl is not the first to approach the guy, if it is against the customs and the canons of the country in which they live. But as you know, then, they are rules to be broken.

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Nice rebuttle there, chump.

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Please, for the ones claiming to getting approached. The average naija man on here has a face only a mother could love. Same with the women, they'e only options are sadly, naija men.

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FL Gators, Missy B, Spikey, Tope - they've all approached me.

One is even approaching me right about now. Its a norm

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^^ So whatcha been doing for TG?

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naija girl: dont approach ( or pretend not to approach)

foreign girl: approach away

hypocrites

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What! Are you kidding me? Asking this question is like asking a cat if it would like a rat to be brought to its dinning table. Do you all think that chykin is easy. Chykin is labour intensive so if there is any thing that takes off the labour i'll really appreciate it. It beats my imagination how women want to compete wit men in every area. In politics they want to be the head, in business they want to be on the top, even In bed they want to stay on top. But when it comes to approaching a man they seem to shy away. Ladies remember, what a man can do a woman can do better. So go ahead and prove that to us. Afterall wat is good for the goose is good for the gander.

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personally, i love a gurl who has Fluid. so i will not see her as desperate, infact her rep will increase.

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It doesn't change anything unless some guys want to make an ego out of nothing

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^^^ More than enough sef.

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e don tey wey nyash don get center pathing.

nofin new.

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a lady that aproach a man is counted cheap,but to me its not bad

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olodoo. johnbull like you. itibolibor.

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if she is handsome and rich plus lekpa; why not?

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approaching a guy doesn't make you cheap. its the things you do after the meeting that defines you as cheap or otherwise.from my own experience, the few girls that approached me were bad news.not because they approached me, but because they were always after the money.

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If a girl approaches me for a relationship there is no big deal in it, infact it will give me the impression that i am irrestible. You know what that means. peace.

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If a girl approaches me for a relationship there is no big deal in it, infact it will give me the impression that i am irrestible. You know what that means. peace.

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Happens all the time and its embarrassing

so babes should just give guys a signal (a look) to come over and talk to them.

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Its no big deal, go for it.

A girl has approached me b4, its ok.

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In other parts of the world, its no big deal if a girl asks a guy out.

But in Nigeria, it isn't advisable for a girl to approach a guy.

If you love a guy, show him the green light. If he doesn't make any move, then let go so that you won't be referred to as the desperate type.

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