I have a friend who is about marrying "a househelp". This lady was introduced by someone to his parents who took her in. Along the line, he fell in love with the girl. According to him, she is everything a man will pray for in a woman: pure in heart, very hardworking, gentle, brainy and of course beautiful. It is already tearing his house apart but he would not bulge. What do you advise naralanders?